I think that we have some miscommunication here &/or that you have some preconceived perception of something that isn’t the case.
This thread was originally about Prostate Support XT, and I replied to the thread answering questions about the product. As the conversation turned to prostatitis, I tried to offer helpful information as its something I’ve had myself in the past – and mine was unique bc it happened when I was in my 20’s – so I had hoped that by sharing my experience, it may help someone else one day.
I didn't take anything as negative towards me until your last post where you quoted my post and it seemed like you were trying to say that I said something that I never said.
I didn't even understand why you were saying what you said in your last post - because you quoted me and made it out like I was saying things that I didn't say - which I clearly explained in my reply. Including saying that I didn’t understand where you were going with what you were saying directed at me (which I took directed at me bc you quoted me).
- You made a post in the thread that when your problems started, you were on some natural muscle builders.
- My very first reply to you was trying to be helpful to you and anyone reading and what I stated are facts, not opinion:
- The statistics related to prostatitis.
- That just because we experience something while taking a supplement doesn’t mean it’s the supplements fault, especially when it’s such a common problem.
- It’s highly unlikely that a supplement will cause it, but whether a supplement can aggravate it or exacerbate it can vary by the person.
- I was trying to be helpful by saying that it stood out to me that you said that you felt better on vacation and may want to mention that to your doctor.
- In my second post, I agreed with you on some of the things that you said and said that one of the things you said was what I meant – about it being more likely that something would aggravate something than actually cause it. (I said it, you said it, so I thought we agreed on it).
- And a major point I was trying to emphasize its that it’s important to not blame a health issue on the wrong thing (anything) because it may keep a person from finding the actual cause, which if environmental, isn’t going to change unless you know to change it, which is going to make the situation recurring.
- I also mentioned a probiotic that helped my stomach after a doxycycline course – which we don’t make, and I suggested it to help you bc its inexpensive and worked better for me than several much more expensive ones I tried before it.
- I took it that you understood what I meant because in your next reply, you replied back about you had thought about that (the environmental part) and thought about it possibly being a bidet or the water supply in your area.
- Apparently, you thought we were having some type of negative back and forth, when I thought I was trying to help you and that we were agreeing.
- Which is why it surprised me when you quoted a reply of mine that wasn’t even to you and replied to it – and it seemed like you were saying I said things that I didn’t’ say or even say anything close to.
- My post you quoted was actually about me explaining things to watch out for with Tongkat Ali, which you ironically then accused me of in your last post not wanting anyone discussing – when I was the one providing details on what to watch out for.
You said:
You take everything in a negative way—you always d, and you think this or any comment might harm your business. My words are mine. Where did I say that you said anything?
^^^ You’re the one that quoted my post and typed all of that out directed at me.
Why would I take it as directed at me? Because you quoted me.
You said:
I’m speaking for myself. In another one of my posts, I even THANKED YOU for your supportive words.
^^^ Yes, which is why I didn’t realize there was a problem. I was participating in discussion and trying to post information that would be helpful to people following along or reading in the future.
You said:
At this point, I don’t even know how to write on this forum without you feeling attacked. We’re talking about our own experiences, not about businesses.
^^^ Nothing about any of my posts in this thread have been about business, other than answering direct questions about our product. The only actual product in this thread that I said anyone should look into was telling you that BB536 as a single ingredient helped me a lot after a doxycycline course and I told you that because I spent 49.99 and 59.99 on two probiotics that didn’t help and the one that wound up helping cost less than 20 bucks and is NOT one of our products.
There was nothing about any of my posts that was attacking you. I thought we were having an informative conversation until the post you made quoting me and talking about natural supplements, etc.
And I didn’t reply back to that negatively, I even said that it seemed like you were taking me as disagreeing with you when I wasn’t. Copy and paste of what I said:
I'm not sure where you're going with this, because you're saying something I never said.
And your post seems like you're taking me as disagreeing with you - when I've tried to help you and wished you well, and continue to try to reply to points in the thread to be helpful to anyone reading.
Your comment:
Did I say that the SNS products gave me prostatitis? No. Could I say it? I could.
^^^ I didn’t know what you were taking. My comment about a supplement being unlikely to cause prostatitis, but that they may aggravate an existing condition was about supplements in general.
You can say what you want to – it doesn’t make it correct.
Let’s use me as an example:
- I have an autoimmune condition that I was diagnosed with in 2011 – was I taking prescriptions in 2011? Yes. Was I taking supplements in 2011? Yes. Did either of them have anything to do with my autoimmune condition? No.
- I get sinus infections a lot because I have bad allergies. Do I take prescriptions? Yes. Do I take supplements? Yes. Are they to blame when I get a sinus infection? No.
I hope you can see my point there – that just bc something happens when you’re taking something doesn’t mean it caused it.
Your comment:
Today, being constantly made to feel attacked is exhausting. Freedom of expression, as long as it’s expressed respectfull, is always valid, no matter what.
^^^ I have no idea what you’re talking about or going through that’s making you feel that way because I haven’t seen anyone here attack you. I know that I wasn’t – my posts towards you were meant to help you and anyone else reading that may be trying to learn.
Your comment:
I also said, I have a bottle of cloma-plex waiting to be opened, so do am I trusting sns? Looks like, right?
^^^ I never said you mentioned anything about any particular company. I didn’t even know what you were taking. I also never said that you said anything negative about our products.
There was never even anything in my discussion in this thread with you that was related to our products. The only product I mentioned to you was BB536 and I mentioned the ingredient, not the brand I bought it from.
Your comment:
I know perfectly well that you don’t want any health issues to be discussed in a forum where you’re promoting your supplements, in this case, Tongkat Ali. I wasn’t born yesterday.
^^^ The post of mine that you quoted was literally me discussing what to look out for with Tongkat Ali supplements. So I don’t understand how you can say that.
You also may or may not know, but I wrote a huge post years ago about the importance of Tongkat Ali not only being standardized for certain constituents but about the method in which it was standardized – you can find my posts discussing that years ago before Tongkat even got as popular as it is now.
You can also find posts from me since it did get so popular warning people of using reckless dosages of generic raw materials because there was no constituent consistency and because they extraction methods may not be done correctly.
You can also find a long post I made explaining something similar about the different types of Ashwagandha years ago and cautioning people on only using KSM-66 or Sensoril (that was before Shoden even existed). That was about a year before the Indian government did a press release warning of basically what I had discussed.
There have been multiple ingredients that people have asked for over the years in the Tell Us What You Want From Us threads that I’ve explained that we wouldn’t use or offer because of potential health risks associated with them.
I’ve had at least three different company owners complain about me over the years for being too truthful when it comes to ingredients on here. And nothing I ever discuss with ingredients is meant to be disparaging towards any particular company, its to safeguard consumers and help educate consumers.
I post here to help people. AM isn’t active enough to be a big ‘business’ thing for me. I post here because I enjoy helping people, have posted here for over 20 years, and try to do my part to keep the place active and going.
Your comment:
I spent hundreds of dollar in your company and I can give my opinion and my thoughts.
^^^ I want to emphasize again that I didn’t even know what products you were talking about, and no one ever said not to give your opinions.
You seem to have it in your mind that I took you as saying something negative about our products, when I didn’t even know what you were taking. My reply would have been the same because it was about facts and ingredients – regardless of the brand you were taking.
You've had an uncharacteristically negative attitude in this thread to begin with. I chalked it up to you going through what you're going through and hurting, which can make anyone not themselves. I have always liked you and tried to help you, and actually always enjoyed our conversations, so no idea where the negativity towards me is coming from.
I wish you the best and hope that you get better soon. If you wish to discuss further, you have my contact info.
One last thing - and this is me trying to help you - if I were you, I would try thinking about every single thing I use that touches my body, especially my privates – soap, body wash, lotions, lube, condoms (if applicable), I even know someone whose partner was on the NuvaRing birth control and it caused him to have UTI’s. None of those is likely to give you prostatitis, but they can absolutely aggravate the heck out of it if it’s something you’re sensitive to.
Good luck man and I hope some of the info winds up being helpful.