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serious relationship question

Yah dude...I just sumbled onto this thread today...I had a very similar situation...I was with a girl for 3 yrs...we moved in together during undergrad...we got engaged...she convinced me to move an hour away from school because she basically dropped out, and wanted to be closer to home...I transfered jobs...it sucked, save a few great friends I made...lived there for a year, then she started ****ing some guy while I was at school/work...I moved out...swallowed my pride and moved back home for 6 months...finally moved out again, all the while she had been stringing me along, calling and harrassing me...I finally changed the #, and that was it. Now? I'm with one of the great friends I made when we moved to her hometown. We've been together for 9 months, and everything is pretty good. I learned that YOU CANNOT MAKE SOMEONE ELSE YOUR LIFE! Who you are with does not define you! I'm still the same ol' nerdy Ryan...and I found someone who likes that. Have faith in yourself, surround yourself with like-minded friends. I'm with the girl of my dreams now...enough that I'm going to a ****ING kelly clarkson concert on friday LOL...

Don't give up.
 
rampage jackson- You are right man. For the longest time, she was my life. I didn't do much of anything outside spending time with her. I blew off my friends many many times so that I could spend time with her. I learned a lesson similiar to what you learned, it's to not live for someone else's happiness. It's good to hear you found somebody. That really gives me hope.

TC- I'm moving along, at a slow pace I'll admit, but I'm moving along. This may sound bad, but I hope she truly is unhappy. Maybe this will open her eyes, and make her realize that I was wronged too. Hopefully make her feel a little guilt.

moklepaul- To tell you the truth, I think it's kinda funny that she's uncomfortable talking to me about her bf. She used to never have a problem talking with anybody about me. In fact, I think she used to brag to her friends that she found such a great guy, although that was awhile back.
 
Cold said:
rampage jackson- You are right man. For the longest time, she was my life. I didn't do much of anything outside spending time with her. I blew off my friends many many times so that I could spend time with her. I learned a lesson similiar to what you learned, it's to not live for someone else's happiness. It's good to hear you found somebody. That really gives me hope.

TC- I'm moving along, at a slow pace I'll admit, but I'm moving along. This may sound bad, but I hope she truly is unhappy. Maybe this will open her eyes, and make her realize that I was wronged too. Hopefully make her feel a little guilt.

moklepaul- To tell you the truth, I think it's kinda funny that she's uncomfortable talking to me about her bf. She used to never have a problem talking with anybody about me. In fact, I think she used to brag to her friends that she found such a great guy, although that was awhile back.
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Trust me one day she will realize what she missed out on, and you may even get a phone call admiting it, but know she will realize it....Nothing wrong with wishing her unhappiness, were human, its ok :)

Glad your ok, keep strong and you will be the better in the end :)

TC
 
toughchick401 said:
Trust me one day she will realize what she missed out on, and you may even get a phone call admiting it, but know she will realize it....Nothing wrong with wishing her unhappiness, were human, its ok :)

Glad your ok, keep strong and you will be the better in the end :)

TC
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Thanks again TC. :)
 
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