beau, it sounds like you are what back in the day was called a 'fortunate son' all the pieces came together for you, caught a few breaks, were born with above average inteligence and most likely had good parents as role models...you should consider yourself blessed, it sounds like you are living the good life...
i too consider myself a 'fortunate son', having been a drunken alcoholic for most of my life i was able to turn it around and find sobriety and a much better life...do i look down on those less fortunate who have not been able to find the path to sobriety, no... i feel it is my obligation and duty to help those who have not been so blessed as i have...i don't know why i was able to obtain something other's who are much brighter, better educated, and wealthier have not been able to find....i just consider myself blessed, and try to do anything i can to help those who may not be so fortunate as i am....
but for the grace of GOD there go i.....i feel sorry for those who would look down on those less fortunate!!!
I came from a very middle class family. My parents loved me. For both of those reasons, I am indeed very fortunate.
But, I have also worked my butt off for everything else that I have been blessed with. I refused financial help from my parents while in college; thinking that was my price to pay. I completed graduate school while working full time, with two little kids and remodeling a house.
After my ex-wife of 27 years had her first affair, I went through all the hard work to try to make it work. I gave my vow, even if she crapped on hers. And, I sure as hell did not want another man raising MY kids.
After her 2nd affair (get this, she was the Director of Contemporary Praise Music at our church and was having an affair with the Choir Director), I divorced her and had to rebuild myself financially after having to give her half of EVERYTHING and having to put my two two sons through college (since the inheritance left for my wife, that specifically included amounts to support the college tuition for my sons was withheld from my sons by my ex-wife, their so-called mother).
I can legitimately say, I have busted my ass.
What I do not respect is those that aren't willing to bust their ass, and then expect hand outs.
And not all misfortuned people fall into that group.
I do not look down on those less fortunate than me. In fact, through church and other ventures I try to help those that want to improve themselves.
As to God; yes, I agree 100%. I could not have gone through all of this and would not be where I am without God -- and I KNOW that.