Have you seen a dermatologist? I've encountered people with severe eczema before and drugstore products that were recommended to them are the following:
Cleanser:
- Cetaphil Gentle Cleanser: It's the one that has the consistency of goo. Completely soap-free and you have the option of rinsing it off with water or tissuing it off
- Eucerin calming cleanser: soap-free, I believe
- Cera Ve cleanser: also a goo consistency
Moisturizer:
- Cera Ve moisturizing lotion (in a pump): I LOVE this lotion. It doesn't have that greasy feel like most lotions have. In fact, I will go on to say that it has a unique formulation that lets your skin breathe while protecting it from the elements. Definitely recommend. It's really gentle and you can use this in the morning. It doesn't have SPF though and I don't know how sensitive you are to products with SPF. This also comes in a cream, if you feel that the lotion doesn't cut it for you. It's in a tub though and a bit unsanitary, but I'm a chick and I'm like that.
- Eucerin Aquaphor Ointment: Basically vaseline on steroids. I would imagine you can use this at night so that you won't be in public looking like you smeared grease all over yourself. It comes in a huge tub or a little tube. I love this stuff, too. I have combination skin and I get days where the weather is just f-ing with my skin so I slather this on overnight and it fixes those dry spots in the morning. Also great for chapped lips. A very versatile product. You can use it on rough elbow, feet, etc.
- Cetaphil Moisturizing Lotion/Cream: Extremely greasy and don't really recommend unless your skin simply does not respond to CeraVe.
I would recommend using completely soap-free products for cleansers. You already have sensitive skin, you don't want to make it worse by using harsh detergents that strip away natural oils or abrasive grains that will further irritate your skin. As for moisturizers, try one of the above, I suggest CeraVe because it's much lighter than Aquaphor and Cetaphil. Just know that it will take some time for your skin to get used to a moisturizer, so if it doesn't work overnight be patient. All these products are available at Walgreens and CVS. I haven't seen CeraVe at Wal-mart, but I know for sure that Eucerin and Cetaphil are available there. CeraVe is pretty pricey though.
I read an awesome article about supplements you can take to stimulate natural oil production in skin. If I ever find it, I'll let you know. I'm not a big advocate of slathering oils on sensitive skin, especially heavy ones like coconut oil, castor oil, olive oil, etc. Great for normal skin and regular dry skin. Oil basically forms a protective layer and some people react great to it and some not. The skin needs to breathe and films of grease prevent it from doing that. However, I will share with you OCM. Oil cleansing method is basically using a combination of Jojoba, Olive, Castor oils (measured according to your needs) to cleanse your face instead of using soap and water. Some women LOVE this and claim that it leaves their skin soft, smooth, and moisturized, but others argue that all it does is clog your pores and cause breakouts. You gently massage this blend of oils onto your skin, loosening dirt, makeup, dead skin cells from your pores, then you take a washcloth run it under really hot water, wring it out and place it on your face and let the steam open your pores and further loosen dirt. Gently wipe the oil away from the face and repeat the process till all the oil is gone. You have the option of moisturizing afterward, but a thin layer of oil left from OCM is usually sufficient. This is supposed to be good for normal to dry skin. I have combination skin and this works well as a once a week treatment. I don't know how well it will work for someone with your skin type, but it's worth a try. No soap, plenty of nourishing oils, and relatively cheap. I've also tried this method using straight coconut oil. I love coconut oil. I do a hair treatment with coconut oil and nothing gets my hair shinier.
Oh lord, I'm going uber woman right now. I'll stop right here =)