jtmass
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My mom was the shouting and beat your ass lady lol, dad was usually busy trying to keep her from killing us half the time, my did didn't ever hit any of us till we were big enough to fight backleast he gave us a chance lol.
Over here we have the opposite problem these days tho, I think now a days they try to put every kid under a label of ADHD or on the spectrum of autism. And half of them just need some shouting and ass whippings lol
I don't really ever put my hands on my kids because I don't wanna continue that cycle but sometimes they definitely need it. My 13 year old freaked out on he's mother so I whacked him upside the side of his head. On a scale of 1 to 10 I'm talking like a 2 lol. Barley touched him.
He had a meltdown and told me it was child abuse and I was a abusive father, I laughed so hard my ribs hurt. I was thinking mofo you got no clue what child abuse is, your grandma use to beat us with mops and high heels. Go back to your fukin room snowflake. (By the way he's 13 and 5'7" 175lbs, he's basically the size of a grown man lol)
Most of the time when he mouths off I just say go get the boxing gloves, if you can beat me then you can be the boss and make the rules, that usually makes him zip his lips and go to his room.
Kids these days think we're one of there school friends instead of parents. I feel like all my friends have similar issues.
Yeah.. same here.. mom was the one at home.. dad never had to hit me. His stare was enough when I was a kid. The look that said 'one more time mofo and you'll see'. I never took a chance.. lol. because I have seen him fight. I guess these days parents are equally snowflakes.. it's kinda getting to the same trend here.. kids are over-smart and parents proudly say 'I don't touch my kid'. I think a nice beating sometimes will remind them what they shouldn't be doing.
Hahaha.. My son has got some decent ones from me and after that I jus have to look at him. he knows trouble is coming.. lol
We treat our kids as friends too in a way, no? We are softer than our parents were. And they most definitely will take advantage of that.
least he gave us a chance lol.