How to tell a GF to workout or get in shape???

you have to use brain power on this one. bring up fitness into a conversation and start telling her just how good it makes you feel, just how much/how many things you like about it. subtly, though. subtly. wait til' just the right time, like after sex, when your heads are both seemingly 'swimming' and 'drugged up' with love (your mind should be calculating). and then, lay it on her.

and then if you do good at that, and she still don't take the tip, forget it and keep her the way she is or move on brother.

tell her the good things about it instead of hinting about HER bad things. my .02.
 
pistonpump said:
about the sex comment. She ALWAYS wants it and enjoys it way more than i do. COuld be me but i doubt it, i havent been with anyone else for a while now but for some reason im not that into sex with her. I dont know what it is exactly but its like whatever to me we do ok we dont ok.
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You could always pull the classic chick move, and hold out on the lovin till you get what you want.:rofl:
 
I saw this and just had to post a reply, it seems like all the advice is from guys...but what about the girl perspective of someone thats been in that situation...?

I myself have always been yeh admitting, overweight, but I've also been trying to do several things to beat that and start kickin Azz. I started to date this guy who was SUPER in shape, worked out everyday, cut, lean, and ate clean...and cldnt figure out wtf he was dating me, we had a great relationship, but after a few months he made a comment about my weight after a conversation of 'where our relationship was going'....he said, 'well I really love you, but seriously...i'm worried about your health, I know you're just a little overweight now, but what about when your 40? I mean, I want to live forever, and be healthy.'...of course I got incredibly pizzed bc it was kind of out of the blue and yeh, we had just got done having sex (PS, THATS NOT A GOOD TIME FOR THIS CONVERSATION)....I didn't talk to him for a bout a week, but in that time I really thought about everything...

He was right, and I had to take a look at myself, also looked at his point of view of how he was doing all these things to look hot awesome, and there I am, 'his fat gf' ...I felt bad. But I also should mention that even if he didn't bring that up, some one would have sooner or later, so I really couldn't be pissed at him. So what better resource then my already health concious bf, who would be there for me 24/7 and be not only my role model but my cheerleader!

We got a gym membership together and everyday after work we'd work out together, and he'd pack my lunches and cook me dinner, it was freaking great! Not only did I lose wieght, but I looked freaking hot, felt GREAT, AND did it healthy, not to mention our sex got freaking OUT OF CONTROL! It was awesome....even our relationship grew stronger.

So really, if you super love this girl and are looking at the big picture, sit down with her and have a serious talk, no doubt she's gonna be pissed, but if its for the long haul, its worth it for the both of you. If she's game, then you gotta be super supportive and make it fun and yeh be the cheerleader, but why wouldn't you be, your chick is now looking hot awesome! woo-hoo! If she's not into it, then there you go, and thats that, you can't force her, and from what I've read, this might not be the only problem in your relationship.

Good luck dude.
 
My girlfriend had a small weight problem (minor fupa). I told her I wasn't trying to be offensive but that she was fat. I told her to eat more often and go running. She said okay and now she is leaner than I am :dance:
 
Rugger1 said:
My girlfriend had a small weight problem (minor fupa). I told her I wasn't trying to be offensive but that she was fat. I told her to eat more often and go running. She said okay and now she is leaner than I am :dance:
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if i said something like that i would never hear the end of it......oh yah, you called me fat or i cant believe you are so insensitive, thats just mean to call me fat.
 
Hmmm my girl is simmilar, but i don't mind at all.

But either way, it seems my interest in sports and habits are rubbing off on her. Shes not into sports at all but shes into very clean diets and shes been getting slimmer and slimmer.

So not everything should be spoken :P

I would suggest you just do what you do and she'll realize you highly regard self-fitness and most girls will learn to understand without you having to speak a word. She might just join you or make adjustments in her lifestyle to show shes into you and what you're doing.

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Answer to the original question (what to do when your chick is getting fat):

Start using the folds you find in a sexually explicit manner. She'll think you're a freak and you won't be forced to do it AND she'll probably start getting self conscious... you'll never have to say a word!
 
Has anyone recommended dumping her and finding a skinny girl if thats what you want? There are tons of girls out there man.
 
kwyckemynd00 said:
Answer to the original question (what to do when your chick is getting fat):

Start using the folds you find in a sexually explicit manner. She'll think you're a freak and you won't be forced to do it AND she'll probably start getting self conscious... you'll never have to say a word!
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Eww. LOL
 
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