Sometimes people intentionally misstate what others have said for purposes of making the other look stupid. I have a concern whenever one person alleges that another person has said something that they've not said.
But, I didn't allege you tried to make me look stupid - if I had I would have PM'd you. You have taken offense to what I have written - and - since I wrote it - let me confirm that offending you was not my intention (anymore than it was your intention). I accept that you mistakenly concluded that I said something that I didn't; yes, we misunderstood one another. I could have been less flippant with my response, so I own that. I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I own that.
Now, as to your suggestion that I may (politely, or otherwise) "go f**k" myself, I will decline, because I believe it is always best not to allow things to degrade to that level.
I also need to confess: I have an issue (that is NOT with you) with how people commonly use the word mistake. It is now common for someone to say something like "having an affair was the worst mistake of my life" or "marrying Kathy was the worst mistake of my life". But an affair or decision to marry someone, as used this example, is not a mistake, They may both be examples of bad decisions, each of which had negative consequences. Reframing bad intentional decisions as mistakes removes almost all of the responsibility of the person who made the bad decision. After all, it was a mistake, right?
You didn't do that. That is why I edited what I originally wrote, because what I originally wrote was not correct.
In summary (i) I wish no offense, and (ii) I will not formicate with myself.
I assure you, I did not intend to misconstrue what you said to make you look foolish or undermine your argument. That would be unacceptable on my behalf. I was just going too fast for myself to think properly and had a massive brain fart. And please note that I am only telling you to f**k yourself IF you honestly think my reading comprehension skills are lacking, which it seems that you don't think, as we seem to agree I just made a really stupid mistake, and that is my bad to be certain.
I do agree with you that a mistake should be something done unintentionally. Forgetting an anniversary is a mistake, since it's likely an accident. Cheating on your wife on you anniversary is not a mistake. Forgetting to delete your texts to your mistress leading to your getting caught is a mistake, but the deliberate act of cheating was not a mistake, as you said.
No hard feelings man. I admit I was wrong, and my being wrong sort of lead to an escalation of misunderstanding. I will try to read things twice now before commenting.
TOTALLY DIFFERENT AND SEPERATE OBSERVATIONS BELOW, UNRELATED TO THE ABOVE QUOTE AND SENTIMENT:
Many people here make good points, even if I don't always agree in entirety.
On a side note, I think a lot of us, myself assuredly included, should take a step back and realize, or remember, that criticizing one side or party or person in no way means we support or praise the other side, or their opponent. I would hope people (not saying you, but other people ITT) can realize that when I criticize Trump or the Republican party, that does NOT mean I support Biden or the Democrat party by any stretch of the imagination. I will also do my best to remember that when someone criticizes Biden or the Democrats, that does not mean they love Trump or the Republican party.
I assume most, if not all, of us here are pretty sick of both parties, and, even if we think one side or man is worse than the other, we probably all think they've lost touch with reality and the common man, and that they serve primarily their own interests before their constituents. It's really become a constant vote for "the lesser of two evils" than for the party or person we actually agree with on a majority of topics. And it's a shame.