Haha, yeah, sometimes it's hard to determine intent online. I go to Church regularly (recently), and everything I read, and, more importantly, the actions of the people, are about compassion and helping others. I've seen or heard no mention of condemnation or exclusion, and it seems that a lot of major players in the Bible were violent before following Jesus, and then became peaceful after (am I wrong?). Of course, you run into problems when you take everything in a religious text (including the Bible) at literal face value and ignore any evidence pointing otherwise (like saying the Earth is only a few thousand years old when science proves otherwise), but the core message of Jesus seems to be compassion and peacefulness.