It looks like your default setting is a larger framed, mesoendo type, like myself. Compared to most people and especially most if not all of the people you know, your carb intake is probably on the lower end, but for the average "bodybuilder" type, your practically bulking. Not really, but when I read one of your meals I actually asked myself if this was a bulking log and then you wrote something along the lines of, "I know this is not nearly enough calories" and I was like, this has to be a bulking log, only I know you're trying to cut. I think I thought this because I placed myself in your meals situation and consider our someotypes to be similar.
You eat plenty clean, as far as food choices in general, but I think you're just taking in too much kcals. Not to mention you seem to take a 20g protein shake with every meal. In my opinion, being a larger guy who has to fight inch by inch for fat loss, even protein kcals aren't freebee's. Maybe your body type is like mine, maybe it's not, but I don't go catabolic very easily. I gain muscle and weight in general if I breath too much and I have to work 3 times as hard to get half the results of some people, however, again, the upside is I don't go catabolic for $hit. I'm all for high protein intake, but keep in mind it's about calories right now. Eat your proteins, keep shakes to a minimum. I know you hear and read 2.5g of protein per lbs of body weight, $hiiiiiiiit, I can gauran'effin-tee you I wouldn't lose jack on that much caloric intake when compounded with the fats I need. That 2.5g number may be effective for default lean bodyframes, but for default big boys, it's a no go for me, way too much kcals. However, you can't talk people out of protein, so if you intend to maintain your protein intake at the 2-2.5g/lb, then you need to cut waaaaaay down on the carbs, complex, brown, oat, barley, legumes, whatever, bring that ish down.
If it's harder then normal for you to lose weight, then you can't take a "normal" diet and cut on it, somethings gotta go. I'm in that same boat. It took me as long to get from 215 up to 230, as it has taken me to drop from 215 down to 192. I'm assuming our bodytypes are similar based on your past avi's. Losing body fat is way harder then putting it on, so you need to tighten down on your caloric intake, imho.