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Beelzebub said:
good idea ;) now his plan will be foisted :D
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You guys rock. I guess I have always though that most guys were into huge breasts, and it seems the opposite is true.
I was just thinking about it really, I am sure we all have some body part that we are not happy with, and its one of the few that I can't change using weights or cardio.
I would not be doing this for a guy, just to boost my confidence, but I think some of you are right, by having bigger boobs I would be attracting the wrong type of guy anyway.
I guess I will have to keep charming them with my personality and nice ass ;)
 
This doesn't directly answer your question, but here goes:

I assume that your question ultimately boils down to "what do men find sexy or physically appealing". Although I realize that may or may not be a correct assumption, let's assume it is.

If that is the case, I find a woman sexy when she sees herself as a sexual being. Not a tramp, not a school-marm, but someone who is willing to be an active and willing participant in her sexual relationship to the person she is committed to. Someone who sees that of her being as an integral part of who she is, and an essential part of her relationship.

Don't take me wrong, if I ran across the female version of Ernest Borgnine - I wouldn't care what she saw herself as; I would just say no, and then, perhaps, vomit (think pavement pizza).

On the other hand, if you are asking what makes a man give himself whiplash when turning to get a glimpse of a woman - for many it is probably someone with a Barbie Doll (balloon smuggling) figure wearing about 1/3 of what she shoud be wearing. The resulting thoughts are normally something like "Wow, I'd pound that like a Rhesus monkey". Not a sign of love or respect; but certainly one of lust.

So, it really just depends what one is after (e.g., I believe we look at/think about Pamela Anderson differently than we do most other actresses - I wonder why? [say hello to the Rhesus monkey]). While physical traits are important (especially for initial attraction), I can't imagine my relationship with my spouse would differ as a function of her bra size. It might be novel were it (dimensions) to change, but it wouldn't be worthy of surgery.
 
I'm an ass man myself. A nice firm, tight ass and a tight stomach trumps everything in my book.

As for breasts, something around a 34B - 36C range would be my ideal for natural breasts. I will admit that on the right girl, a fake D can stir up quite the bloodflow for me somewhere..

But as you can tell - every guy is different. You're also asking on a bodybuilding forum, so the opinions may be skewed. (Ask what the ideal weight for a male is on this board, then ask a different demographic the same question - you'll probably get 2 very different answers). Also being "fitness" centric kind of guys, we may favor athletic leaness over other things...at least I do.

I'll be the first to say that breasts really don't matter that much, but honestly, all things being equal, the girl with the bigger, firmer breasts is going to have more of an affect on me whether I like it or not.

You should ask some girls that have had breast surgery done about their opinions on them. I'm guessing (and only guessing) that most will say that despite all that we are saying on this board, men do behave differenty around them now, and things have been much easier for them.

If you're looking to find that special someone, I don't think surgery is a wise choice at the moment. Purely guessing by your own "nice butt" comment, and thoughts of you doing BJJ, I don't imagine you'd have a hard time finding someone who is interested in you. If anything, once you find the "right" guy, you can "reward" him with the boob job afterwards, if you still feel that you want to do it for yourself. I just hope it would be first and foremost for yourself.

If you're just looking for some carefree fun while you can...I imagine that surgery would help with that.

I'm not a judgemental kind of person. Certain things are important to certain people, while not important to others. Who am I to judge other people? I haven't lived 1 day of their life, let alone a whole lifetime.

While obviously a different situation - it's still somewhat the same: I was quite the unconfident, skinny teenager. The thought of being a virgin for the rest of my life was a huge concern for me, among other things that weighed heavily in MY mind. (To people having it - sex is no big deal. To people with big boobs - they're no big deal. To people with money - money is no big deal, etc).

I went to the gym religiously and did things to improve my body. While purely superfiscial, as it was only body that changed, my own confidence increased. Not only that, but yes, the opposite sex acted differently towards me too. For me, I NEEDED that physical change in order to love myself, sad as that sounds. My life has been better ever since.

If this is something you NEED to help yourself, then I see no problem with it. But considering the cost, it may not be the best choice. Throw a couple grand into your RRSP's (or whatever the American version of a retirement savings plan is), then maybe splurge on some special clothes that you wouldn't have bought before...some sexy, attention getting clothes.

NOTE: if you're a model or an actress or in some kind of profession where your asthetic appearance is of higher importance, then I'd have to say go for it. A friend of mine was getting way less parts than me, then she got a boob-job. BAM! She's in the main cast of Falcon Beach. BAM! She does a Lion's Gate Film. BAM! She's flown out to Hollywood to do another feature film. Of course you have to have talent to go along with it, but every advantage counts in that business.
 
I don't mean to sound like some afterschool-special idealist, but you really shouldn't worry how others think you look, as long as you feel good about yourself.

Another thing to look into is if you do get a boob-job, you're going to be dealing with a lot more shallow, full of themself, *******s trying to hit on you. I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing, but it's something to be on the lookout for if you go through with it.
 
NOTE: if you're a model or an actress or in some kind of profession where your asthetic appearance is of higher importance, then I'd have to say go for it. A friend of mine was getting way less parts than me, then she got a boob-job. BAM! She's in the main cast of Falcon Beach. BAM! She does a Lion's Gate Film. BAM! She's flown out to Hollywood to do another feature film. Of course you have to have talent to go along with it, but every advantage counts in that business.[/QUOTE]

Hmm, funny you should say that, here is a training video from a short wire fu movie I am making :)
(I am the one in the red top).
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KG
 
Awesome! I've never worked with wires yet, but I've always wanted to.

With moves like that, you don't need weights on your chest to throw off your balance. After seeing that video, I am convinced you should heed Grace Jones's advice from Conan the Destroyer when asked on how she gets the attention of a man she is attracted to: "You grab him! Then take him!" :hammer:

Good luck on your movie. :) BTW - is that an indie shoot or union? Short or feature? Wires aren't cheap, at least where I'm from.
 
Mulletsoldier said:
Some guys may say yes, but in all honestly, they do not matter for me whatsoever...However, I am a tried, tested and true ass man..If I had a choice between a girl with very nice breasts and no ass, and a girl with no breasts and a wonderful posterior region, I would ALWAYS take the girl with the better ass..
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Different strokes for different folks, do what you want to do karategirl. Personally, I agree with JMH. I love the size of the girls that used to be in his avatar :) Bobbi Billiard and Brandi Dahl strike me as perfect breasts for their bodies. I like larger breasts, whereas others don't care so much about breasts. Nothing over a DDD though :whip:
 
honestly boobs dont matter that much.... i dont have huge boobs at all..... and men never seem to have a problem with it.
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
honestly boobs dont matter that much.... i dont have huge boobs at all..... and men never seem to have a problem with it.
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Right, but if you had perfect boobs you'd move from hot chick, to 'she was the hottest chick I've ever seen'.

If you want honest oppinions from the general American population, just go look at any 'TOP' rankings and note how many near the top 10 have bigger then average breast size.

Remember, I'm not saying having large breasts makes you attractive, just that they make someone who is attractive -more attractive- to the average male. Keira Knightley is a perfect example of a actress who's skinny without large breasts and still has a leigons of male fans.

But, like I said earlier, I believe any plastic surgery should be done because YOU want it to be done. If you want something about yourself changed and you are willing to go under the knife, then by all means do it.
 
KarateGirl, you are a very fine young lady who needs to keep working out to keep the great shape of yours. :whip: no boobs implant for you ;)

Mrs. Gimpy, with the body you have and the perfect sculpted ass of yours, you definitely wont have any problem with Guys :box:;)

Respect, for the efforts you put behind these bodies

Cheers
 
doggzj said:
Right, but if you had perfect boobs you'd move from hot chick, to 'she was the hottest chick I've ever seen'.

If you want honest oppinions from the general American population, just go look at any 'TOP' rankings and note how many near the top 10 have bigger then average breast size.

Remember, I'm not saying having large breasts makes you attractive, just that they make someone who is attractive -more attractive- to the average male. Keira Knightley is a perfect example of a actress who's skinny without large breasts and still has a leigons of male fans.

But, like I said earlier, I believe any plastic surgery should be done because YOU want it to be done. If you want something about yourself changed and you are willing to go under the knife, then by all means do it.
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A hot chick is always a hot chick.

"the hottest chick I have ever seen" is a temporary position. The only direction to go from the top is down! There will always be somebody hotter!
Many have held this positionfor me over the years...I think Farrah Fawcett started it all...now, maybe Jessica Alba...oh yeah and my girlfriend if she is reading this...
 
i think i was edited on my last post cause i dont see it on here...so i will edit myself....

i myself am a boob man.....almost to the point of obsession....but....i do look at the other qualities also...but boobs come first usually....eyes....ass...personality....nice thighs....ya know..the thighs that a girl that has been roller skating/blading for years have......oooooooooooh yeahhh (shivers) anyways.....but ill sum it up in my favorite saying (edited for these boards..dont know why though)

My favorite boobs are the ones that im looking at at that point in time..

he he ....other version is better....but that post didnt show up so im guessing it was a no no for the board...oh well......just be happy with yourself.....do what makes you feel happy and feel better about yourself
 
KG - please keep your real body!

Breasts are wonderful things, and *much fun*, but beyong a certain point (personally, I'd say that point is a C), a woman runs the risk of looking deformed, whether it's natural or cosmetic; personally, I'd rather be with a woman than with a sideshow attraction (*shudder*).

On the flipside, I've had lots of fun with A-cup girls & loved every minute of it (think young Marilyn Chambers...) - but then, I tend to be into the person at least as much as (in practice, much more than) I'm into the look.

FTR, I HAVE dated women w/ implants (one a stripper who went from a 36-C to a 38-DD, the other a suburban divorcee) - and I have to say: no, thank you!

I've found that being impressed by fake boobs tends to lower a man in the eyes of the implanted (screwy, but there you go - not so different from the way men lose respect for women who're impressed by money, frankly): *THEY* know they're fake, they don't think of them or talk about them as if they're body parts - hell, even being polite about it when they show 'em off can be the wrong move, so for me, it's "thanks, but no thanks". There's enough potential for head-games & general control-freak BS without that....

Fit, trim, well-assembled is wonderful (as you display in the video): cartoon proportions neither needed nor desired!

Just 2¢ from some old guy....
 
doggzj said:
Right, but if you had perfect boobs you'd move from hot chick, to 'she was the hottest chick I've ever seen'.



But, like I said earlier, I believe any plastic surgery should be done because YOU want it to be done. If you want something about yourself changed and you are willing to go under the knife, then by all means do it.
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great post.

very true about the hot chick to "the hottest chick i've ever seen". if you are that concerned with your boobs then get implants. theres nothing wrong with that unless they are done cheaply (they usually end up looking nasty) or done tooo large (hence the aa cups to dd cups). theres also the harrassment factor....guys harrass girls alot already....implants only make more harrassment happen...... i wouldnt want to deal with it.... but as i have mentioned before... i think most women should get implants one day due to gravity. but if you are already happy with yourself....then dont change :) . things could always look worse after surgery... remember : "don't fix it if it isnt broke"

NO guy will ever EVER think you look bad simply because you dont have big boobs if everything else looks great :)

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dont worry :)

alesandra..... Invalid Link Removed.whatever her name is.....doesnt have big boobs actually and shes kwycks favorite girl...besides me .... i better be his favorite! :whip:
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
honestly boobs dont matter that much.... i dont have huge boobs at all..... and men never seem to have a problem with it.
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If that's you in your AV, Mrs. Gimpy, then I can see why.

If the woman has a hot body, IMO, then boobs aren't too important. In fact, I used to date an exotic dancer who had very small boobs. :woohoo: But she was too damn fine to even worry about it.
 
OK, I have resisted for 2 days...but here is my take.

I am a BIG fan of Boobies! Yes I am somewhat obsessed. I have purchased a pair for my wife 5 years ago and she is quite happy with them ;)

She dieted and trained her ass off, and as we all know a side effect to that is the loss of breast tissue. So we went out and got her a set of D's.

Over the muscle is best in my opinion.

The perfect look for a woman in my eyes...very lean, somewhat muscular (back, rear delt definition) and a big pair of fakies placed above a lean strong abdominal.

AHHH
 
TheChosen1 said:
If that's you in your AV, Mrs. Gimpy, then I can see why.

If the woman has a hot body, IMO, then boobs aren't too important. In fact, I used to date an exotic dancer who had very small boobs. :woohoo: But she was too damn fine to even worry about it.
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yes those were all (avatar and two pics) me, except for the victoria secret model of course! thanks. again, nothing wrong with fakes.... i just prefer to keep real boobs for as long as gravity permits.
 
To me, a perfect ass is like a soft breeze on a warm summer morning my friends..Gentle, comforting, and makes you feel relieved in all the right places..Waking up to a beautiful girl, with an extra beautiful posterior is like Christmas morning, every morning..For me really largre breasts are too intrusive, they are fun for a few weeks, but more often then not they look better in the shirt then out of it..But a nice bottom is like a tiger unleashed from it's cage when the pants are off..Man, I am horny..
 
Mulletsoldier said:
To me, a perfect ass is like a soft breeze on a warm summer morning my friends..Gentle, comforting, and makes you feel relieved in all the right places..Waking up to a beautiful girl, with an extra beautiful posterior is like Christmas morning, every morning..For me really largre breasts are too intrusive, they are fun for a few weeks, but more often then not they look better in the shirt then out of it..But a nice bottom is like a tiger unleashed from it's cage when the pants are off..Man, I am horny..
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Hey...my ass is like a warm summer breeze...and it makes me feel relieved in all the right places too....hey!!! and it's like a tiger unleashed.....I gotta stop eating so much protien.....
 
$3000 later...remeber she was very lean and she "dieted away" her natural breasts.
 

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Ok, I need some male advice here, and please be honest.
Do boobs matter?
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To be blunt, why do you care what guys think on the matter? At the end of the day, you're the one with the boobs. They might have some guy's mouth on them at times but still, its your breasts. I personally would like to think of personal repercussions before thinking of how others would perceive me.

I would not be doing this for a guy, just to boost my confidence, but I think some of you are right, by having bigger boobs I would be attracting the wrong type of guy anyway
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Boosting confidence = doing this for guys to be plain and simple. Plus if you said using your boobs to attract guys would bring in the wrong men but the ass would bring in the right one? Care to expand on that?

Not trying to dog you or anything, I just think its best to look out for yourself when it comes to serious bodily matters like implants. Like I said before, guys might like your boobs or your ass but at the end of the day, you're the one that has them. If anything goes wrong, you're the one who has to take care of them.

Oh and I liked the wire-fu video.
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
NO guy will ever EVER think you look bad simply because you dont have big boobs if everything else looks great :)

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exquisite arguments, Mrs. G :clap2:
you've proven my point bettwer than I ever could.
 
myfathersboy said:
Hey...my ass is like a warm summer breeze...and it makes me feel relieved in all the right places too....hey!!! and it's like a tiger unleashed.....I gotta stop eating so much protien.....
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By wammer summer breeze I meant the ass itself MFB, not the noxious gas that you, I, and all of us consuming 350g's + of protein a day are letting out.

And thank-you RD I am glad you found solice in my ass analogies
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
yes those were all (avatar and two pics) me, except for the victoria secret model of course! thanks. again, nothing wrong with fakes.... i just prefer to keep real boobs for as long as gravity permits.
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I agree 100% with you, Mrs. G. That should be the motto for the Committee Against Artificial Breast Operation.........

TheChosen1 says:
"When it comes to boobs on my women, I prefer when they KEEP IT REAL":toofunny:



:thumbsup: WILL WORK FOR REP POINTS!!!:thumbsup:
 
Thanks, I have TONS of pictures, I am looking for a good before picture.

When we first met she had normal "B's" then I put her through a 12 week diet/training reg...for the 2nd EAS contest. She got AWESOME results but lost all her tissue...

She was so lean in fact she didn't have her period for 3 years, getting her pregnant was quite a task and cost more than her fakies!
 
I love everything about a beautiful woman. Hair, eyes, ass, breasts, legs, arms, etc. Its all got to be in a row for all my switches to be flipped. That being said, my fiancee is the most perfect woman Ive ever seen and has a very nice pair of natural C's.

I dont really like fake boobs all that much, although I confess Ive never been with a girl who had them. Honestly it depends on the whole package, and although I consider myself a boob man I'd rather trade a little chest for a great personality. Being in shape and self-confidence are more important, IMO.

A lean,intelligent woman with average breasts who doesnt give a **** what other people think about her is way more of a turn on than a double-D bimbo with raisins in her braincase.

BV
 
BV, you're right, which is pretty much the usual for you.

Although I have been with a woman with fake boobs and I like them but its not like a woman with small boobs is some kind of deal breaker.

At the end of the days, looks are fine but its all about her personality in the end. I'm in college so I'm used to seeing hot girls on a daily basis. Economic supply and demand shows that with so many hot girls, there's nothing special there.

Being hot isn't almost ordinary in a sense. Nothing amazing. However, being a great person is amazing.
 
lol, that typo by BV is worse than mine usually are! im the typo queen....
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OMG I know!! Know I have this giant, 280lb monster of a man winking at me and Im getting scared;)

BV
 
So I'm reading what is starting to become my current favorite thread, probably because I have a great imagination...when I look at the top of the site and see:

"Boobs Page 5. Discuss Boobs, on Anabolcminds.com, General Chat."

Something about "...Discuss Boobs..." that makes me say "yeah, I think I will - that's a damn good idea!" LoL:dance: Ahhh....I'm a kid again. :food:

dirtysouthmuscl said:
Whats a real turn on A sit of finea** calfs on a girl. Thats just me..
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Actually I agree. Although I wouldn't count calves on my priority list, I very fondly remember doing a play with this one Filipino girl who had the best calves I've ever seen. Everything on her was tight - wow! Of course it didn't hurt that she thought it would be a good idea for me to fondle her breasts on stage one night since my friends were there, LoL. Too bad she lives in Toronto...

BTW - Anabolcminds is a typo on the web...
 
Sunder...there is a thread on another board I post on (a football board)

The thread title is "Boobs"

The first post simply says..."Please discuss"

It has become one of the most entertaining threads yet!
 
We should start a thread called "Personality..Does It Matter?"..And see how many, what kind of responses we get....And I'm just playing ladies, it's at the top of my wishlist when choosing a gf.
 
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