Okay, here it is.
You're confident, independent, good looking (I feel I can say that...I've seen everything but your nose

:rofl: ), and you're not afraid to be opinionated. Those are things that bad guys and immature guys can't deal with.
But, thats an outsider perspective and if there are any flaws that don't get exposed on the message board, I'll never be able to identify them...I'm sure they're not there though, right
Simplified conclusion:
Hot Chick with a brain == intimidating to men
And, your areas nutcases are too sucked up into that hollywood-esque living if they think the anorexic look is attractive. That would explain a hell of a lot of things, too. Those type are very shallow...