TripDog
Bananas
hahaha *wink,wink* got cha'
Acceptable place for a 'first date' (if you even want to call it that)
- Thread starter thesinner
- Start date
hahaha *wink,wink* got cha'
greenwing7
Member
most of my first dates want to go to Chucky Cheese
TripDog
Bananas
sh*t ill go out with you if you take me there!!!!.....that place rocks
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
It was earlier this evening.
It went ok. We at least made for great conversation. I hadn't spoken to this girl in about 3-4 years. Turns out she is in the middle of getting divorce. That kinda took me by surprise, but it was great seeing her again anyhow, and we made plans to get together the next time I'm in town.
Trip is gonna make fun of me for not getting any Tang, but whatever, he has threesomes with Gixxer and nycste.
Iron Warrior
Registered User
Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
TripDog
Bananas
Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
:thumbsup: :clap2: ...i like the way you think!
Iron Warrior
Registered User
Great minds think alike :thumbsup: I just don't want sinner to be the guy who ends up being every chick's "guy friend" because he needs to stay the hell away from sheep
TripDog
Bananas
Great minds think alike :thumbsup: I just don't want sinner to be the guy who ends up being every chick's "guy friend" because he needs to stay the hell away from sheep
for some reason sin likes his meat with four legs and hoofs......i know i cant figure him out myself........but if you would rather bang the petting zoo than a chick wanting your hog.......then houson we have a problem!!!!!!!!!!!!
TripDog
Bananas
what if she only had shoes on her hands?
Iron Warrior
Registered User
Hey Gixxer, I told you not to get jealous like my ex's :nono: I got plenty of sausage for everyone
nycste
Well-known member
hahaha what a homo thats a horrible pic of u trip compared to the bust a nut other ones (nohomo)
TripDog
Bananas
fukc you dirtbike,so what if it took me 2 hours and exstensive editing........:FUfinger: :lol:
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
Sinner, don't fall into the "he's just a good friend" category. Fall into the "he was a punk but he banged me hardcore" category. If this chick is into sports the you should take her to a park and play some hoops. I guarantee she'll back that a$$ up in the low post
.......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.
IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.
I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).
The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:
Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.
F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
TripDog
Bananas
thats why there is never a second date grant.......
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
Gun Range? You must live in the same area I used to live during my co-op. Those guys love to go shootin'.
crader
Board Sponsor
.......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.
IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.
I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).
The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:
Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.
F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
I have to admit you seem like a great guy. Definitely have a good head on your shoulders. Sounds like your choice was a good one.
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
yeah, but flaunting it like that just screams out "I'm trying to get in your pants". And to be honest, that's not an objective on the first date.
Iron Warrior
Registered User
.......maybe if she played lacrosse. I'm all about rollin' the cage and shootin' my balls.
IDK, maybe it's just sinner-style, but I don't like it when girls give too much up front. (1) It defeats any sort of challenge (2) It leads to a relationship built too much around sex, and that sort of relationship will ALWAYS fail.
I'm kinda glad nothing escalated. I live 3 hours away. I'd rather be able to live my wild college life without feeling tied down to a girl so far away (I've been down that path before and it SUCKS).
The point of this thread was because I grew up following my father's dating advice, and I'm starting to think it's terrible advice. Here's what he wanted me to do:
Pick her up in his coupe convertable, and take her to a nice restaurant.
F*CK THAT!!! That just screams out "Bill Whoring" (Bill Whoring = the idealistic practice pressuring a girl to put out by the expense of the date).
To each their own but Iron style has worked for me, maybe I'll incorporate a little sinner style without the goat aspect
I find that a sporting activity naturally creates more interaction for me and that's how someone will learn more about me and vice versa.You're right about the "Bill Whoring" (good term, I'll steal it from you
) it makes chicks put you in the same category as most other guys they've dated or been with and that's usually a bad thing IMO. I think booty is something you earn if you're a real man, not something you buy . . . unless you're into prostitutes/escorts LOL. And if the chick just wants someone to show her affection by taking her out to dinner then she's not someone I would personally want to be with.
No offense but it seems (from what you said and I what interpreted) like your dad's advice is to put the pu$$y on a pedestal and that takes a while when you use that approach IF you're lucky. Everyone eventually gets lucky and they think this is the approach that worked for them. My best friend said it best when he said "Guys with no game or charm need to take ladies out to dinner but those who learn how to create attraction don't need it"
Mrs. Gimpy!
Well-known member
to me, it doesn't appear that way. it just appears as if the guy is "trying to hard", like hes kind of desperate. as the relationship develops, a lot of effort appears "cute", "sweet" etc... but at the first meeting or the beginnings its "not so cute".
plus, girls get used to being spoiled in the beginning and wonder what happened to all that supreme treatment in the beginning. makes things not so special.
i agree with you mostly though
its okay to flaunt, just dont over do it
celc5
Well-known member
Iron, I agree with your advice. Something tells me you know what you're talking about. You've read some books on the matter? (if not, bravo for figuring it out on your own).
Sinner, the best "trick" that I use is to steal the girl's game. If you are playing hard to get, she can't do the same thing. Make fun of her, roll your eyes at her, and interpret just about everything she says as her coming on to you. Bump into her to initiate contact within 30 seconds of meeting... but BLAME her for groping you and now you've opened the door for more physical contact. Get it?
Sinner, the best "trick" that I use is to steal the girl's game. If you are playing hard to get, she can't do the same thing. Make fun of her, roll your eyes at her, and interpret just about everything she says as her coming on to you. Bump into her to initiate contact within 30 seconds of meeting... but BLAME her for groping you and now you've opened the door for more physical contact. Get it?
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
To each their own but Iron style has worked for me, maybe I'll incorporate a little sinner style without the goat aspect
You're right about the "Bill Whoring" (good term, I'll steal it from you
I think booty is something you earn if you're a real man, not something you buy . . . unless you're into prostitutes/escorts LOL. And if the chick just wants someone to show her affection by taking her out to dinner then she's not someone I would personally want to be with.
No offense but it seems (from what you said and I what interpreted) like your dad's advice is to put the pu$$y on a pedestal and that takes a while when you use that approach IF you're lucky. Everyone eventually gets lucky and they think this is the approach that worked for them. My best friend said it best when he said "Guys with no game or charm need to take ladies out to dinner but those who learn how to create attraction don't need it"
I like your idea of it being a sporting activity. I'll have to try that next time I'm taking a girl out for the first time. (this one...not so much into sports)
No offense taken, I sometimes wonder how he ever bagged my mother with that mentality. Either times have changed or she took everything like Gimpy would, but it convinced him that's "how to do it".
Iron Warrior
Registered User
No offense but maybe your dad got lucky so props to him :thumbsup: I just don't like to rely on luck
Iron Warrior
Registered User
I didn't read any books but my uncle is the ultimate ladies man. He's 41 but I hung out with him in clubs quite a bit and I learned mostly everything from him. I also learned the hard way from my mistakes as a teenager. I started doing the opposite of everything I used to do and I became more successful. I also got bigger and leaner so maybe that had a lot to with it as well
celc5
Well-known member
How true. It's a counter-intuitive game for sure! I've done some reading but NOTHING compares to actually watching someone who knows the game at work. I learned from 2 friends in grad school who I give most of the credit to.
I bet your uncle taught you the 3 second rule, how to lean back, and how to send mixed signals. There's an over-the-shoulder opening technique that I use, and it doesn't matter what your line is. The girl leans into you and sometimes even follows you no matter what you say.
I also don't answer ANY questions about my job, family, or education and they eat it up. You can create a sense of mystery and intrigue WITHOUT being an a-hole (which I think is sinner's goal if I'm reading correctly). Dude, you can be a lady's man and still be a perfect gentlemen at the same time.
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
I think mentality has a lot to do with it.
When I was younger, I used to go out with the main objective to show her a good time. Always felt like I had to prove something to her. This mentality only left me having a miserable time, and usually without a second date.
Nowadays, I feel like I "don't gotta prove nuthin' to no one". I come in with the mentality that I know I can treat her better than any of the guys she's had before. If she's not interested, that's her problem. I'm not gonna let her prevent me from having a good time.
When I was younger, I used to go out with the main objective to show her a good time. Always felt like I had to prove something to her. This mentality only left me having a miserable time, and usually without a second date.
Nowadays, I feel like I "don't gotta prove nuthin' to no one". I come in with the mentality that I know I can treat her better than any of the guys she's had before. If she's not interested, that's her problem. I'm not gonna let her prevent me from having a good time.
Iron Warrior
Registered User
celc you're right dude. My uncle had these rules for me.
1. Never give a lady a direct answer to everything
2. Never talk to her more than 5 minutes
3. Pick on her as if she were your little brother
I didn't know about the lean so I'll try that for good measure, thanks for the tip
1. Never give a lady a direct answer to everything
2. Never talk to her more than 5 minutes
3. Pick on her as if she were your little brother
I didn't know about the lean so I'll try that for good measure, thanks for the tip
TripDog
Bananas
top 10 reasons sinner didn't get laid on that date
10-the first thing he said when he saw her was "me so horney"
9-the chick was really a dude and they did bang but he didnt tell us
8-she kept catching him pick at his ass
7-she realized he still shops in the boys department,and ran away laughing
6-she refused to wear the goat costume..
5-you have to spend more that 10 dollars on a chick to get some pune
4-the drugs she was on wore off and she realized who she was actually with........then...you guessed it ran away screaming.
3-sinner got sh*tfaced off half a beer and passed out
2-cause he's gay
1-he didnt listen to tripdog and take her to the adult video store
for all those who didnt see it!
10-the first thing he said when he saw her was "me so horney"
9-the chick was really a dude and they did bang but he didnt tell us
8-she kept catching him pick at his ass
7-she realized he still shops in the boys department,and ran away laughing
6-she refused to wear the goat costume..
5-you have to spend more that 10 dollars on a chick to get some pune
4-the drugs she was on wore off and she realized who she was actually with........then...you guessed it ran away screaming.
3-sinner got sh*tfaced off half a beer and passed out
2-cause he's gay
1-he didnt listen to tripdog and take her to the adult video store
for all those who didnt see it!
celc5
Well-known member
celc you're right dude. My uncle had these rules for me.
1. Never give a lady a direct answer to everything
2. Never talk to her more than 5 minutes
3. Pick on her as if she were your little brother
I didn't know about the lean so I'll try that for good measure, thanks for the tip
Damm Iron, I was gonna put #3 on here tonight! I was gonna say act as if she's annoying you like your little sister. :cheers:
Ya, body language is key but comes across naturally with confidence as thesinner suggested. Most guys lean in, which is what thesinner's dad would tell him to do :lol: j/p dude. Leaning back insinuates disinterest and that you don't care what she thinks. For an attractive girl, this is different and intriguing because men usually lavish her with interest all day every day.
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
For every crown I obtain, my **** grows another 1/2". There's a reason my shorts go past the knee.
TripDog
Bananas
or a tee shirt that says "hey im cool...people on the internet gave me little crowns next to my name on AM"..........guarenteed pu*sy fo sho!!!!!!!!!!!
thesinner
Recovering AXoholic
:toofunny:
I think the fact that I know anything at all about bodybuilding is a turn-off.
TripDog
Bananas
nycste will never have that problem i guess
Grant
Registered User
You'd be surprised how well it works if you thought outside the box, have fun at the movies....
TripDog
Bananas
maybe i do.....................maybe i do wana be a frenchfry!
Iron Warrior
Registered User
Swinger's club on the second date is the next step for sinner. If I was sinner I'd say " You're nothing more then my weekend pu$$y and I'm here to grace you with the my presence of my penis, which was enlarged by all the rep I got at AM " Now that's an outside the box idea that's packed with a lot of fun
Grant
Registered User
Swinger's club on the second date is the next step for sinner. If I was sinner I'd say " You're nothing more then my weekend pu$$y and I'm here to grace you with the my presence of my penis, which was enlarged by all the rep I got at AM " Now that's an outside the box idea that's packed with a lot of fun
Sh.it, sign up date makes it even bigger then reps, dont you know that?
Add the fact that I was the 2nd gold member and Im packin the most heat in this thread