Oh get real. I did not "speak out of turn," whatever that even means on a message board.
When I say "defend my view," my point is that on a fitness board, supporting a height/weight proportionality or a moderate to low body fat percentage for women or men shouldn't be the minority view.
And this thread is NOT about saying "it's OK to be a bit overweight," the OP of this thread is saying he sees "thick" women as AN IDEAL. I'm saying I disagree. If you or others are too sensitive to hear different opinions and want this thread to be as safe space, say so up front.
And it IS true that the body positive/pro-thick movement is related to the fact that women have been getting heavier and heavier in this country.
The rest of your post is suggesting motives which you are both wrong about and make me uninterested in responding to you further. I came here to voice a different view that I think needs to be represented at a time when the body positive movement is encouraging further increases in obesity in this country. There is nothing positive about the trend toward a higher and higher % of people becoming obese in this country.
Oh get real. I did not "speak out of turn," whatever that even means on a message board.
When I say "defend my view," my point is that on a fitness board, supporting a height/weight proportionality or a moderate to low body fat percentage for women or men shouldn't be the minority view.
And this thread is NOT about saying "it's OK to be a bit overweight," the OP of this thread is saying he sees "thick" women as AN IDEAL. I'm saying I disagree. If you or others are too sensitive to hear different opinions and want this thread to be as safe space, say so up front.
And it IS true that the body positive/pro-thick movement is related to the fact that women have been getting heavier and heavier in this country.
The rest of your post is suggesting motives which you are both wrong about and make me uninterested in responding to you further. I came here to voice a different view that I think needs to be represented at a time when the body positive movement is encouraging further increases in obesity in this country. There is nothing positive about the trend toward a higher and higher % of people becoming obese in this country.
I am just going to try to respond to some of the statements without being challenging or aggressive just responding so please take it with that intent.
By spoke out of turn I meant you spoke for what motivated other men to like thick women which you have no business doing because you have no clue why it is. I only say this because you do not find them attractive so you can't know why someone else does find them attractive. Similar to how I wouldn't understand why you might find someone attractive if I didn't.
This thread is not about him saying it is ideal, it is about if others find bigger women sexy like he does... Then he even asked how he could help his girl get healthier without ruining what he found sexy... So it is quite obvious that people are aware that it is not considered the healthy ideal.
No safe space needed, you said it was bizarre why you had to defend your stance. I explained to you my opinion of why that was...
Also to touch on the defending your position part you said above, you are correct, the people who think that overweight people are extremely attractive, or have the ideal look are MOST DEFINITELY IN THE MINORITY on this and pretty much any fitness board. Really anywhere in the US and probably most other countries as well. However, in THIS THREAD, it was a given that that minority was going to be the majority due to the title and subject matter.
It IS TRUE that it is YOUR opinion that is why there is a thick women movement and not the fact that lots of men find them attractive. If women came out and started championing being thick and every man was like... Nah none of us like that!!! Well, then there would be no thick movement. However there are enough out there that do love it, so it is a thing... Personally, I did not see women being proud of being thick until some men started being more vocal about loving it. Then women started embracing it rather than shaming themselves which can lead to just as many health or psychological problems as being overweight.
I also wasn't suggesting a motive, although admittedly I had an accusatory tone. To be honest I have no idea why you chose to make those statements in this particular thread, but you had to have known it wasn't going to get a positive reaction... To say otherwise would imply that you have some social awareness deficiencies, and I doubt that is the case. The thread is titled "Anyone else here really into thick curvy women" Not knowing your opinion would be unpopular in here would require you to be pretty oblivious to typical social interaction. From your communications I do not think that applies, you seem quite intelligent actually. So I assumed you knew your opinion would be unpopular in this thread but chose to give it anyway. Which is perfectly fine if you welcome the debate and reaction, but saying something like it is bizarre to have to defend those statements made you sound like a victim when you knowingly put yourself in the position... I would have expected more along the lines of "I knew you guys would feel this way since you all are into thick women." from someone who chose to put themselves in that situation.
Either way, We both have our opinions and that's cool. I just told you why I felt or thought you were having to defend your statements. Let's drop it and move on.
And if you want big booty done right IMO, I give you the VERY, VERY hot Sommer Ray:
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She has the big booty, but it's more muscle than fat, and she is still fit and lean. It's a booty born of squats and lunges and lots of time in the gym.. this to me personally is the big booty ideal
Speaking of moving on... That's a damn nice booty, we DEFINITELY agree on that! My taste is very eclectic but that is definitely in my wheelhouse.
