Blackfish
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keep your hands on the keyboard soldier. :laugh:
my lack of sex thread
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keep your hands on the keyboard soldier. :laugh:
ABNRanger
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Yeah you sure can put your money where your mouth is..... if there was any doubt about you not being f***ble, you erased all that doubt. Now back to being a gentlman, you are beautful, and I am sure anyone who YOU deem worthy of your time, would feel blessed, (and need an oxygen tank as well, hahaha)
Blackfish
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pistonpump
Banned
yeah idk, ive been warned before for posting a pic of an ass in a gstring as my avy, no nudity but still got warned. Ive seen alot more skin on other avys that stick around so idk, im not gonna take the chance
ABNRanger
Well-known member
Yes mme (and salutes). Being from the caribbean, I am not a big steak man, but I do love jerk chicken or fish, hint hint, hahaha. I wish you all the best in your quest. BTW does Anavar affect men the same way?
Blackfish
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I'm really not sure. I know that guys would take upwards of 60 mg daily to feel any effect (maybe more I dunno) where as I'm taking 10 mg daily. It is worth it for me but for someone needing a larger dose it wouldn't be cost effective. No idea what it would do for the male libido though... it'll definitely make the rest of your muscles hard
Irish Cannon
Legend
I'm going to pop my head and say this...If you care for your ex, don't tempt him in that way. If the guy is trying to abstain until married, allow him to do so. I'm a Christian and have been put in those situations many times, and saying no to sex is by far the hardest thing I've had to do. It would be selfish to try to get something out of him for your own satisfaction. I understand you may care for him, and if that's the case, then let him go.
Believe me, I know what it's like to have a raging libido. Mine runs 24/7. It IS possible to keep it under control.
Believe me, I know what it's like to have a raging libido. Mine runs 24/7. It IS possible to keep it under control.
Blackfish
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Good post! I can definitely keep it under control (obviously or I wouldn't be in here complaining, which is mostly me joking around btw). I do care for him a lot. He is the person I lost my virginity to. And we have discussed it at length, when he told me he felt guilty about it I said we didn't need to and I didn't press the matter. He told me he is a man and will make his own decisions and does want to have sex but sometimes feels guilty about it.
I don't know... I don't ever say any of this stuff to him or initiate sex, it's all on him. I really think it's more of lack of test than his spiritual belief to be honest but I still don't push it because either way it puts him in a comprimising or embarrassing position.
But I appretiate that input and I'll keep it in mind!
buuzer0
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I :laugh:'d
I think everyone missed this joke, good one.
As for the Blackfish... yeah... good luck. Do you go out much? As in, to places where guys might be looking to meet women? Or are you hoping to meet this perfect guy in your everyday life/at work (ugh, big no-no for me... don't sh** where you eat!), or through friends?
Just curious.
BodyWizard
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yeah, *that*'ll work... :far2t:
[EDIT: just discovered Blackfish is a perfect image of female hotness...]
Complaining never got *ME* laid, and I know that often it's not so much that you CAN'T as that you want to be glad you did when you're done...and simply "getting laid" won't really fix that. Still having really good sex several times a week, several years into the relationship - THAT will fix it.
Blackfish
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I know! That was making me laugh so hard
I do go out but I don't want to meet a guy in a bar you know? I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone that I didn't see a potential future with and care deeply about and wouldn't have sex outside of a relationship. So I realize I'm putting myself in this predicament but I really won't drop my standards/morals even though my sex drive is taking over my brain.
I also wouldn't date anyone from work.
I'm 10 weeks out from a show to so even if there was a potential candidate, I wouldn't have time to be the kind of partner for him that I'd want to be. Prepping for a show is a VERY selfish, eyes on the prize time. Not an ideal time to start up something new... I mean I'm dieting! He'd think I was a crazy bitch half the time (on the low carb days) and a workout fanatic the rest of the time. Unless he was from the BB world, then I suppose he'd understand
Blackfish
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I'm not intending to get laid by complaining in here. So it's not supposed to "work", it's supposed to give me an outlet to vent.:type: and provide others with entertainment because hey, someone elses unfortunate circumstances are funny right?
ABNRanger
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I have to give you (Blackfish) a lot of credit for even starting a thread like that. But I guess it is a credit to the quality of members on this site. Some other site(s) might have turned this into something very unpleasant. So, with that being said, my hat goes off to you AM members for being mature in your responses to this thread. BF, much respect to you as well for maintaining your standards, and thanks for allowing us to "poke" at you (no pun intended) with good witty humor, and you for being open to accept and laugh with/at us.
As for Anavar, I just did some reading on it, it says that 60mg is good, but some may have to take very high doses for good results. That is one damn expensive drug though.
As for Anavar, I just did some reading on it, it says that 60mg is good, but some may have to take very high doses for good results. That is one damn expensive drug though.
Blackfish
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I know! I figured once the pictures came out it'd take a turn for the worst in here but I'm actually getting some fantastic input on my situation... and of course great jokes and very gentlemanly conduct all around.
Jayhawkk
Legend
Mmm, depends...
Some of the most intense sex has been at the beginning of a relationship when things are wild and new. You're experiencing everything for the first time with that person. However, sex with someone you've known for a while can be great for breaking new and exotic situations because of the trust you've built.
dg806
Enologist/Brewmaster/Damn good guy
Yeah I can agree with that, but it keeps getting better for me at least. Maybe it's because she feels comfortable with me? Now don't get me wrong, hitting a new girl that you lust for is awesome. It's just different.
Blackfish
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Um. :eek5: You should take your negitivity elsewhere.
Blackfish
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It is better for me after a while. The fire at the beginning is crazy, yes. But it does take me a while to be totally comfortable. Once you have that mutual trust and knowledge of how to make the other person happy, great things can happen.
dg806
Enologist/Brewmaster/Damn good guy
I knew this was going to happen. I think this is harsh. She may like attention, who doesn't? You can choose not to view or post in it if you don't want to.
Blackfish
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Yes. Obviously this whole thread is about me not getting enough "attention". I was waiting for that type of comment too
Aggravated
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LOL at whoever left the comment on her album. It strictly says, "Nice tits"!!!
Blackfish
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Ok I'm sorry for raining on your parade, single woman.
thank you, I'm sure you have more important things to do with your time. I obviously do not
buuzer0
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Holy crap, you just read my mind.
Blackfish
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haha i haven't looked in there yet. I was thinking someone would probably delete all my pics and put up a bunch of fat chicks hehe
Aggravated
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Blackfish
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there are cynics and there are realists. You my friend, are a realist.
buuzer0
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I know! That was making me laugh so hard
I do go out but I don't want to meet a guy in a bar you know? I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone that I didn't see a potential future with and care deeply about and wouldn't have sex outside of a relationship. So I realize I'm putting myself in this predicament but I really won't drop my standards/morals even though my sex drive is taking over my brain.
I also wouldn't date anyone from work.
I'm 10 weeks out from a show to so even if there was a potential candidate, I wouldn't have time to be the kind of partner for him that I'd want to be. Prepping for a show is a VERY selfish, eyes on the prize time. Not an ideal time to start up something new... I mean I'm dieting! He'd think I was a crazy bitch half the time (on the low carb days) and a workout fanatic the rest of the time. Unless he was from the BB world, then I suppose he'd understand
I wish people didn't associate such negative stigmas with meeting people in bars. It's crazy to me how if you meet someone say, at the grocery store (and seriously, how often does that happen?) or through a friend they can rationalize that it's ok, but through somewhere like a bar, or hell, even through the internet it's not as acceptible (to themselves... because honestly, other people don't care! They're usually jealous that you met someone at all and they're still alone!).
What is a bar or a club? Yeah, it's a place to drink, but it's also a social setting... a place where you MEET PEOPLE! I think people are weird who go to a bar and keep to themselves or the friends they came with. It's like hey... you could do that at your house and for cheaper!
But that's just me :burnout:
Blackfish
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Totally get your point BUT are you really going to try and tell me that most men (and some women for that matter) are just out to find some ass? And just for that night? I don't think a man would really expect to find a woman of my caliber (haha Ilovelamp thought I needed more self esteem!) in a bar. So I think the majority of men wouldn't look at me like a potential wifey that should be treated as such, but more as a one night conquest.
As for internet dating... I dunno. I suppose it is a good way to get to know part of someone, but chemistry is HUGE for me. I rarely feel that spark and would need to know if it was there. Safety is also a concern of course
Blackfish
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There's an idea!
It's on the one that is mostly nude. You look awesome btw
Thanks yo, I work hard at it 7 days a week!
I don't use photobucket normally so I have no idea where the comments are.
Blackfish
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So if anyone wants to help me feel like less of an attention whore, or at least join me in doing so, feel free to post up your pics. Not only will it divert some of the whore-ishness elsewhere but it will also give me some good eye candy- and you all know I need it!!! Sorry Irishcannon, I'm not as strong as you
If not, it's all good, I'm used to being the blackfish. 5,000 points to ANYONE who knows who that is.
*someone pointed out to me that "5,000 points" are useless here. So REPS to anyone who knows who the blackfish is
If not, it's all good, I'm used to being the blackfish. 5,000 points to ANYONE who knows who that is.
*someone pointed out to me that "5,000 points" are useless here. So REPS to anyone who knows who the blackfish is
Blackfish
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haha nope.
dg806
Enologist/Brewmaster/Damn good guy
I have seen some of the hottest women in bars looking for a hookup. Some very rich.....some divorced........you see it all. Depends on what you want. Now caliber can be thought of as just looks, where you can find tons of women, like you and hotter. Or it can be thought of as morals and what you really want in a person and not just a hookup. Honestly, a woman that would sleep with me on the first night scares me. I would not want to get serious with this type........
buuzer0
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Yeah, you said it. You meet all types in social environments like bars, clubs, lounges, etc... just like anywhere else! Young, old, rich, poor, fit, unfit, etc. Not EVERYONE there is looking for a one night hookup, but yes, some are. Who says you have to do a 1 night hookup with someone? The initial meet in a bar could lead to a relationship.
That's one of the reasons I love going out... you never know what can happen! So grab up some friends and hit the town. What good is it being an introvert?
Blackfish
Member
Yup.
I'm not saying that love at first sight doesnt happen or that someone wouldn't marry someone they slept with on the first night but really... I just don't see that as a healthy start. It basically shows that sex isn't sacred, it's casual... like a hand shake. And implies to your lover that you would shake hands with just about anybody.
buuzer0
Member
But then there's the complete opposite end of the spectrum where you date someone for a really long time and then it turns out that things are terrible once you're together in the bedroom.
Personally, if I'm going to try to start a relationship with someone, I want to know whether the sex is good as early as possible!
Personally, if I'm going to try to start a relationship with someone, I want to know whether the sex is good as early as possible!
pistonpump
Banned
i knew this thread would blow up, itll be ten pages by the end of the day... haha
Blackfish
Member
I've gone out the past few weekends. I have a good time but there really are no men- where I'm at anyway haha. I mean there are but... I don't know if anyone has noticed but it seems like the farther north you go (in the US) the more unattractive people you find.
I do always keep my eye out but I'm honestly that bi*ch that shuts down almost every guy who approaches her. I can't help it, I'm too picky and not going to waste my time with a string of pick up lines that are almost identical to the one previous and all totally lame.
I should try to be more open minded though, you are correct in this.
pistonpump
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so you are the shutdown type? well thats too bad cuz you would never get to know a great guy like myself. I get better the deeper you get but how is a guy like myself supposed to approach a beautiful woman like yourself without getting snobbed/shutdown? You dont have to answer that im just saying personally i like people who are open minded and at least friendly, willing to talk without being judged right away. I mean how can you tell anyway how someone is just by their first approach? Pick up lines? ha! ive never used them but apparently they work for alot of guys. I just come real, thats all i can do.
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