I must admit I have been in a few fights but I'm no great brawler. I honestly prefer peace and love. I think projecting what you want through your 'aura' or whatever you want to call it works for you, not always but mostly.
I think the fact that I haven't gotten into any trouble lately is because I project one of two things
1. Peace and love ie. let me help you and make this world a better place
2. If you look deep into my eyes you will see that below the surface is someone / something that, if you open it up, I'll stab you in the face with a bic pen and eat your heart all the while waiting for the cops to come and tear me from your lifeless corpse drenched in your blood.
Now I don't revel in the rage and prefer not to let it consume me, so I prefer to be happy and peaceful. Woe to the next person who unleashes the beast, seriously

I have many years of catching up pent up stuff to let go of.
I must admit there are two things that make me lose any fear of personal harm and that I have to take action against:
1. Someone weak who is being taken advantage of - i.e. injustice
2. I have nothing to lose except my wife who is the love of my life, any harm or any threat she may feel and people will start going missing. No Joke. I would end the world and everyone in it for her! You may look but that's all.
So with that said let's all get along
Much Love,
Neoborn