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"If I dont have pretty fast sex(Which is cardio dont kid yourself) I do five minutes High intensity treadmill or Just working at work."
 
"I do dishwashing which I do the work of two men, Two men usually work but when I work they put me in the place of two men or serving, which doesnt require very much lifting and running just running, and very light work."
 
bitterplacebo said:
hello
so did you have a date yesterday?
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I wouldn't call it date, but yes I did see her. It was nice. She was holding my hand. Spent a few hours at the mall, then for some odd reason she decided that she wanted to give me a manicure at my house:blink:

Then...(sound of the other shoe about to drop)...she explains that she likes being with me, feels very close to me, BUT doesn't think we weill ever work out so we can casually date, but that's it.

So...we'll see how that goes.
 
thewilman said:
I wouldn't call it date, but yes I did see her. It was nice. She was holding my hand. Spent a few hours at the mall, then for some odd reason she decided that she wanted to give me a manicure at my house:blink:

Then...(sound of the other shoe about to drop)...she explains that she likes being with me, feels very close to me, BUT doesn't think we weill ever work out so we can casually date, but that's it.

So...we'll see how that goes.
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Assuming caual dating includes casual sex its probably better this way.

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thewilman said:
I wouldn't call it date, but yes I did see her. It was nice. She was holding my hand. Spent a few hours at the mall, then for some odd reason she decided that she wanted to give me a manicure at my house:blink:

Then...(sound of the other shoe about to drop)...she explains that she likes being with me, feels very close to me, BUT doesn't think we weill ever work out so we can casually date, but that's it.

So...we'll see how that goes.
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Well at least she told you where she stands.

Think of it as a trial version. If things workout for the best, then it can evolve to something more serious...
 
thewilman said:
I wouldn't call it date, but yes I did see her. It was nice. She was holding my hand. Spent a few hours at the mall, then for some odd reason she decided that she wanted to give me a manicure at my house:blink:

Then...(sound of the other shoe about to drop)...she explains that she likes being with me, feels very close to me, BUT doesn't think we weill ever work out so we can casually date, but that's it.

So...we'll see how that goes.
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Friends with sexual tension?
She's saying that you can still take her out to dinner and buy her gifts, but that won't get you anywhere?
if that's the case, don't ever let her do anything to your nails again.
 
11 principles of High-threshold muscle building:
  1. Always try to generate as much force as possible
  2. Take advantage of the eccentric portion of the movement
  3. Precede the maximum concentric action by a prestretch of the muscle
  4. Train to the muscle failure point
  5. Include some plyometric work to train the nervous system
  6. Include a significant amount of unilateral work
  7. Include some unstable training to wake-up the nervous system
  8. Optimize the work-to-rest ratio
  9. Select the most effective exercises for each muscle group
  10. When trying to lose fat, add high-speed metabolic work
  11. Utilize eccentric loading and deceleration training for strength, power and size
 
EasyEJL said:
Assuming caual dating includes casual sex its probably better this way.

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LOL...OK...I don't believe that is part of the deal and as gay as this may sound...I don't want casual sex. Of course after a long drought...I may succumb to the temptation. :chick:
 
xjsynx said:
Well at least she told you where she stands.

Think of it as a trial version. If things workout for the best, then it can evolve to something more serious...
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Yeah, it has a lot to do with her coming out of a relationship. I guess it's bad timing. I've been alone for 3 years, like her, and want more NOW. I am the EasyE of the dating scene! LOL
 
bitterplacebo said:
Friends with sexual tension?
She's saying that you can still take her out to dinner and buy her gifts, but that won't get you anywhere?
if that's the case, don't ever let her do anything to your nails again.
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Friends with sexual tension...yes...big time.

However, she is VERY VERY uncomfortable about receiving gifts. I basically had to force her to accept a old iPod Shuffle. It was new but 2 years old. And when we have gone out, I had to insist on paying...even on her birthday.

For her 1st manicure, it came out very nice. I feel pretty! I am once again laughing for all the world to hear!
 
its not all bad, keep expectations open and see what happens. Its not like you are turning away droves of other women. Just disappear instantly the first time she talks to you about another man :)
 
EasyEJL said:
its not all bad, keep expectations open and see what happens. Its not like you are turning away droves of other women. Just disappear instantly the first time she talks to you about another man :)
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I told her not to say anything about me :run:
 
EasyEJL said:
its not all bad, keep expectations open and see what happens. Its not like you are turning away droves of other women. Just disappear instantly the first time she talks to you about another man :)
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Agreed. That's my problem...I REALLY like her and if I do start to fall (harder) then it's gonna drive me nuts if she sees another guy.

EasyEJL said:
ts not like you are turning away droves of other women.
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Thanks for reminding me :nutkick:

LOL
 
thewilman said:
I feel like the chick in this relationship, or lack thereof!

I need to cowboy up!
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nah, you gotta be you.



I'm constantly asking my wife how she feels, whats shes thinking, etc and shes the one happy to drive for 3 hours with the radio off in silence with me in the car... no shame in being who you are, only shame in trying to pretend to be someone you aren't.
 
EasyEJL said:
nah, you gotta be you.

I'm constantly asking my wife how she feels, whats shes thinking, etc and shes the one happy to drive for 3 hours with the radio off in silence with me in the car... no shame in being who you are, only shame in trying to pretend to be someone you aren't.
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thewilman said:
LOL...OK...I don't believe that is part of the deal and as gay as this may sound...I don't want casual sex. Of course after a long drought...I may succumb to the temptation. :chick:
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I don't want to sound like an ass, as it isn't my nature, so I'll be as blunt, but polite as I can be.

I've been in your situation, and I can tell you this. If she is telling you the part about it not working out and you can be friends, this girl is looking for a sucker. Someone that will come running when she calls. Someone that will take her out, show her a good time, then drop her off and go away so she can do other things.

I had a girl about a year and a half ago that was good at this. I didn't even catch on until I told her in a non-homosexual way, that I wouldn't have sex in an uncommitted relationship.
Turns out, I was giving her everything she wanted except the casual sex, and when I tied it to a relationship she all but up and left. She then distanced her self enough that I was good enough to call back (she would never answer when I called) but she was always 'busy'. You wouldn't believe the excuses she came up with.
Then once I caught her in a bit of a white lie and that let me know 100%, once and for all that she was using me.
She told me she wanted to come over blah blah, well she comes over, I cook for her, we have a good time licking the back of each others throats, when about 30 minutes into it she has to go see her grandma. She was the only one qualified to give her grandma a shot, and her granny didn't have a home nurse.

OK.

She leaves, and rather than come back like she said she would I don't hear from her for a week.

Then the next week she's telling me this awesome story about how her friends called her to come and pick them up from a bar and all this cool stuff happened....and all these awesome people she hung out with and got **** faced with...

And yes...it was the same night she was supposed to be at her grannys house real quick (it was down the road from where I was staying at the time) then coming back for the rest of the evening.

I figured if she didn't have the gumption to tell me **** you, I'd just do it for her and I just wrote her off as a user. Nice girl, but some what of a sociopath I'm thinking. I later found out she was dating about 5 of us. Good thing I never stuffed her like a Thanksgiving turkey. I'm not into rubbing dicks.

I had one other girl do the same thing and I spotted it on our first real not-hanging-out-with-a-bunch-of-people date.

Now, granted this girl of yours might be a decent friend, but it sounds like it will have to be friends at a distance. If you get all wound up in trying to be with her, you're going to feel like blowing your head off the day she says she can't go do anything because her boyfriend is taking her out.

You seem like a decent guy. Don't let any woman (or anyone for that matter) give you less than what you want. If they can't handle it, accept it, and move on.

:burger: <---burger
 
I think MJ could fly. I used to love hearing the physics professor in the commercial describe his half court slam dunks as MJ entering a low altitude Earth orbit.
 
xjsynx said:
A very tough situation for you to be in Wil.
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I created it, though. I'll probably end up moving on anyway if she just wants to be "casual"

One of my buddies at the gym wants to set me up with a pediatrician that he knows. "Supposedly" attractive, good shape, no kids, etc.

Luckily, he did not say good personality :donut: <----- donut

:D
 
thewilman said:
I created it, though. I'll probably end up moving on anyway if she just wants to be "casual"

One of my buddies at the gym wants to set me up with a pediatrician that he knows. "Supposedly" attractive, good shape, no kids, etc.

Luckily, he did not say good personality :donut: <----- donut

:D
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There is the other woman ;)
 
thewilman said:
I created it, though. I'll probably end up moving on anyway if she just wants to be "casual"

One of my buddies at the gym wants to set me up with a pediatrician that he knows. "Supposedly" attractive, good shape, no kids, etc.

Luckily, he did not say good personality :donut: <----- donut

:D
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oh no, thats the guarantee the inca will string you along. The moment she calls you and "I already have plans for thursday" suddenly you will become attractive again.

is it just me or is the idea of a pediatrician without kids kinda odd?
 
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