Thanks fellas.
Whoever was running the show can kiss my rear. I literally paid the $60 for my card and the $5 for the judges comments, walked outside got the phone call, had my gf go inside and try and get my refund cuz i didnt want to go back in sobbing and the one person collecting the money wasnt understanding one bit. She didnt care. The hotel refunded me, so shout out to best western. I drove all the way (2.5hrs) to arnold mo, and basically turned right around and drove back. So, to sum it up.. i lost my grandmother, lost $200 dollars in registration/amature card fees and didnt compete. All that other crap is for the birds, i just want my grandma back.
Take it easy guys.
God bless