nofx4110
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I have been dating this wonderfull girl for about a year and a half. Everything is about as perfect as can be except for one thing. :wtf:
About 2 months ago she told me if I didn't graduate this May, she would break up with me:whip:. This really pissed me off:nono:. I am fully capable of graduating in May, but I don't think it should affect my relationship if I graduate or not.:aargh: Secondly, It makes me question what she really wants out of this relationship.
A little bit of background information: This May will be the end of my 5th year. I had a hard time in college and I accomplished nothing my sophmore and junior year, mostly due to reasons beyond my control (health) and the fact that I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I hustled for the past year and a half with online classes, summer school, and overloading have something like 21 hours left. I am doing the best in school I have ever done.
This week I found out that I am going to miss out on some of the classes I need to graduate unless I take them online, which I don't feel like doing anymore. I am perfectly okay with this, I have a good addendum for the 2 years I didn't get any credits in (health reasons and I was playing in a couple bands and recording a lot of music:head:, and figuring out what I wanted to do). Also, the way the job market is going, I don't want to graduate, not get a job, then let next years graduates get them while I am stuck flipping burgers. My family is also on my side.
I have made the decision to take it easy next semster, prepare for the LSAT's :study:, (yea, this is taking it easy for me!) and say to hell with her:rasp:. I haven't told her yet though because I want to do it face to face. I know its going to be hard because I really love her, and I can't help but wonder if I am making the wrong decision. :blink:
What do you think, is it f'ed up that she won't stay with me unless I meet her ultimatium:box:, or f'ed up that I won't meet the ultimatium to make it work:FUfinger:. Should a persons's education or career hold any bearing in a relationship?:think:
About 2 months ago she told me if I didn't graduate this May, she would break up with me:whip:. This really pissed me off:nono:. I am fully capable of graduating in May, but I don't think it should affect my relationship if I graduate or not.:aargh: Secondly, It makes me question what she really wants out of this relationship.
A little bit of background information: This May will be the end of my 5th year. I had a hard time in college and I accomplished nothing my sophmore and junior year, mostly due to reasons beyond my control (health) and the fact that I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I hustled for the past year and a half with online classes, summer school, and overloading have something like 21 hours left. I am doing the best in school I have ever done.
This week I found out that I am going to miss out on some of the classes I need to graduate unless I take them online, which I don't feel like doing anymore. I am perfectly okay with this, I have a good addendum for the 2 years I didn't get any credits in (health reasons and I was playing in a couple bands and recording a lot of music:head:, and figuring out what I wanted to do). Also, the way the job market is going, I don't want to graduate, not get a job, then let next years graduates get them while I am stuck flipping burgers. My family is also on my side.
I have made the decision to take it easy next semster, prepare for the LSAT's :study:, (yea, this is taking it easy for me!) and say to hell with her:rasp:. I haven't told her yet though because I want to do it face to face. I know its going to be hard because I really love her, and I can't help but wonder if I am making the wrong decision. :blink:
What do you think, is it f'ed up that she won't stay with me unless I meet her ultimatium:box:, or f'ed up that I won't meet the ultimatium to make it work:FUfinger:. Should a persons's education or career hold any bearing in a relationship?:think: