Why hasn’t my exes best friend deleted me?

-MVP-

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So as most of you know, I’ve been off and on with this girl now since last August. When we first met, we dated a week and she ended it. Two weeks later we got back together and her best friend added me on Facebook. Well she dumped me again and both her and her best friend blocked me within a few days of one another.

A few months go by and we got back together. We even dated other people in this timeframe. She came back to me I might add not the other way around. So we got started dating again and her best friend added me…. Again. We were even engaged for a short period. I ended things and then we kind of talked about working things out slowly until she ended things. She blocked my best friend a week after she ended it with me.

Well I bring my facebook back after a 3 month hiatus and my ex instantly blocks me. I had not even spoken to her in over a month? Every time we break up she blocks me I don’t get it? But this time her best friend didn’t? And then as soon as she blocks me she unblocks my best friend. I’m not sure what to think here.

She playing mind games? She getting her friend to check up on me? She unblocking my friend thinking he’s gonna message her for me like he did the last time?
 
Sounds like some high school ****. I wouldn't even care why and would not of talked to her the second time. If your smart you will just ignore someone like that. Lots of times the more you ignore some girls the more they want tou. It's weird. Either way I'd stay far away. I've dated some strange chicks way back in the day. Im guessing your still young like under 25. You will learn the signs of crazy and stay away. Ha
 
Haha yeah I’ve heard she’s crazy by a lot of people. It just mind boggles me of why she does some of this stuff. For one why block someone that hasn’t spoken to you in over a month? Why unblock their best friend knowing that’s going to be noticed? And I’m wondering if her bestie still has me on there to spy on me? I was just laying in best last night thinking about all of this. It just puzzles me.
 
There is a whole world full of Poon-Tang out there...... Stop beating your head against the wall and thinking that it wont hurt this time.
 
You might just consider getting facebook out of your life entirely.

You know what to do, you don't need this in your life. You just want confirmation, so you have it.

Be careful about obsessing over small things that other people do. Focus on the small things in your life that you can control and stay far away from anyone who is going to bring drama into your life. You don't need drama, you need to figure yourself out before you can figure out you +1.
 
As other's have suggested, this stuff is a stupid distraction, done by narcissists to show some degree of control over others.

Observations:

1. If she broke up with you, even once, does that not tell you all you need to know?
2. Your criteria and timeline for becoming engaged appears to be seriously in need of re-evaluation.
3. Let me guess - she is "high-maintenance"? Run, don't walk, away from her.
4. Why would you care if someone does or does not block you on Fakebook, or anything else? It is meaningless.
5. Do not give any part of your emotional happiness/well-being to others or make their acceptance of you a condition of your own self worth.
6. Any nude pics of her "broken down like a shotgun"?
 
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So as most of you know, I’ve been off and on with this girl now since last August. When we first met, we dated a week and she ended it. Two weeks later we got back together and her best friend added me on Facebook. Well she dumped me again and both her and her best friend blocked me within a few days of one another.

A few months go by and we got back together. We even dated other people in this timeframe. She came back to me I might add not the other way around. So we got started dating again and her best friend added me…. Again. We were even engaged for a short period. I ended things and then we kind of talked about working things out slowly until she ended things. She blocked my best friend a week after she ended it with me.

Well I bring my facebook back after a 3 month hiatus and my ex instantly blocks me. I had not even spoken to her in over a month? Every time we break up she blocks me I don’t get it? But this time her best friend didn’t? And then as soon as she blocks me she unblocks my best friend. I’m not sure what to think here.

She playing mind games? She getting her friend to check up on me? She unblocking my friend thinking he’s gonna message her for me like he did the last time?
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You sound like a lot of work.
 
Sounds like a job for me!
Gimme their phonenumbers and I will take care of it 😁

From joke to the revolver. It sounds like your ex has some mental issues...
 
I would ask why do you even notice her friend blocking you? sounds like you're obsessed with it. you check your ex's friend's page that much?
 
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