When I am smashing out a session I like to put my earbuds in, hoodie up and I just get into a zone.
I look very unapproachable, that is not my intentions because I'm too focused on myself.
I don't stress the numbers,some days I'm feeling good and I'm up a few pounds on my lifts, and some days I'm down a couple pounds. That doesn't affect me, because where I am at during those reps is all that matters to me. I've had days where I just wasn't feeling it, my numbers were down a little bit, but I just stayed connected mentally and ultimately it turned out to be some of my better sessions.
If I start beating myself up inside of my head, I break things down and just think of the moment and just those reps. Not what transpired prior or what is to come with the rest of my routine but rather just that given moment.
If I'm not there in that moment during those reps than I just wasted my time.
If my head is down and I'm rocking back and forth, and my eyes are glassy or even slightly tearing up. Just leave me alone, because I'm right where I want to be.
If I had to go back 25 years and explain to the younger version of me, about this place that I need to get to inside of my head mentally, I wouldn't understand, but I would tell myself "when you do find that place, you'll know exactly what it is and what to do from there on out".
When I see new people joined a gym,or heavy people that are continuously pressing forward, or average guys that are struggling to forge forward all the while they look unapproachable and in a zone, I mentally give them a high-five because I know right where they're trying to go. Their making it happen, they are at war with their own demons!