I'm a 33 year-old male. I've a;ways been overweight. While genetics probably play a role, that is no excuse. I know people who eat more than me and are less active and can't gain weight. Who cares? My choices are simple. 1)Eat what I want to, when I want to, & exercise whyen I want to or not at all. 2) Accept that if I want to be healthy and weigh less it requires a strict regimen of diet and exercise. Pretty damn simple. At 6'2, I had been over 300lbs for at least 5 years. I got tired of it, tired of not being able to play with my daughter without getting winded, tired of constant back & knee pain, tired of having trouble finding clothes that fit. So I got off my dead ass & took some action. On Oct 1, 2011 I weighed 325lbs and was probably 35 or 40% bf. Today, March 8,2012, I weigh 240lbs and Im about 25% bf. My advice, if anyone cares, is QUIT BITCHIN & WHININ about things you can't control(i.e genetics, metabolism, upbringing, environment) & DO SOMETHING about to things you can (diet, exercise)