Tell the Girlfriend ???
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merllin_2000
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Will they ever learn, or will it always be about the money? lol :frustrate
money ofcourse!!
money ofcourse!!
Cuffs
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Let me add this to my earlier response. I do believe honesty and communication are key issues to have a succesful relationship. However, we are human, and there will always be some form of secret that one keeps to themselves.
If you decide to use AAS's, and keep it a secret, then show some respect for your significant other, and don't place yourself in a position where you will be caught by him/her. Do not keep your supp's where they can be easily located, keep them locked up, and don't do your applications when they are home. If you do get caught, then expect a long road of healing ahead of you. The other person may feel very hurt and betrayed. The relationship may be repaired, or may not be. Just make sure you have all your ducks in a row, and you are able to rationally explain your position on AAS's, and why you felt the need to use them. ***hint***pity can go a long way***hint***.
However, I still stand firm on tell no one.
If you decide to use AAS's, and keep it a secret, then show some respect for your significant other, and don't place yourself in a position where you will be caught by him/her. Do not keep your supp's where they can be easily located, keep them locked up, and don't do your applications when they are home. If you do get caught, then expect a long road of healing ahead of you. The other person may feel very hurt and betrayed. The relationship may be repaired, or may not be. Just make sure you have all your ducks in a row, and you are able to rationally explain your position on AAS's, and why you felt the need to use them. ***hint***pity can go a long way***hint***.
However, I still stand firm on tell no one.
RobInKuwait
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If you did tell her, she may attribute any argument or disagreement you all have to 'roid rage'. If you haven't already told her, I think you're on track if you tell her its HRT.
tattoopierced1
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yeah this is true, i wouldnt tell either...i have some "stuff" at home that thankfully I hid really well...she likes to go through my supps to see what I am taking, and if she doesnt like what she reads on the warning label, she'll up and throw them out...so the things I dont want her to see, I hide where she cannot find/and or reach. It is also best to move it around every other month or so...if she sees you going to a certain area of your home certain times, she may wonder and stumble upon something...better to be extra careful than get caught...
Nullifidian
Banned
I thank my lucky stars my girlfriend has the attitude she does and is as trusting as she is. She's simply not the vindictive type either. I keep my IGF1 in a minifridge in our bedroom. I told her about it before I bought it, and made sure she was ok with it. She was creeped out by the fact that it's for pinning, but I've reassured her with clinical trial evidence of its efficacy and safety, as well as the tiny size of the slin pins.
Abquest
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It's been 12 years now and I've not said a word.
Yes... it's alot of "sneaking" around... but SHE WOULD NEVER UNDERSTAND.
Period.
Most women wouldn't. It's a guy thing.
*If* I told her... she would launch into "I like you just the way you are... yada yada yada.... it's dangerous, it's illegal, it's crazy... what is wrong with you.... don't you like yourself... what else are you doing... "
Then I would be out sitting in the car with a blanket and a pillow. :|
Keep it to yourself bro.
My 3¢.
Yes... it's alot of "sneaking" around... but SHE WOULD NEVER UNDERSTAND.
Period.
Most women wouldn't. It's a guy thing.
*If* I told her... she would launch into "I like you just the way you are... yada yada yada.... it's dangerous, it's illegal, it's crazy... what is wrong with you.... don't you like yourself... what else are you doing... "
Then I would be out sitting in the car with a blanket and a pillow. :|
Keep it to yourself bro.
My 3¢.
exnihilo
Well-known member
Coolkat said:
Tell her? NO. No matter what you say to her after you tell her she'll see some bullshit on TV or hear some uneducated fucktard saying steroids give you cancer and make you rage uncontrollably among other things, and she'll believe them and start to worry enlessly. She'll go through a bunch of bullshit in her head, then she'll finally come to the conclusion that if she does some sort of "steroids or me" ultimatum that in reality she's doing something "good for you" even if she has to do it in a fucked up way. If you have any guns, put the roids in the same locked box you put your guns - chicks hate guns and will NEVER look there
If you don't have any guns, might as well buy some, guns are cool 
BOHICA
Registered User
I told my girlfriend that I might start pinning stuff, and that it is just prohormones(<--- that is the lie but the only one). She is cool with those, since she has seen me take them orally since before they were banned. I explained how it's less toxic on the liver and other positive things. She just had one stipulation, that I never do it around her, and that I never ask her to do it for me. Hmm guess that is 2 stipulations, damn it she got me again...
voodooatl
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I know I never post but...
Remember that you only have legal protection for her knowing after you are married. Even then its only a little, but at least if you get into trouble later (hope not) she could not be required to testify in any criminal case. For her sake bring up the subject and maybe even hint at it - but don't put he in a spot about knowing.
It should only be you at risk. Then again you should not keep them in your house for legal reasons. I always think of the worst case, and that should only be you who has to deal with any problems.
Just my .02
Remember that you only have legal protection for her knowing after you are married. Even then its only a little, but at least if you get into trouble later (hope not) she could not be required to testify in any criminal case. For her sake bring up the subject and maybe even hint at it - but don't put he in a spot about knowing.
It should only be you at risk. Then again you should not keep them in your house for legal reasons. I always think of the worst case, and that should only be you who has to deal with any problems.
Just my .02
rrgg
Well-known member
Just a side note-- a friend had a weird response when I mentioned prohormones. Apparently "hormones" sounds even worse to some people than "steroids." And if you put "pro" in front of it, well they hear it as "professional hormones." Oh my God, you're taking hormones?!
So... it might not work if you try to play this down by saying it's only prohormones. You're better off referring to it as "an andro supplement" which she's probably heard of.
So... it might not work if you try to play this down by saying it's only prohormones. You're better off referring to it as "an andro supplement" which she's probably heard of.
Forum User X
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Why would you do such a thing? I know you're hiding something from her but in all honesty, telling her is going to cause more problems than prevent. She'll try to do whatever it takes to get you off of the stuff which means all kinds of BS (not putting out, not speaking to you, etc.) Not worth it.