rule #3 which is not comparing yourself to another, and becoming obsessed, but it is finding a passion and balance in life. Those who are obsessed to obtain goals may sometimes cut back other things in their life that mean significance. Marc Lobliner told me this perfect when I was growing up and in my first contest prep for the stage “Balance and Moderation are Key”. If you cannot find the balance between yourself, your family, your friends, and your social life you are going to start having second thoughts and drawing yourself away from reality. Your family and friends are opportunities you cannot pass up, the gym, the food, the weights will always be there, but those who start to get “obsessed” may start to dictate their gym time ahead of family and many other influential factors in their life. This is where the balance has to come in, finding what is important and making time for other opportunities in life. If you are not 2-3 weeks out from a bodybuilding show you should consider your options and passion towards what you are doing and make a wiser decision. Some individuals start to get narrow minded when pursing a goal and start to factor out important things in their life. Make the right decision and move on with your life, don’t try to get so critical over your diet, training, and supplementation. The key phrase “KISS” aka Keep it Simple Stupid comes into play here!