Sucker Punching

[DAdams91982]

Really... a downfall to our psyche? I stated if it was intended and perceived to be serious then the action should of been taken immediately or very shortly thereafter. It's hard to give an opinion on a situation where you have to rely on one party's observation.

Had my girlfriend's ass been grabbed at that time there would not have been a chance for a bouncer to weigh in on the situation until initial action was taken. However, the Spartan mentality and justification aside, we have to abide by our society's restrictions and laws. Having an assault on your record with an explanation listed earlier can lead to issues with employment and loss of finances(lawsuits)

I'm not saying this guy's situation will result any anything additional happening but as an overall guideline on the situation and where it could go, it would be risking a lot.

His situation in court.
Defense: He grabbed my gf 3 weeks ago and saw him and knocked him upside the back of his head
Prosecution: I thought it was a chick I knew and was drunk. I didn't realize this until afterwards

My belief of how to react if 3 weeks passed
Defense: He grabbed her ass and when I saw him I approached him about it to figure out the deal. He became argumentative and thre out insults and pushed me leading me to defend myself.
Prosecution: A lot harder to prove details and most can identify with that situation.



In the end go with what you know since you're the one suffering the consequences... i'm offering my opinion from both personal and professional experience.

Understandable, but the thing played out like it did... angry doesn't escape me easily as well. So I can firmly see myself doing the same thing. Would i have played the situation in the beginning the same? No. The bouncer can eject me from the club or whatever, but dude is getting his. But it didn't play out that way.

 

[GuyverX]

I like how Sunder added in the sexual violation concept.
It was a sucker punch and he deserved it.
You should have tapped him on the shoulder, went oblique, said 'remember me' and elbow smashed him.
As far as the law is concerned waiting three weeks is like premeditated or something.
I digress....

We have pretty stringent assault laws around this area as well.
Although if a guy does go to the cops for a hand to hand fight,
he might get beat worse later for reporting it.

 

[lonewolf0420]

Fnck Him! You don't touch another man's girl.

I probably would have done the same thing, but if your going to do something like that, be prepared for the consequences. I'm not a fighter, but if I "GO" with somebody, I don't plan on them getting up and walking away.