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Hey it's never to late to be honest. You'll find yourself with a much more clear concious wich seems to be your real dilema right now.
 
MakaveliThaDon said:
Do people still do the whole PITTB thing on here? It's been a while since i've really read this board as you can see.
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PIITB - Is a timeless, yet sincere, expression of love and compassion. That is the only reason a man would go out of his way to please a woman like that.

Maybe not.
 
Hrmm, do you really think she is gonna be better off if she is standing somewhere and a big blob falls out? Tell her to put on some underwear.
 
OK I'm baaaaack!

And after all the discussion and supplementationI tried, I have nothing new to report. I'm not disappointed, but rather eager for more future experiments.

Time to go read the 5400 new messages on here....
 
wideguy said:
Hey it's never to late to be honest. You'll find yourself with a much more clear concious wich seems to be your real dilema right now.
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Problem with that is if I seperate from my local GF for other reasons I could still remain friends and be in contact with her. Wich is important to me. If I tell her I've been seeing someone else and am falling for her, she'll feel like her perception of me as this great wonderful and caring boyfriend was an illusion, and that the last 4 years were a sham. When in actualty only the last 9 or 10 months were a sham. She's been a very impactful chapter in my life, and if were going to seperate, I want her to remember the good me. Not the me that slipped up and went astray of her trust near the end. The long distance GF knows the situation, so my cooncern with her is mostly the fear that she might get tired of waiting to see what I'll do and move on before I move out there and start something more serious with her. (Im probably moving out her way regardless.)

But on the thread topic, I bought Ogoplex, it's basically Bee pollen extract w/ some vitamin A and E. So I dont know if it's any good yet. They say it takes at least a week to notice effects. I've been on for like 5 days and havent noticed a difference in ejaculate volume or thickness.
 
This isn't about me - but I am the only person I can speak about, so here goes:

A thought: If you found out that the only girl you were with was providing someone else to ride the skinboat to tuna-town, how would you react? If for no other reason than potential STD exposure, I would be enraged. It might also call into question my feelings of my value and whether "everything" had been a lie.

Forget what she thinks of you. In my marriage, I try to tell my wife the truth (with respect); I should be accountable. Knowing that may actually help keep me from doing things I wouldn't want others to know about. Also, I respect my wife enough that I would prefer that she was honestly PO'd with me, rather than dishonestly pleased with me.

I'm not "Doctor Phil", but this seems to be hitting your concious. It is your call, but if the roles were reversed - how would you feel about her playing spin the cooter without your knowledge?

All that said, I can certainly see the reason you would want to maintain the status quo; the real question is - at what expense?
 
Of course Id feel like **** if she did the same to me. Im not condoning what I did, but I cant change that now. Telling her may clear my concious, but she'd be more than po'd. She probably would never speak to me again, for one, and for two, we probably were eventually going to seperate for other reasons anyway, but telling her about the other girl might hurt her worse than just parting ways. She has a history of being suicidly deppressed, and that's also a concern of mine. I really do care about her, I just dont think that we'll be together till we die.
I do appreciate your interest and willingness to give your opninion though. I have the sort of personality that likes to confide in many people, and make my decisions after compiling an assload of advice and pondering the pro's and con's. I agree that it's always nicer to be able to be totally honest w/ your partner. And I was until I did something that Im not convinced it would be a better idea to be forthecoming about. Im still on the fence on the issue though. Havent made up my mind.
 
I'm sure there are many who would think I was being a jerk for sharing my thoughts. I've been around long enough to know that I have no right to "should" on people; and hopefully it didn't come across that way. Sometimes trying to see it from the other side provides good insight (sometimes a painfull one). I know first-hand. I'm not proud of many things I've done; and vow not to repeat those transgressions. When "done" with them, I felt a great sense of relief.

I'm part of the older contingent on this forum (boy, that is a painfull admission). I've obviously needed to talk to my sons (now 21 and 18) about issues like this. I told them (when they were in about 9th grade) that they could easily tell some pretty little thing anything they wanted to hear, disingeniously, in pursuit of hormonal happiness; and that many girls (esp. those with poor relationships w/ her parents) would use sex to get love. I then asked them the following: What would you do to someone who did that to your sister? You can probably guess at thier reaction.

It sounds as if you'll be dealing with this somehow, someway in the near future. That won't be fun, regardless of what you tell her. You know your situation first hand, and I'm just some slug willing to offer an opinion. BTW - I'm pretty sure I would not have had the same view when I was much younger.

Good luck. I'm guessing you'll find the right solution.
 
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