Regrets

CDB

CDB

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One of my exgirlfriends who is now married got me a wide selection of beef jerkey for Christmas. All I can think of right now is: why didn't I marry her? Wish we had clicked better, she certainly knows the way to a man's heart.
 
Regret is a very intersting topic I don't think we've covered here. I have oftened wondered when shaping what love is in my heart if I do or don't have regrets. I have always lived by the notion you only regret the things you didn't do, and were shaped by the things you did and had to learn from. I don't think we would be who we are if we hadn't gone through the experiences we had. I thank God for every mistake I've made. I've also prayed that I am not foolish enough to make them all over again.

There will always be that one in question, how did I let it slip away? I have found when discussing love in the midnight of my soul to know what would ultimatly give me love for a lifetime. There are many that standout for many great reasons. I know when my heart feels safe, engaged, and furthered and in my case it has taken years to realize what I needed and what LOVE feels like to me.

Regrets, I don't have any. The education of a heart and soul, it just takes forever. And it is full of mistakes. But if you weren't who you are when you meet them, none of it really matters. Even your mistakes make the right person your better choice.
 
Jesus, Motiv8er, I was just feeling a little wistful...:blink:

And you scored right on that one D, I'm already fat and ugly so there was really nothing to lose in that regard. I would have just had a lot of beef jerkey.
 
Can you tell I have a woman on my mind?
 
motiv8er said:
Can you tell I have a woman on my mind?
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naa.....:)

regrets...hmm....do i regret the fact that i left my ex who is now into cocaine and works for 7 bucks an hour at a carwash.....NOPE.

i learned alot from him though, and i met my one and only because of him, so for that i am thankful

CDB: beef jerky made you miss her eh....lol interesting what makes men happy... on a more serious note, someone better always comes around, at least i think so.
 
I make beef jerky with a friend of mine so I don't need a woman for that. :D Do I have any regrets? Not really. Especially in the woman area......other than I regret ever meeting my first wife.

Experiences, good or bad, are what shape you into who you are. How you deal with mistakes is what gives you character. When you are sitting bed ridden later in life crapping in your Depends, these memories (if you have them) are all you will have. So choose wisely, make as many memories as you can, and keep in mind that you will be thinking about these times at a later date. Do you want good memories...or bad ones? Oh yeah.....and take lots of pictures because you probably won't remember **** anyway :D
 
Mrs. Gimpy! said:
CDB: beef jerky made you miss her eh....lol interesting what makes men happy... on a more serious note, someone better always comes around, at least i think so.
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It's just that she knows me so well. If we had vibed better together we'd still be together is all there is to it really. I find if you've been happy with someone, no matter if it worked out well or how long it's been, occasionally something kicks off a memory and a feeling that's pretty intense. Just one of those moments. We used to play racquetball together three days a week, go hiking and kayaking together. I swear I haven't found a girl that active in a long time, and it's showing in my gut as I hate doing cardio alone. As it is, since her ninth knee operation she's given up racquetball, understandably I'd say, and I can't find another consistent partner. And my last girlfriend, getting her to do anything but drink and smoke was a tough sell.
 
I regret selling one of my stores that was furnishing me a very nice living. I regret selling 2 of my houses that are worth a TON more now than when I sold them...

Most of all

I regret not seeing my brother more before he died.
 
How do you really feel? You need to learn how to let your feelings out. ;)

On a side note, I received a card from someone special after my brother died, and it meant the world to me...not everyone overlooks everything...
 
I don't have regrets. I have life experiences. I learned to stop regretting and start learning to move onwards and upwards with my life.
 
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