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Question about a girl?

b2b2

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So ive talked to this girl now for a year, She was really into me and than eventually I got into her but she had already started seeing someone else, this went on for 5-6 months I think but during their relationship she would text me every once in awhile and flirt. Eventually they broke up and we started talking again in march, we hung out a bit at a sporting event we were both at and had a good time getting to know each other more and laughed alot. So I asked her out to a date and she said yes, however since Ive asked her (2 weeks ago) she is impossible to get a hold of (she is finishing up her degree and getting ready for grad schooltoo). I dont want to come off desperate so I just texted her 3 times throughout these 2 weeks. However during this time she still likes my IG posts and favorites my tweets.

So basically, should I just move on, is she just that busy or keep trying??
 
Just move on brotha...

Post a pic of you and a chick on IG and then see if she text you back..
If she does, move on..
If she don't, move on..
 
If she was really into the idea she would reply

Give her an ultimatum ;)

If she doesn't respond say you'll move on
 
Do nothing. Doesnt mean give up, but dont make yourself seem so available. She will probably come running back to you (with some excuse about how busy she's been).
 
DigitalB said:
Just move on brotha...

Post a pic of you and a chick on IG and then see if she text you back..
If she does, move on..
If she don't, move on..
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This is the most terrible advice I've ever heard, have you ever interacted with a female before?
 
Just literally assume it's done and move on. If she pops up asking to meet up , do, but don't be super enthusiastic about it. If you meet up make sure it's on your terms and you have the power.

If you meet up don't be a super keen bean or you'll lose any power you have. It hangs on such a thin thread anyway. The minute you let on you're really into her and keen she's in control.

Imo, since she's blanking you, you should just go find some other girl anyway. You have to picture how it's going to be with the girl if you start dating each other, chances are she'll start doing stuff like this again
 
Girls work on their own time. Either accept that and be patient or move along. Don't waste your life waiting on anyone.
 
Joshlm69 said:
This is the most terrible advice I've ever heard, have you ever interacted with a female before?
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Dude gtfo you squirt..

She's playing games.. If she hits him up after posting a pic it will only confirm this..

Either way he needs to move on..
 
DigitalB said:
Dude gtfo you squirt..

She's playing games.. If she hits him up after posting a pic it will only confirm this..

Either way he needs to move on..
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All girls play games , the ones that dont aren't worthwhile.

posting a pic of another girl to make one jealous? how cute, you must be 16
 
She really may be that busy if she is in the process of transitioning form undergrad to grad school, but she has to eat at some point. I would give her one more chance, but be specific that you want to take her out for a quick bite to eat on whichever day and help her get rid of some stress. That said, a huge red flag is that she was supposedly into you, but never made the move and ended up with some other dude PLUS wasn't honest to that guy.
 
Let her go... ?
 
this sounds like a very famous girl game! she tries to get your attention
and ounce she does, she acts busy!
this is a mind freak girl who likes to get even with men!
let her go and ignore her completely
 
I hate when people play games.


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b2b2 said:
So ive talked to this girl now for a year, She was really into me and than eventually I got into her but she had already started seeing someone else, this went on for 5-6 months I think but during their relationship she would text me every once in awhile and flirt. Eventually they broke up and we started talking again in march, we hung out a bit at a sporting event we were both at and had a good time getting to know each other more and laughed alot. So I asked her out to a date and she said yes, however since Ive asked her (2 weeks ago) she is impossible to get a hold of (she is finishing up her degree and getting ready for grad schooltoo). I dont want to come off desperate so I just texted her 3 times throughout these 2 weeks. However during this time she still likes my IG posts and favorites my tweets.

So basically, should I just move on, is she just that busy or keep trying??
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I never buy the "im too busy to send a text" line. Perhaps the date opened her eyes and she simply wasn't interested. It happens.

Move on and dont get hung up on it.
 
This kinda happened to me when I was in high school I did the stuiped thing and played the game because she was smoking hot. Well she ened up sleeping with 2 other guys because we lived 30mins away from each other and she was lonely.

If it was me I would simply stop texting and thinking about her and spend time on another gal that's actually worth your time.

Oh p.s. if she truly liked you a year ago she wouldn't of stopped talking to you and started dating someone else.
 
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