I want to thank everybody for their support and suggestions! I want to take a natural approach at this and nudge my hormones and mind into life through some herbs like Tongkat and Pine pollen. I'm going to abstain from drinking (although I don't drink much) and keep up a paleo diet. That may not make me have a libido, but I think it'll be nice to "clean up the body" a little. Also, going to see a urologist in a couple of months (California waiting times...).
You guys gave me some hope and I am truly truly grateful. It's a really dark mental place for a man to have his manhood stop working. Thank you all again, and if you have more suggestions, please continue to comment! I know it's easy to type something, then erase it all and not post, but your advice could help other people in similar boats.
Namaste