What's up guys and gals, I just wanted to share this for you to ponder over.
I just got done responding to some emails from ppl I do diets for, and these 2 ppl who are polar opposites with opposite goals have the exact same problem. I'm guilty myself and so are the majority of you too.
Person A. Let's call him Tom. Tom wants to get bigger and keeps telling me the plan is not working, but Tom is doing a terrible job weighing his food and sometimes he misses meals. But "it's not a big deal" because it's only like 2x a week that he's too busy and forgot his meal.
Toms plan is 5 meals a day, that's 35 meals a week, and no big deal because he's still getting 33 meals a week. Well sorry to tell you tom but your doing a terrible job.
2 meals a week might not sound like much, but that's 2 meals EVERY WEEK, at the end of a year you have now missed 104 meals!
Go look yourself in the mirror and say I only made the same mistake 104 times this year, I did pretty good lol. No you didn't. I obviously didn't say it to him like that but do you get the point?
Person B. Let's call her Kim. Kim can't loose weight and Kim is always looking for the magic pill because the diet doesn't work. But when I asked Kim to read me some notes from her diet journal she couldn't. She guesses the calories, dosent weight the food and admits she eats a little treat a couple times a week.
Let's be nice and say she only cheats 2x week. Well Kim, just like Tom, you cheated on your diet 104 times this year.
Is the diet not working or is Kim not working.
Everyone likes to dismiss all there little screw ups and never looks at the bigger picture.
You got to where your at now by not doing things right, you can't continue to do things wrong 100 times a year and expect a positive outcome.
I'm not telling you not to enjoy life, I went out for dinner Friday night, then I binge ate all day yesterday.
There are going to be consequences for those actions tho.
Every program can include dinner and movie nights and some Ice cream or a dessert once in a while, but it needs to be accounted for.
Cheating or straying from the plan is not accounted for and Hershey kisses turn into chocolate pies and before you know it your 40 meals of target.
And again, I'm guilty myself . But stop saying something is not working if your the one not working on it.
I just got done responding to some emails from ppl I do diets for, and these 2 ppl who are polar opposites with opposite goals have the exact same problem. I'm guilty myself and so are the majority of you too.
Person A. Let's call him Tom. Tom wants to get bigger and keeps telling me the plan is not working, but Tom is doing a terrible job weighing his food and sometimes he misses meals. But "it's not a big deal" because it's only like 2x a week that he's too busy and forgot his meal.
Toms plan is 5 meals a day, that's 35 meals a week, and no big deal because he's still getting 33 meals a week. Well sorry to tell you tom but your doing a terrible job.
2 meals a week might not sound like much, but that's 2 meals EVERY WEEK, at the end of a year you have now missed 104 meals!
Go look yourself in the mirror and say I only made the same mistake 104 times this year, I did pretty good lol. No you didn't. I obviously didn't say it to him like that but do you get the point?
Person B. Let's call her Kim. Kim can't loose weight and Kim is always looking for the magic pill because the diet doesn't work. But when I asked Kim to read me some notes from her diet journal she couldn't. She guesses the calories, dosent weight the food and admits she eats a little treat a couple times a week.
Let's be nice and say she only cheats 2x week. Well Kim, just like Tom, you cheated on your diet 104 times this year.
Is the diet not working or is Kim not working.
Everyone likes to dismiss all there little screw ups and never looks at the bigger picture.
You got to where your at now by not doing things right, you can't continue to do things wrong 100 times a year and expect a positive outcome.
I'm not telling you not to enjoy life, I went out for dinner Friday night, then I binge ate all day yesterday.
There are going to be consequences for those actions tho.
Every program can include dinner and movie nights and some Ice cream or a dessert once in a while, but it needs to be accounted for.
Cheating or straying from the plan is not accounted for and Hershey kisses turn into chocolate pies and before you know it your 40 meals of target.
And again, I'm guilty myself . But stop saying something is not working if your the one not working on it.