musclehead24
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hey hungry4more, i had this problem in my early years of lifting, one thing you might want to try is the mind/muscle connection, it is where you use a wieght where you resist the wieght on the way down and contract your chest muscles all the way up, this method is mostly used with dumbells and cable and machine work, if you find yourself using more of your arms and back and not resisting and contracting the musce group you are trying to work and get bigger your probably using too much wieght, although heavy weights are good at times for a change of pace and to shock the muscle from time to time, using the mind/muscle connection with the muscle group is very important, using heavy wieght all the time can lead to injury and your just gonna build your arms and shoulders rather than your chest, also remember your nutrition, this is equally important to build up those muscles. change your routine from time to time, lke doing your incline dumbell presses, falt bench presses but change the last exercise with dips, flyes, cable crossovers, pullover,etc. or change from starting with incline presses first to flat bench presses first and alternate from each workout, leave your ego at the front door! dont go into the gym just to lift the heaviest things possible! your just gonna waste your time! yeah its impressive but your not gonna get anywhere but tired. i woud like to post my email to talk to you more in depth and to keep in touch withyou more to track your progressand try to help you out as much as possible but my rep power isnt high enough.