TheCSWFighter
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xtraflossy said:
sometimes I forget that this isn't common knowledge.
I just.....i feel empty
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sometimes I forget that this isn't common knowledge.
TheUnlikelyToad
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If you are feeling empty, maybe you should try one of those RTD's... then of course you could stack that with some Anabolic Pump and Sesamin for damage control.
A good multi-vitamin would work too so you could get tha whole MRP thing going on... think about it.
A good multi-vitamin would work too so you could get tha whole MRP thing going on... think about it.
xtraflossy
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TheCSWFighter said:
Knowing you should do it, and keeping yourself from doing it are two different things....
At times, a reminder is needed ya know :icon_lol:
(For whatever reason, I freakn' love this thread... to bad I see the end is near now :run: )
East1600Plus
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heh never really thought of that...it makes sense..but seems hard to make myself do it dude...i hate emotions except anger that can be a fun one :bruce3:
East1600Plus
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Wow so i find out that she is going after another guy... so yeeaaaaah i'm done i gave her a text and told her we cant be friends anymore..talk about pain... wont lie i shed a few tears
xtraflossy
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dude, while that kinda sucks, theres no sense burning your bridges... i nabout a month she'll be through with this guy, and the first place she'll come to is probably you..
Even if this doesnt happen, oyu ALWAYS need a girl on your side.. one to hook ya up with other girls, one who can talk to other girls your talking too (like, saying how good yo are in ,.... um,.. .:think: whatever :icon_lol: )
:fart:
East1600Plus
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honestly...why would i want her bak? i really dont anymore i'm hurt and she hurt me and ****ed with me and why would i want to take some1 bak like that? who could just easily do it again
East1600Plus
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exactly...will suck though i feel pretty good now...but then i'll see her tomorrow in class..and then i'll be bummed but i'll just keep moving on looking at the prize... (lifting...bodybuilding...other girls
)
aspire210
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exactly...will suck though i feel pretty good now...but then i'll see her tomorrow in class..and then i'll be bummed but i'll just keep moving on looking at the prize... (lifting...bodybuilding...other girls
Talk to another girl in your class. Flirt. Have fun. Forget her bull**** and let her know what she lost when she watches you. Then **** her friends....all of them....PIITB.... now thats revenge.
OR
be a grown up and move on and find someone who doesn't play the games and has a good head on her shoulders. your call.
East1600Plus
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i plan on moving on being grown up since it seems she doesnt know how to act mature
TheCSWFighter
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Well atleast this took 12 days instead of 3 months for it to finally be confirmed/believed that it was because of her interest in other men. Just like everyone said, this case seemed no different.
xtraflossy
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lol, I never said "Take her back"
I'm just saying, whil RIGHT NOW, you definately don't want to be friends, but in a few weeks you'll be better, and it might be worth keeping a friendship.
I know plenty of females I USED to date, that Im friends with now. Just becasue one type of relationship didnt work out, doesn't mean there is nothing good that can be had from another ya know.
It was just a passing thought, as many times some of the girls I'm NOW friends with have helped me (either directly or indirectly) with OTHER girls that I'm interested in.
Like I said, and it's just a thought for ANY relationship in general...
(and she also has friends, and her friends have friends,...)
Please know that Im NOT impling you get involved wit hher again, but having frineds is easier then resentment)
aspire210
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ehhh alot of times when a girl "nexts" you, her friends won't touch you because she already bad mouthed you to them. Also, girls don't normally get with each other's exs. Also, girls you are with a long time generally won't help you with other girls unless you were friends for even longer before hand. Girls you only date for a short while will help you though. Once there is emotional attachment though, there will always be emotional attachment in girls. Some of your long term ex-girlfriends may even try to sabatoge your new relationships depending on what type of person they are. I mean, they have you where they want you, so why let you get away. They want a prop and an ego boost, you're it. I'd move away from any relationships where there was a lot of emotional involvement, unless you were good friends for a while before hand. This has been my experience anyway, YMMV.
xtraflossy
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YEah- that's true as well.
But I have NO idea as to how their relationship was...
But generally it is more true of shorter term relationships...
However, it really doesn't matter much when to just be friends (or more of "end things with as little resentment") is more easy long term then to have yourself boil over every time you see this person... it will become a learned response, where years from now, even though you dont care any more, you'll find yourself having the same feelings of hurt/hate n' such if you see her somewhere.
But- do whatever, doesn't matter now. But it only takes one crazy ex-***** screwin with ya later on to realize that you could have always handled the "end" better then you did :icon_lol:
But I have NO idea as to how their relationship was...
But generally it is more true of shorter term relationships...
However, it really doesn't matter much when to just be friends (or more of "end things with as little resentment") is more easy long term then to have yourself boil over every time you see this person... it will become a learned response, where years from now, even though you dont care any more, you'll find yourself having the same feelings of hurt/hate n' such if you see her somewhere.
But- do whatever, doesn't matter now. But it only takes one crazy ex-***** screwin with ya later on to realize that you could have always handled the "end" better then you did :icon_lol:
East1600Plus
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ya i just told her i dont think we can be friends right now its just to hard ...and i pointed out how i figured out she was just pulling me around with my ****...so ya...maybe in the future but not right now would be too hard to just be friends with some1 u cared about so much and then they hurt u and then **** around with u
aspire210
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bah, you should never admit weakness to her. Never let a girl know shes got you, by actions or by words. You shouldn't be emotional with them, they will think you are wear, unless you've been togeather for a looong time and its actually appropriate. You should have just said "look, I was willing to give you space to figure things out. I directly asked you if it was another guy, you said 'no'. So you lied and I won't have friends that lie to me. Good bye and good luck." Won't get her back, but it will make her feel like crap and will take her down a few notches to know she cant manipulate you anymore. We were all right though, sorry, we all been there. Now maybe you should read all of this thread 10x's and absorb of the information we wish we had at your age. Then go out and hit on some other girls. "Best way to get over one girl, is to get on top of another". Go out, be happy and talk to every girl you see. You'll find out she wasn't that special anyway.
somewhatgifted
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Aspire hit the nail on the head with "read all this thread 10x" you ask for advice now listen. Now with the revelations that have come to be you can go back and see your progress and see that some people giving advice were spot on to begin with. After youve convinced yourself there might actually be good info on here then you can take the advice to heart easier from reliable sources in the future.
East1600Plus
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so she called me tonight i didnt answer my friend grabbed the phone...and i grabbed it and go...hello?? and she goes hey what was with that text to me? and i like explained it about it and she *****ed me out and said u r in the highschool drama and im not call me when u r outta it...and then i realized she lied to me she knew about hte text last night b/c she *****ed to one of my friends about it....she is just pissed im ignoring her and acting like everything is fine and doesnt wanna loose me as her back up...
aspire210
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You got the right idea and mind set, now you need the balls to do it right. If she calls again, go ahead and answer it. Act like you don't want to talk to her, she asks whats wrong, say "nothing, why?" like you couldn't care less about talking to her at all. Just act like she doesn't matter. Then get off the phone as fast as possible. If she starts to ***** at you, just say "bye" real loud and hang up. She calls back, go ahead and answer it. She *****es again, do it again. She'll get the point eventually or stop calling. If you want respect back this is the only way to get it.
I would still suggest forgetting all this bull**** and just moving on. Not saying it like you are now, but actually DOING it. Quit letting her pull you around by your **** and detach yourself already.
TheCSWFighter
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I believe I mentioned this being a scenario in one of my earlier posts. Now she is trying to put you on a guilt trip because it makes her feel better about leaving you. So like aspire said, don't show any weakness.
DO NOT under any circumstances try to reason with this broad. I think she made it painfully obvious she 's not one to reason. Now she's telling you that you're all about highschool drama so she can justify leaving you. It's like a game with them, they want to see if they really did get you by the balls. It's like a subconscious confidence booster.
So show her up and do what aspire said. Hang up the phone whenever she starts gettin fresh. She calls back and says "If you hang up on me again then" *click* hang up on that broad YET AGAIN. If she trys to ***** you out in school or something of the sort just walk away and if she tags along then walk into a bathroom. Most likely she won't follow. She'll realize how dramatic she's being and how much you want nothing to do with it or her. It'll get the best of her and not you. Right now your still being a guest in her reality. SNAP OUT OF IT!
Let her talk all the **** she wants. All it does is makes her look bad if she's talkin, and you're not. Don't even give the thought of her the time of day. Don't ***** to your friends about her and don't whine anymore about how she meant so much. Who cares if it's putting on a front? You start to act a certain way for a long time and pretty soon you are that way. So start acting more like a man and less like a boy and get the **** outside and turn this into a positive experience.
DO NOT under any circumstances try to reason with this broad. I think she made it painfully obvious she 's not one to reason. Now she's telling you that you're all about highschool drama so she can justify leaving you. It's like a game with them, they want to see if they really did get you by the balls. It's like a subconscious confidence booster.
So show her up and do what aspire said. Hang up the phone whenever she starts gettin fresh. She calls back and says "If you hang up on me again then" *click* hang up on that broad YET AGAIN. If she trys to ***** you out in school or something of the sort just walk away and if she tags along then walk into a bathroom. Most likely she won't follow. She'll realize how dramatic she's being and how much you want nothing to do with it or her. It'll get the best of her and not you. Right now your still being a guest in her reality. SNAP OUT OF IT!
Let her talk all the **** she wants. All it does is makes her look bad if she's talkin, and you're not. Don't even give the thought of her the time of day. Don't ***** to your friends about her and don't whine anymore about how she meant so much. Who cares if it's putting on a front? You start to act a certain way for a long time and pretty soon you are that way. So start acting more like a man and less like a boy and get the **** outside and turn this into a positive experience.
TheCSWFighter
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Listen, everyone knows doing what we say is not that easy. Yea snapping out of it is easier said than done. But have a sit down and think this whole situation over. This is why we are all saying go out and meet people. Meeting new girls is the best way to realize there are alot more girls let alone WOMEN out there. You're going to college soon. You'll be laughing at yourself a year from now. Spare yourself the embarassment and get your **** together now.
East1600Plus
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that whole post actually makes me feel a whole lot better about everything...and like it makes sense it sux i have a class with her..and if i have to see her but i wont run and cry about it :bruce3:
aspire210
Registered User
you talk to every single person in your class? I doubt it, and I bet you have a reason to not talk to some of them. Not your "click", ugly girls, the idiots in class, etc, etc. Now you have a reason not to talk to her in class. She gets all pissed, tell her "I'm sorry, I don't really see a reason for us to talk anymore" or "I'm going off to college and a few months, I think you were right about a break. I mean, we both knew it wasn't gonna last once I left." Anything that shows her you have moved on and that you're not going to play her games anymore.