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Got all the motivation I need today!!!!!

hamper19

hamper19

The True Warrior is one who conquers oneself
Ok if anyone is in the mood for a pretty boring story, then keep reading. I am writing this mostly for myself..lol

anyway. So a little back ground I had a gf, for 2 yrs we broke up last july or august something like that..my choice to break up at the time.

so about 2 months later, she started hooking up with some kid..fine right i mean u need to pretty much hook up to move on

anyway, i end up realizing i thought (keyword) I made a mistake with the whole break up thing, and started to mention to her i wanted to get back together. Oh i forgot to add, we pretty much stayed friends (without benefits unfortunately) the whole time and talked all day at work on aim etc.

basically for the past few months shes being saying she only wants friends blah blah...myself and others thought different?

get to the point? ok

so this week we mad plans to go on a date..yes a date not just hanging out as friends..a date..which implys the possibility of more then just friends...so before i jumped into anything i wanted to know if she had sex with anyone..cuz i mean not for nothing, im not down for seccond hand ****. especially if its a chick that i was with for 2 yrs (my first real long term thing)

so after like 90000 emails today during work, she finally told me yes that she did..i was like damn..i had a feeling she did bang that dude...but i was like ok so was it only once?
her answer "with J*** yes"... i was like woah...was there someone else? after a few more emails she told me yes again

2 fuckin dudes man..wtf. I mean its not even the fact she banged them really. I was only her 2nd guy she slept with, the first was a few years before she met me,..her first long term bf or whatever....

This chick made me get an STD test before i could hit it the first time. So basically she banged 2 dudes within the 8 months we been broken up...**** that ****.

And i brought up the fact that she made me get tested..shes like yeah blah blah..i was like nice one..it was before we even did anything the first time..and she said something about knowing that i would be her bf or some bullshit story

so of course i had to ask more questions to increase my disgust..as guys do...so i ask if she thought she would be his gf..thinking it would ease my mind..if she said yes or something
but this chick was like not really, i didnt want a serious relationship etc.

so basically this chick went from being all innocent, making me get a fuckin STD test before hitting it..only sleeping with 2 guys within say 6 yrs or so from her 1st and me

then bangs 2 dudes in fuckin a 4 month period...2 months after we end our 2 year relationship.

you might think i am pissed, which i guess i am, but only because it was so soon, and she was ready to "try again" so to speak..its like **** that man you have your fun and think its all good now? :rant:

But its cool..I am so motivated right now to have the dopest abs EVER..**** thte fitness made simple guy..all i know is this news actually motivated me a lot! mainly to stop living in the past and get over this chick..but also to bust my ass 100 times harder in the gym

rant over..thank you for your time :frustrate
lol
h19
 
I hope your angst translates into fitness goals... most bad breakups saw me achieve my best fitness, it's powerful motivation.

Bro... think of how many chicks you've banged in an 8mo period. Any guy that can name how many women he's been with hasn't had enough. I know the double-standard and all, but what did you think would happen, she'd become a nun? Hence the adage, "Be careful what you wish for..."
 
You mention the fitness made simple guy. I am so sick of seeing that fucking fagot on my tv. Everytime I see that guy I just want to shoot the tv. I turn the channel instead though until the commercial is over with. I'm not gonna buy his stupid fucking video, so he needs to stop airing those ridiculous commercials!.
 
yeah job basdow sucks

didnt think she was going to be a nun.

But i mean u hae sex with your first bf,..meet me say 2 yrs later..we have a relationship for a little over 2 yrs actually, make me get tested before we have sex...so say within 4 or 5 years u only have sex with 2 guys..

then we break up 2 months later your banging people..wtf..
what pisses me off the most though, is the fact that she was saying she missed me etc, was ready to "see what happens" with us.....i asked if she would have told me if we ever got back together..shes like yeah eventually..better to know now i say.

but yeah i mean i already had fitness goals this year already dropped a good 18 pounds

h19
 
hamper19 said:
yeah job basdow sucks

didnt think she was going to be a nun.

But i mean u hae sex with your first bf,..meet me say 2 yrs later..we have a relationship for a little over 2 yrs actually, make me get tested before we have sex...so say within 4 or 5 years u only have sex with 2 guys..

then we break up 2 months later your banging people..wtf..
what pisses me off the most though, is the fact that she was saying she missed me etc, was ready to "see what happens" with us.....i asked if she would have told me if we ever got back together..shes like yeah eventually..better to know now i say.

but yeah i mean i already had fitness goals this year already dropped a good 18 pounds

h19
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No, I hear ya... my last gf [before meeting my wife] slept with a guy the day after we broke up. Pure revenge-fucking and she admitted as much.
 
actually i think what pisses me off the most is that i didnt go nuts banging whatever came my way.....I kinda felt bad or something..i mean i hooked up with some chicks..and stuf

I felt like a fool when she told me..like i was a naive 14 yo kid or something..lol
 
what also sucks is now I have one less chick to think about when ...doing the whole self gratification thing.

I used to use some of the better sex memories of her...I hope i don't now..lol..if I do, i hope i dont start having bad thoughts of her and whoever..

I actually know the dudes she was with..not friends just know who they are
 
Do you still plan on going out with her? Unfortunately, I can sort of see where you are coming from but don't believe it should be your concern about what she did while you were BROKE UP. That screams huge insecurity problems for you man and you dont want that. It's a different story when you are together and people sleep around but it wasn't the case here.

Some people do that during rebound after a long relationship and some just get over things quicker than others. It's all up to the individual person. You waited out the time until you felt it was right and apparently so did she.

Flat out man if you still like her and believe that she feels the same, I'd chance it but it has be something that you are sure about and you can't linger on what she did while you were apart. Some of the best relationships ever have gone

Together
Apart
Together

Good luck man
 
its not going to happen..lol
I'm not even pissed..and im not mad she did it or anything like that. I am glad I know, It helped me move on.

She is being all stupid now though, that i say all i want is friends. That is what she said the whole time, but apparently now that i agree completely, I am being an asshole. go figure.

lol
 
t_dot_porkchop said:
you should go on the date and bang her too....why not? you are obviously too digusted to date her "seriously" anymore.
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I was thinking of that too, but then thought i don't want sloppy secconds with an ex.
 
This just proves even more so that most girls are mind fucks. I'm just so lucky to have a wife who isn't anything like this. Thank god.
 
Dude, just move on... plenty of fish in the sea. No sense wasting your time getting upset about this chick when you could be spending it looking for a new one or new ones :thumbsup:
 
move on...did you expect her to wait for you to come back...women are flesh and blood too.
 
Donkey Punch her.
 
and i am glad i moved on... I am finally moving out of my parents house June 1st, with 2 other guys. No need for a gf at this point, I figure 7 days a week = 7 chicks a week.

:thumbsup:
 
hamper19 said:
and i am glad i moved on... I am finally moving out of my parents house June 1st, with 2 other guys. No need for a gf at this point, I figure 7 days a week = 7 chicks a week.

:thumbsup:
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It's all fun and games until you get really...really drunk and some broad you just met gives you an STD.
 
haha... I'll have some condoms on hand.. Not into the raw dog stylz unless its a gf and shes on the pill. lol
 
double strap your **** hamper19 ;)

yeah girls play mind games... and thats called "being a slut" syndrome in my book for what she did to you... call her **** out and tell her what you think she is (a bonefide hoe)... don't let her hinge on you being a nice guy... the bridge is burned, you might as well drop a fucking nuke on her :)
 
if she did bang someone else i wouldn't get back together with her. I know, you're broken up and she can do whatever she wants, but i would feel so hurt.
Now, here is what u gotta realize. you're still young, it's summer, and you're gonna have a bachelor pad. Get a sex swing and a shitload of condoms cuz you are gonna forget about whats her name before july 4th.
 
yeah i started pimping it. I had gotten this bartenders number (works at a strip club)..a few weeks ago and she has been wanting to hang out. Last night i said **** it and met up with her while she was working...

lemme tell you how cool it is when the hot bartender at a strip club is digging you...free drinks and tons of hot chicks digging you... My friend left and i stayed..guess who gave me a ride home.. :lol:

nothing happened though, she is actually really cool. Has a normal job during the week..only works there on friday nights so she isnt like some strip club hoe..

she is on the rebound too i think..which is good for me

h19
 
natedogg said:
This just proves even more so that most girls are mind fucks. I'm just so lucky to have a wife who isn't anything like this. Thank god.
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Girls are not mind fucks.....but thanks for making such a general statement......Yes I agree some are , just like some guys are asses......Come on if you want to swim with the fishes you have to want to deal with the bullshit that is bound to come your way...............

H19 i am sorry this happend, yes it sucks but move on forget about her and have fun..........
 
thanks WranglerGirl. You wouldn't happen to be free friday night would you? lol

But yeah i have moved on, this helped me out actually.
 
wranglergirl said:
Girls are not mind fucks.....but thanks for making such a general statement......Yes I agree some are , just like some guys are asses......Come on if you want to swim with the fishes you have to want to deal with the bullshit that is bound to come your way...............

H19 i am sorry this happend, yes it sucks but move on forget about her and have fun..........
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...most girls, not all girls. And sure, most guys are pigs. I'll admit, I've been a pig in the past. I've had the bullshit thrown my way and I've delt it out.
 
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