girl problem....

[d2Lw]

And if your thinking you can be friends with her, dosent usually work out.......I was a beliver that you could be friends with ex's....But no more.........So good luck on this whole issue......

My ex is my bestfriend now

 

[TheAL73]

40 in 12 you need to wash your hands of this filth now, don't hesitate, do it now! Then never have anything to do with her again. Having any type of relationship with someone like this will only harm you, in numerous ways, in the future. You got played and used. If you now get back with her it WILL happen again. You said you want to go back to being your old cocky self. If you want to feel like **** in the furture too get back with her. It sounds like you have a lack of self-esteem. Any person with any wouldn't eat the **** shes feeding you. Some will disagree with this but, you need to go out and find yourself a new piece ASAP. Thats likely the only thing that will make you move on and see the light.

I couldnt agree more with seven's statement. The ONLY way to forget about a girl completely, is to get on top of another. Trust me, memories of past will be washed away and you'll be set free!!!

 

[40 in 12]

well a little update for those paying attention.....

She and the guy she was with broke up....her choice

We're slowly makin our way back, and she is bringing out the best in me...

The fact she isnt with this asshole is satisfaction enough....

Anyways, we've been chillin everyday for the last 4 days....kissing and hooking up a lil and just having fun at parties...

As far as i can see, this is all i ever wanted

 

[Nate Dawg]

So are you going to tell her how you feel and date her or not? You say you want her, so you better do it, if you dont you will be right back here again telling us how you screwed up and took her for granted again and want to know what to do. If you really like her, tell her what you think, and get a relationship that is understood by the both of you they you two are a COUPLE.

 

[40 in 12]

So are you going to tell her how you feel and date her or not? You say you want her, so you better do it, if you dont you will be right back here again telling us how you screwed up and took her for granted again and want to know what to do. If you really like her, tell her what you think, and get a relationship that is understood by the both of you they you two are a COUPLE.

Yes i am ready to commit. :twisted:

 

[DR X]

My God, the games. Are you serious. Do you want her or not. Yes or No.
If yes tell her. If no move on.

 

[wheystation]

I dont what it is, why i began to care. Maybe its the fact that i cant stand the thought of her being with someone else. And i for one am not a romantic, im cocky and confident, know what i want, and usually get it, but i also know how to treat a girl once a while...

By being this way, i had this girl up my ass 24/7 for a year and a half, but i didnt really give two hoots....Now i do

Hey, guy - I don't know that my opinion is anymore valuable- but I am 43 year old woman who has been out there a long time. You want her back? STOP BEING AVAILABLE - JUST STOP CALLING - STOP STOP. I am going to let you in on a little secret that we women have. WE WANT REAL MEN - we want men that have their own interests, their own hobbies and friends.......REAL WOMEN want you to be COMPLETE on your own - THEN COME TO US for fulfillment.

You sound like a confident, bright, articulate guy - stop turning to Jello about this chick. She is using you as a security or maybe just enjoys f'ing with your head........TAKE A DEEP BREATHE and spend ALL YOUR TIME THINKING ABOUT YOU - if she is the right one (and I doubt it) then she will see you for what you are - STOP LOVING HER AND LOVE YOU. A GUY WHO REALLY LOVES HIMSELF IS THE MOST SEXY THING OUT THERE.

Good luck - you wonderful guy who deserves total love (SAY THAT TO YOURSELF AND MEAN IT


Okay, I believe my work is done here.



Laura - your All The Whey Customer Service Rep :thumbsup:

 

[kwyckemynd00]

Big bump...

Any chick who ever says she want's a "nice guy" is either dellusional or lying.

Nice guy only turned chicks into friends for me. It would go from "hey, you're hot" to "ahhh, you're so sweet". LOL....Finally, when I cut out the act and just started being a dick all the time, they wouldn't leave me alone. Hell, when I first met my g/f, she needed a ride home from somewhere...I laughed at her and told her to walk her ass home. After a few minutes of her being blown away that I just said that, I said, okay, where do you live. LOL...it was all over after that

 

[10000eyes]

let it go- plenty more fish in the sea-

learn from it- as much as you can- remember only the good things but just let it go

 

[40 in 12]

you guys obviously missed a few posts in between, we're back together now....

I am my ol' cocky self again and all is good.

 

[GaiaN]

I am single BY CHOICE,( if i wanted to be with someone i would have not ended it with my ex)........ I have no time for a relationship and I dont/cant add that to my life at this time, i cant handle having lupus, and i dont expect a guy to understand something that I cant at this time....As far as I am concerned its the mature/responsible thing to do for me.............So houseman thats why I am single.....

That's a very strong choice you've made, though I hope the Lupus isn't the deciding factor in you're wanting to be without. People shouldn't let ailments dictate how they live. If that's not the case, then hopefully you'll be able to get back to a comfortable place in your life to where you're ready to share it with someone else. Being in a relationship is what we mammals do. It's instinctive for us to want a partner. And I'm not passing judgement or anything like that... just sharing some positive feedback on your situation.

 

[10000eyes]

oh

sorry man, skipped the posts-

well its good that your back together-

I know that magnetism of the ex-
its fuckin hard to beat-its something neurological-for sure


anyway stay cool