I’ve had a few over the years that in the 1-3 years I was with them, NO crazy. Not to say it wouldn’t show up when real problems came up down the road. It’s just finding the crazy you can deal with the best. My gf now is crazy a decent amount but I’m really good at handling her. And that woman would be the first to show up if I needed help from someone, got thrown in jail, stranded, needed money, whatever. No question.. and she’s the first person that’s actually sacrificed to help me get to where she believes I should be. She believes in me like no one else ever has. Not to change me or make me more ambitious, but bc she sees more in me that I’m capable of, and I was settling. So I feel like her crazy is worth it most times. A loyal bad bitch is not easy to find in your late 30s. They’ve got a look out for number one attitude often.
My point earlier, that I get very passionate about, was not in contrast of yours. I agree with everything you said about family court. My issue is too many dads rolling over and accepting **** to parenting plans since they are the law-breaking juice heads or recovering addicts and the mother is ms perfect and she has all the power in court. **** NO. You go in and fight for your kids. Over the first decade of my divorce I filed 23 different motions and 11 times in front of the judge. And I had a pretty good weekend and holiday plan. You are just as much of a parent as her, regardless of any dirt she thinks she has on you to **** you out of seeing your children. I love mine and I’ll cut a bitch, seriously. Every time she has fucked with me, ever, i get the police there to document it, and have a motion filed by the next business day. I don’t play that **** with crazy moms that think they have all the power. She’s got dirt too, and you can easily paint that picture because the judge just wants the kids in the best environment, if he/she feels like you both are a little reckless, not just you, you’ll get a fair split. I can’t even fathom taking kids away from their mom, I wouldn’t ever do something so vile that women all the time are willing to do to us. I don’t lie down for that ****. **** her and any woman that ever tries the that. I’m passionate about this one too.
