I am getting sick ,and tired of seeing my father eat so stuipidly. my mother has brought it to my attention that when he comes home from work all he dose is sit in his chair and watch t.v. when i ask him about it he pretty much just says thats what he feels like doing. he has diabetes and high bp and low test( was put on trt androgel but he dosent use it). my question is he said if i would tell him what to eat he will try and change his diet ,but i am at a loss i dont know what restrictions he has because i am uninformed about his disease. would an atkins style diet (low carb) be his best bet or do i need to try something else. he is on insulin and he checks his bloodsugar regularly so we could keep an eye on his health. any info would be appreciated thanks. also i can get my brother to walk him at least three times a week this would be a family effort. but the diet is on me.
actually there is a guy on here who has I believe type II and is doing his best to fight it.
His AM username is : Ronnie
you may want to message him and find out in reguards to things you can eat. I myself am not too sure and although I would like to help, Its best to not say anything.
Also your father is the one who NEEDS to have motivation to eat properly and lift. It is only until he sees the need will he truely change.
Would I go through all that trouble just for someone else?
HELL NO!?
but it could work I guess but the only way I would say that you could get him to change his lifestyle long term is by making him realize he's going down a very slow and deadly path and that you care for him and want to see him change.
You may want to talk to ronnie and then go and show your father this link
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It's our good buddy bradspencer. Going from a heavy 300 almost 400 pound guy in the most undesireable condition anyone wants to be in to a fit person who now has a new chance at life and different opportunities that have opened up to him because of it.
Maybe if your father just thinks that he cant do it, maybe just SHOWING him that others out there are STRUGGLING and doing their best to change, may he want to try a lifestyle change. The first step however is making him realize that HE needs a change.
Once he does that and gets into routine, the rest will just fall into place. Lifting brings such an adrenaline rush. It's the best after work pick up me in my opinion, to let go of anger and to just tear the weights apart.
Good luck man, I hope I could do my part to help you! And remember to show him your dad or make an attempt to show him what he's heading down the road for. Show him that people out there do wish for change and if THEY can do it then HE can too with hard work!