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It's always taken me time to get there, but for months now I have trouble finishing with a woman. I can usually get there if I try real hard by myself, but almost never with a partner.

I thought maybe I was losing interest in my ex, so I dumped her ass and started nailing every hot chick I could find. I can stay hard and smash for hours, and usually get close, but lose it. I definitely want to cum and my libido is super high, so I don't think it's a lack of interest.

The only thing I started recently was metformin, but I can't see how that would cause it and I think I stared the metformin after this began anyway. I've cut everything except my TRT dose of Test E (175mg/week) thinking maybe it was the Deca or Exem causing it, but nothing changed. I'm really at a loss here.

Anybody experienced this?
 

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It's always taken me time to get there, but for months now I have trouble finishing with a woman. I can usually get there if I try real hard by myself, but almost never with a partner.

I thought maybe I was losing interest in my ex, so I dumped her ass and started nailing every hot chick I could find. I can stay hard and smash for hours, and usually get close, but lose it. I definitely want to cum and my libido is super high, so I don't think it's a lack of interest.

The only thing I started recently was metformin, but I can't see how that would cause it and I think I stared the metformin after this began anyway. I've cut everything except my TRT dose of Test E (175mg/week) thinking maybe it was the Deca or Exem causing it, but nothing changed. I'm really at a loss here.

Anybody experienced this?
do you take antidepressants?
 

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Is your Estro low? I can feel like that if I have used too much AI, libido high but hard time to get off
 
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If everything is functioning right then it tends to be more psychological than anything else, I.e something is sub consciously not allowing you to finish potentially.

it happens rarely to me (like maybe once a year) but it’s always if my mind runs away with itself and I’ll never get able to get there.

obviously that’s not an easy fix as it doesn’t sound like your aware of any mental reason so not sure how you would address that…..

but my second solution would be to ask her to whack a finger up your ass and pound your prostate, that will finish you in 10 seconds or so 👌
 

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It's always taken me time to get there, but for months now I have trouble finishing with a woman. I can usually get there if I try real hard by myself, but almost never with a partner.

I thought maybe I was losing interest in my ex, so I dumped her ass and started nailing every hot chick I could find. I can stay hard and smash for hours, and usually get close, but lose it. I definitely want to cum and my libido is super high, so I don't think it's a lack of interest.

The only thing I started recently was metformin, but I can't see how that would cause it and I think I stared the metformin after this began anyway. I've cut everything except my TRT dose of Test E (175mg/week) thinking maybe it was the Deca or Exem causing it, but nothing changed. I'm really at a loss here.

Anybody experienced this?
Not in the cards for you. Switch back to dudes.
 
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If everything is functioning right then it tends to be more psychological than anything else, I.e something is sub consciously not allowing you to finish potentially.

it happens rarely to me (like maybe once a year) but it’s always if my mind runs away with itself and I’ll never get able to get there.

obviously that’s not an easy fix as it doesn’t sound like your aware of any mental reason so not sure how you would address that…..

but my second solution would be to ask her to whack a finger up your ass and pound your prostate, that will finish you in 10 seconds or so 👌
Send pics so he does it right. Wtf
 
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do you take antidepressants?
No, I feel like something is out of balance with my hormones, just not sure what I should be checking. I've noticed I'm less sensitive to pain and touch in general.

I forgot to mention that I'm taking HCG as well. Maybe I'll try to cut that out and see what happens.
 
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Is your Estro low? I can feel like that if I have used too much AI, libido high but hard time to get off
This was my first thought, so I stopped taking the Exem and there was no noticeable change. I don't seem to feel much different with high vs low E2.
 
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This was my first thought, so I stopped taking the Exem and there was no noticeable change. I don't seem to feel much different with high vs low E2.
It might take a little while before you notice a difference, hopefully you figure it out soon.
 
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You were using deca right? That will raise prolactin for sure over time, which makes it very tough to cum.

Even on Caber, when I was on 500mg Dienelone Enanthate/wk it became a battle to finish. When I did it was awesome, but Dien had me super horny so life was tough for a bit in that regard. Always needing to nut but never being able to hardly.
 
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You were using deca right? That will raise prolactin for sure over time, which makes it very tough to cum.

Even on Caber, when I was on 500mg Dienelone Enanthate/wk it became a battle to finish. When I did it was awesome, but Dien had me super horny so life was tough for a bit in that regard. Always needing to nut but never being able to hardly.
Haha, this is exactly how I feel! It's driving me crazy!

I stopped the Deca almost 5 weeks ago. I was so certain that it must be that, but I'd think things would have normalized by now? I was only using roughly 84mg per week. I guess I could try P5P. I think the Caber I got wasn't legit, but the P5P seemed to work well.
 

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Deca did this to me 20yrs ago. Probably the worst side effect of anything I have ever used, never touched it again and it took at least 2 months to get back to normal my friend.
 
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Deca did this to me 20yrs ago. Probably the worst side effect of anything I have ever used, never touched it again and it took at least 2 months to get back to normal my friend.
Damn man, that's rough! I guess it takes the body some time to get rid of the excess prolactin?
 
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Haha, this is exactly how I feel! It's driving me crazy!

I stopped the Deca almost 5 weeks ago. I was so certain that it must be that, but I'd think things would have normalized by now? I was only using roughly 84mg per week. I guess I could try P5P. I think the Caber I got wasn't legit, but the P5P seemed to work well.
Yes, P5P for a month or so, or whenever things seem to be going better.

Masteron and Var (to a lesser extent) help lower prolactin as well. Last cycle ran 300 test/200 deca initially and dropped deca for Masteron by week 4 because things were starting to fizzle and it wasn’t worth upsetting the wife.
 
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Interesting, I also stopped taking Var at the same time I stopped the Deca. As always, thanks for the sage advice! 😃
 
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Interesting, I also stopped taking Var at the same time I stopped the Deca. As always, thanks for the sage advice!
Grab a couple bottles of P5P for best bang for buck, or SNS Inhibit P if you are feeling spendy. If you are absolutely strapped for cash, you can use 2-300mg of B6 2-3x a day for up to 8 weeks (about 6-800mg per day). Plain B6 just doesn’t work as well if your body can’t convert it to the active easily, and it can cause immediately reversible nerve signal degradation if you stay on big doses past a couple months. Stopping it will reverse that though so no fears there.

Elevating prolactin has been my cross to bear since day 1 of steroid use, so I’ve learned a few things
 
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It's always taken me time to get there, but for months now I have trouble finishing with a woman. I can usually get there if I try real hard by myself, but almost never with a partner.

I thought maybe I was losing interest in my ex, so I dumped her ass and started nailing every hot chick I could find. I can stay hard and smash for hours, and usually get close, but lose it. I definitely want to cum and my libido is super high, so I don't think it's a lack of interest.

The only thing I started recently was metformin, but I can't see how that would cause it and I think I stared the metformin after this began anyway. I've cut everything except my TRT dose of Test E (175mg/week) thinking maybe it was the Deca or Exem causing it, but nothing changed. I'm really at a loss here.

Anybody experienced this?
How old are you? I noticed as I started getting older, the harder it was to finish. It's now to a point where I have to really concentrate and hammer. It sucks and only happens 50% of the time.
 
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How old are you? I noticed as I started getting older, the harder it was to finish. It's now to a point where I have to really concentrate and hammer. It sucks and only happens 50% of the time.
I'm barely in my 40's. ****, I hope it's not this! 😄
 
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Explain to the female recipient(s) that after considerable consultation with your M.D., you have been advised that, for your health and wellbeing (and also for her's), your should use her anus as the exclusive entry point until further notice. Style points will be awarded for seemlessly introducing the phrase "Dirty Sanchez" into the conversaion, and extra bonus points may be awarded for suggesting that the M.D. also "strongly recommended" that you "verify complete ejaculation efficiency" by examining the seminal fluid deposited on her face and neck.

Then, let the hilarity begin.

Of course, this will accomplish nothing. But - it may give you sometrhing else to think bout btween now and when your body resumes a more normal pattern.
 
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That's when mine first started. Could be porn too, hate to admit it, but sometimes I have to think my wife is another guys wife so I can finish. It sucks
Two well-intended and hopefully helpful suggestions:

1. Its probably a good idea not tell her that you are imagining her as being someone else while you are pounding her; and
2. Its probably even better that you do not call her by another woman's name while pounding her.
 

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Two well-intended and hopefully helpful suggestions:

1. Its probably a good idea not tell her that you are imagining her as being someone else while you are pounding her; and
2. Its probably even better that you do not call her by another woman's name while pounding her.
As far as #2 is concerned. Depending on how much fun he wants to have, he can play rodeo. As he’s pounding a chick from behind, he can call her by another name and see if he can hold on for 8 seconds!
 
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As far as #2 is concerned. Depending on how much fun he wants to have, he can play rodeo. As he’s pounding a chick from behind, he can call her by another name and see if he can hold on for 8 seconds!
You said "#2"
 
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Also, try not to say "you look really weird down there, that thing looks like it is yawning".

Some women would be confused by that statement and mistakenly think that you were being insensitive or "judgemental".

But it you see something weird, feel free to post pics.
 
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So do you go soft after a while? Or do you stay hard the entire time and you just can’t get off?
 
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So do you go soft after a while? Or do you stay hard the entire time and you just can’t get off?
No, I stay hard as a rock. I don't know how to describe it. It's like I feel myself getting close, but then I lose it.
 
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No, I stay hard as a rock. I don't know how to describe it. It's like I feel myself getting close, but then I lose it.
I don’t see the problem then. Introduce her to the mayor of pound town and when she finally taps out, jerk off on her face, or in her mouth, or on her tits, or on her ass, or any other place she wants it.
 
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I don’t see the problem then. Introduce her to the mayor of pound town and when she finally taps out, jerk off on her face, or in her mouth, or on her tits, or on her ass, or any other place she wants it.
Yeah, this is what usually happens, but they take it personally. I'm sick of explaining that "it's not you, it's me". I got a vasectomy twelve years ago so I could cum in them with no worries. Feels wasted now! 😄

I should also mention that I'm mostly banging chicks in their 20's, so they can't imagine a guy that doesn't cum in two minutes.
 
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... but they take it personally. I'm sick of explaining that "it's not you, it's me".
I would try modifying your approach.

Instead of telling them "it's not you", or something like that -- embrace the moment by saying something sensitive. Maybe something like "you know, I really think this must be all you because, as if I need to tell you, you are all wollered out. Lets try your brown eye for a while, it looks less ... well ... you know".

This will cause her to feel warm feelings towards you as you copulate.

Try that -- and report back. I have a hunch this just might fix everything.
 
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How old are you? I noticed as I started getting older, the harder it was to finish. It's now to a point where I have to really concentrate and hammer. It sucks and only happens 50% of the time.
I've noticed this.

It's both good and bad.
 
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Try breathing from the very bottom of your diaphragm while climaxing your rhythm.

Dunno how it works, but it not only helps to cum sometimes, it also enhances the experience.
 
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I don’t see the problem then. Introduce her to the mayor of pound town and when she finally taps out, jerk off on her face, or in her mouth, or on her tits, or on her ass, or any other place she wants it.
If he's anything like me, it's hard to finish jerking off on them also. If I do it alone, 5 seconds, if i'm with my wife, I'll be sitting there all day jerking it over her face......it's ridiculous.
 
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are you on ginseng by any chance? i had this happen when i was taking ginseng.
 

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It's always taken me time to get there, but for months now I have trouble finishing with a woman. I can usually get there if I try real hard by myself, but almost never with a partner.

I thought maybe I was losing interest in my ex, so I dumped her ass and started nailing every hot chick I could find. I can stay hard and smash for hours, and usually get close, but lose it. I definitely want to cum and my libido is super high, so I don't think it's a lack of interest.

The only thing I started recently was metformin, but I can't see how that would cause it and I think I stared the metformin after this began anyway. I've cut everything except my TRT dose of Test E (175mg/week) thinking maybe it was the Deca or Exem causing it, but nothing changed. I'm really at a loss here.

Anybody experienced this?

DEATH GRIP masturbation technique.

I have always had delayed ejaculation. So I started doing "nofap" = not masturbating. And yes it helps.

Nofap is literally one of the hardest things you start, but after 1 week it gets easier.

I actually went 3 months earlier this year but it totally killed my sex drive


I can expand more on this but can't be bothered to do a full write up. Let me know if you want it.
 
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I tried this as well. No fapping and waiting several days before having sex again. Didn't seem to matter, except that when I finally did cum, I could fill a bucket.
 

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I tried this as well. No fapping and waiting several days before having sex again. Didn't seem to matter, except that when I finally did cum, I could fill a bucket.

You have to fully reset your dick - several days isn't going to do it. I did like 6 weeks the first time, because the girl I was seeing lived abroad and I was spending Christmas with her.
 

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