Not that I'd reccomend this route but I was in the same boat a bit ago. After my wife gave birth to our 4th child I outed myself. When she decided to get mad I quickly interrupted and said "ok, you can leave me then"...lmao - like hell shes going to go do all that by herself. Now after our 5th was born I can proud fully boast when she sees me with a pin in hand "no, this isnt testosterone. This is the sh!t they give race horses!"