The key is none of us are perfect and we all have our own love language, and your kids knew and know you love them, and that always comes from your actions, because love is an action word. And there is also tough love when we’re teaching our kids and dealing with issues. Man I went through a lot of that with my boys as teenagers, but now that they are men in their 30s and early 40s they have actually all told me and my wife that the tough love helped shape them into men as much as anything. The key is they know everything we do with and for them comes from love. Ha, I get a kick out of watching them get firm with their kids, but what’s funny now as Grandparents a lot of the stuff we can laugh at now, but man when you’re in the midst of dealing with a headstrong child nothing is funny. I’ve had my sons numerous times catch me smirking a little, and they would say “I know I was just like him at that age” and I’ll say “yep”.
