The study linked above is a good overview. It will be more comprehensive than my (probably too long) post and have references for further reading if you wish.
It depends on "why" when you ask this question and it is probably why people do end up confused or people push weird "you can only absorb this much protiein!#!!" type statements.
It seems there is a "cap" for total daily intake that going above does not seem to improve muscular hypertrophy gains, as well as a minimum over the course of a day one must try to hit for benefits as well (these are debatable but settle near the easy to remember 1g/lb most use).
From that we also seem to see that timing doesn't have a huge benefit once this is met, so it appears that spreading that evenly throughout the day (which should hopefully cover the pre and post windows) would be prudent. Therefore just take your total intake and divide it evenly by the meals you have per day.
That doesn't really answer your question (I didn't forget!) though. We see in some studies that show a certain amount of protein "maxes" out MPS, which tends to be where you get these limits of "only" so much per meal. This is problematic for a few reasons.
Getting stuck on the MPS response of protein is understandable (gains!), but tends to miss some of the other possible (which maybe aren't fully teased out in research yet) of higher protein intake past this theoretical limit. Protein provides a high Thermic Effect (TFE) so eating more may be beneficial in regards to burning more calories for a given intake as well. This relates to and also leads to the idea that Protein also is more satiating. Higher intakes may help manage total caloric intake better even if it isn't giving a direct benefit to muscle gains by its increase. If you eat more than is theoretically beneficial for MPS I wouldn't take that to mean it is "wasted".
We do tend to see that protein is more important in periods of weight loss (deficit) with the demands increasing. This should point out that max consumption is probably not a static number either. Changing demands in training, total intake of other macronutrients, athlete training age (and actual age), weight (muscle mass), etc. an all have effect on this number. This just goes towards an idea you can't pin point one single limit to max intake number.
Sorry I got writing and just kind of kept going. I think this is an interesting topic (maximizing intake), but tends to be looked at too narrowly. So TLDR:
1) I wouldn't worry about a cap, even if you ate more than what is theoretically beneficial for hypertrophy there may be other benefits and it isn't "wasted" or just automatically not absorbed.
2) If worried just aim for generally recommended upon total intakes and divide it by number of meals you eat per day. This should preferably be evenly spread and not too many or too little.