Sounds reasonable to me. More often than not, I see people worried about their bench when they should be worried about their squat/deadlift. Seriously, for health-only reasons I think you are better off lagging on the bench than on the other two. You shouldn't worry so much about how you compare to others. The real question is, how do you compare to your 9st2 version of yourself? When you started, how were you in those 3 lifts? Comparing to others is good to some extent, but the real measure is your own improvement and what you're gonna do about it.