It just takes a lot of time, man. If you're struggling, you can drop your cals for a couple three weeks and try the all out bulk again. If I eat 4500 every day with no light days for a couple months, I'd be 250. But, I've already been there. When you're breaking new ground, it's slow and has many steps forward and back.
There was a board-wide McDouble phase around this time last year, Cincy was 230, Rob was 220, Jim climbed up like 30lbs in a few months to break 200. Sometimes you gotta eat like a jagoff to get that weight up. Eventually we all realized we got fat together and threw on the brakes, except for Jim. His body fcked him.