What would you recomend as the best strength training routine for me
one that includes the dynamic effort method, the max effort method, and repetition effort method and forces you to work on your weak links.
for example, you can have 2 bench workouts. a ME and a DE day. you will always do RE work after the DE/ME work.
on ME day you work up to 3 work sets of 1-5 reps. dont just always do 1 rep maxes. the first attempt should be just above 90%. use this as a test to see where you are at that day. the second set should be at or just shy of a PR. the 3rd set should set a new PR. and try not to do just bench. find a variation that you know increases your bench, like close grip of you need to work on triceps, incline if you need more shoulders, floor press of you have issue locking out, paused or wide grip if you are weak off the chest, etc. and cycle these every 3 weeks or less. over time you will have lots of PRs and you will know when you are getting better.
for ME day for about 4 weeks aim for 3-5 rep maxes. take a deload week then spend 2-4 weeks trying 1-2 rep maxes. deload and repeat. over time you may find you can longer or shorter for the 3-5 max phase. you may not even need a deload at the end. but if you do not need a deload on the 1-2 max phase it either wasnt long enough or you did not push near hard enough.
for DE day use 40-80% and do 2-3 reps. matching the above phases, on the 3-5 max phase use lighter percentages and a lot more volume. like 15-20 sets of 2-3 with minimal rest. time yourself to complete all the sets and each time try and beat that time or use more weight with the same time. this is all about explosion and speed. when you cannot go so fast that you are throwing the weight out of your hands then you need to stop. and start off light. each week up the percentages 5-10%. for example on week 1 do 40%, then 45%, 50%, 55%.
then during the 1-2 rep max phase you drop down to 8-12 sets but up the weight used. go 60%, 65%, 70%. you can even add chains or bands. and do the flat bench here. practice the movement on the DE day. learn to grease the groove.
for the RE work, follow the 2 phases from above. the 3-5 and the 1-2 rep max phase. for 3-5 use general strengthening, nothing specific. in other words just get stronger. work overheads, rows, chinups, etc. use higher rep and higher volume so you can increase work capacity as well as size of the muscles.
RE work during the 1-2 rep max phase focus on just your weak link. like if you cannot keep your upper back tight during a 5 rep max day then hit your traps with as many sets of 3-8 as you can. hammer them hard. you can also do a variation of bench, one for example that you really suck at for some sets of 5 or 6 for some hard effort volume after the DE or ME work.
the lifts you will use are unique to you. you have to find them or find someone knowledgeable in strength sports to help you find them. the reps/sets you use are unique to you. you need to find what works for you. and this can change over time as you strengthen the weak links and find new ones.
does this make sense?