Hello K1212
It does sound unbelievable or exaggerated doesnt it. That a doctor would "mock". But truly in Australia there is a certain difficulty within the medical community when it comes to taking a proactive approach to treating patients with what they deem to be "lifestyle" choices.
After I saw the Head of Andrology at the hospital I attended overseas, he advised me that my Testosterone levels, hormone levels, semen.sperm, the works basically were very much below what was normal. He wrote a letter and gave advice to the specialists here including my atrophy and pain which he listed as acute.
I had to go to see a GP to get my referral. I was really optimistic as finally someone had pointed to a possible cause of some of my past problems and I wanted to get started on with it. The first GP despite seeing test results and the Andrologists report recommending an immediate operation to rectify the varicocele refused to even give me a referral. I had to return next day and get that from another GP. The first GP told me I can get by using IVF (to get a baby) and using Viagra or Caverject (prosteglandin injection into side of penis) for sex.
My local urologist I got sent to laughed about overseas doctors (remember the guy I saw is US qualified, head of his hospitals Andrology department and has many research papers published on a wide range of male fertility and hormone issues in conjunction with Euro and US counterparts and came recommended by Urology colleagues as someone highly esteemed with 1000 operations experience). I insisted he send me to see a specialist similarly qualified as the overseas Andrologist I saw in terms of male hormone and fertility problems. That guy was equally dismissive. Said...yes my T was low but hey...lots of guys get it up with low T. Yes I had pain in the left side...but hey...varicoceles dont cause pain. He even told me I have hair loss and that my T must be good enough since guys with some hair loss up North are obviously real men. (ppfff). I told him that my granddad on mothers side was bald as a cue ball and its the mothers side of the family (genetic wise) that determines baldness so please stop talking like I am some local hick with no education. Oh and he said varicoceles dont do damage to testi's over time :-(
I went back to see the Urologist after the previous specialist says he doesnt do varicoceles. The urologist started tell me about the procedure and then scared me off because he mentioned about tying the "artery off". I said.."dont you mean veins" Honest to doodle..anyone in his profession should never talk about tying off arteries. He corrected himself and laughed saying "if I wanted a variation of the procedure then he could tie the veins off instead".
I lost confidence in his ability and wont have him near me now with a knife.
I always knew my problems with ED, pain, low sperm counts and mixed up energy and emotion levels were not "mental". Some past urologists recommended I go see a pysch because I might be intimidated by women or have performance anxiety issues (like that fixes low T, and sperm quality????) I told them I had a wife who looks like Ms Universe - attractive, fit and educated and real fun lady - so what is the point of paying someone to tell them I am not intimidated by women.
My belief is that either doctors are scared to operate in a litigous society, or hospitals discourage the use of thearte time on non life threatening issues (saves money on tight budgets) for which a medication exists as a work around (try sticking yourself with a needle before sex to get an erection = yeah great), or they lack the confidence to do operations here (an ex wife of mine who is a nurse says they are too learned on paper but not enough in practical skills in Australia compared to overseas).
And some urologists think that if you arent screaming on the carpet in pain...you can go and park yourself elsewhere.
There is also a macho culture in Australia from what I can see. Real men with no problems like themselves...look down on those with problems. When I mentioned my Andrologist appointments overseas and show results and the letter or mention forums and advice on the net...they look at me like its an affront to themselves to be getting advice/taking advantage of experts when overseas or researching the net which they advise is full of garbage.
No.