beckerj
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darkblue1 - GREAT news on the CT scan .... So now you don't have to worry about the pain in your abdomen .... It is most likely part and parcel of the varicocele and once you get the surgery that should go away as it did for me .... I still have a tinge of pain every once in a while in my scrotum .... I chalk that up to the veins dieing off ....
As for feeling down there at genitals during night time .... Do you mean that sense that it is alive ? If that is what you mean I know exactly what you feel like .... There is a theory that I read somewhere during my research on varicocele and it stated that Testosterone is vital for blood flow .... If your T level is low then that in turn can affect the blood flow throughout your body, including your genitals .... So that can be a reason .... I felt the same way .... I never brought it up in the discussions here because I thought it may just be in my head .... Good to know it wasn't .... It adds to the theory ....
It is a known fact that those that have varicocele, when they lie down that the blood stops the pooling and the varicocele is hard to feel, even at grade III, which is what my left varicocele was .... I still felt mine though, so it may have actually been larger than grade III as when the surgeon gave me the post op talk he said he was very impressed with how many veins he had to ligate .... 20 on my left side ....
As for the weakness you feel .... I was very weak in my legs and arms .... I did not want to do anything .... At All .... I was lazy as a pig in slop ....
The getting up at night to go to the bathroom .... Part and parcel .... Same here ....
Sex can be a chore, but I found if I waited a week or so I was ready and roaring to go at it .... Although afterwards I was COMPLETELY wiped out for the rest of the day .... All I could do was to stay awake to watch TV ....
With the varicocele I think we can all say with certainty that our WOOD is not as full and firm even when we are ready to play .... I used Cialis for the most part to play, and it helped but I could tell an immediate difference from before the surgery to after ....
Not sure if what I am saying means what you want it to or not ....
I would go to both appointments .... As you have read from my posts here and in other threads you can see I had to go to 3 different urologists, about to go to yet a second endo, mainly just to make sure what the urologist is doing is within the norm ....
I beleive the pain in your abdomen is due to the varicocele .... It was the same for me ....
The headache could be part and parcel of the varicocele .... As I had constant headaches and all my test for the pituitary came back normal and good numbers .... I still have a headache but it is not as severe as it was ....
Going back to the theory I read about .... I think this can explain the headaches .... Lack of T can be causing areas of our brains to become starved for testosterone .... As other parts are starving for T too .... It is just a theory .... But maybe that can put your mind to rest a bit ....
It is also a known fact that the low T causes depresson and brain fog .... So you not being able to concentrate at work .... Well I was in the same boat ....
Angelina - I do not feel like you are invading at all .... This is a support group and you as the "Other Half" have just as much right to be here as the next .... SMILE
As for the talking part .... I can not say enough that understanding is the key here in this situation .... Know that he wants to be with you and let him know that .... That is if he is at the point where he is having ED issues ....
It is your business, because you love\care for him .... I wished my other half was more interested in what I was going through but .... Such as life ....
I would make sure that the CT\MRI was clear .... You didn't say whether or not he had that checked out .... It is rare but it is possible ....
A Day or So ? Yeah Right .... His balls are going to be elephant in size .... and sore .... Is he having the Micro-Surgery or ?
Some guys have said a frozen bag of peas help .... I just laid around a lot .... I have loratab for the pain ....
S*x is at least a two week wait for int*rco*rse .... Although mast*urbation may be sooner ....
Hope that helps you both .... SMILE
As for feeling down there at genitals during night time .... Do you mean that sense that it is alive ? If that is what you mean I know exactly what you feel like .... There is a theory that I read somewhere during my research on varicocele and it stated that Testosterone is vital for blood flow .... If your T level is low then that in turn can affect the blood flow throughout your body, including your genitals .... So that can be a reason .... I felt the same way .... I never brought it up in the discussions here because I thought it may just be in my head .... Good to know it wasn't .... It adds to the theory ....
It is a known fact that those that have varicocele, when they lie down that the blood stops the pooling and the varicocele is hard to feel, even at grade III, which is what my left varicocele was .... I still felt mine though, so it may have actually been larger than grade III as when the surgeon gave me the post op talk he said he was very impressed with how many veins he had to ligate .... 20 on my left side ....
As for the weakness you feel .... I was very weak in my legs and arms .... I did not want to do anything .... At All .... I was lazy as a pig in slop ....
The getting up at night to go to the bathroom .... Part and parcel .... Same here ....
Sex can be a chore, but I found if I waited a week or so I was ready and roaring to go at it .... Although afterwards I was COMPLETELY wiped out for the rest of the day .... All I could do was to stay awake to watch TV ....
With the varicocele I think we can all say with certainty that our WOOD is not as full and firm even when we are ready to play .... I used Cialis for the most part to play, and it helped but I could tell an immediate difference from before the surgery to after ....
Not sure if what I am saying means what you want it to or not ....
I would go to both appointments .... As you have read from my posts here and in other threads you can see I had to go to 3 different urologists, about to go to yet a second endo, mainly just to make sure what the urologist is doing is within the norm ....
I beleive the pain in your abdomen is due to the varicocele .... It was the same for me ....
The headache could be part and parcel of the varicocele .... As I had constant headaches and all my test for the pituitary came back normal and good numbers .... I still have a headache but it is not as severe as it was ....
Going back to the theory I read about .... I think this can explain the headaches .... Lack of T can be causing areas of our brains to become starved for testosterone .... As other parts are starving for T too .... It is just a theory .... But maybe that can put your mind to rest a bit ....
It is also a known fact that the low T causes depresson and brain fog .... So you not being able to concentrate at work .... Well I was in the same boat ....
Angelina - I do not feel like you are invading at all .... This is a support group and you as the "Other Half" have just as much right to be here as the next .... SMILE
As for the talking part .... I can not say enough that understanding is the key here in this situation .... Know that he wants to be with you and let him know that .... That is if he is at the point where he is having ED issues ....
It is your business, because you love\care for him .... I wished my other half was more interested in what I was going through but .... Such as life ....
I would make sure that the CT\MRI was clear .... You didn't say whether or not he had that checked out .... It is rare but it is possible ....
A Day or So ? Yeah Right .... His balls are going to be elephant in size .... and sore .... Is he having the Micro-Surgery or ?
Some guys have said a frozen bag of peas help .... I just laid around a lot .... I have loratab for the pain ....
S*x is at least a two week wait for int*rco*rse .... Although mast*urbation may be sooner ....
Hope that helps you both .... SMILE