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its really simple. When you already have a woman and ARENT looking for another, you are more relaxed and confident in your interaction with other women....

Agreed, but a lot of times the same women that "may" blow you off when you are alone...flirt when you are with another woman. Odd behavior.
 
I think E is dead on from personal experience. Last year this time, over Halloween weekend to be exact I landed around 5 phone numbers in a night, and the strange part was I only ever asked one girl. The rest gave them to me without me even so much as asking. It was like they were in competition.

The month before I was one lonely SOB. But then the month after I found the girl I have now, and she notices that a lot of women look at me (her words....I don't see 90% of them) when she is with me.

I think to get a woman you have to have a woman first.
Yet, further proof that god (allah, budda, gonesha, flying spaghetti monster et al) is cruel.
 
its really simple. When you already have a woman and ARENT looking for another, you are more relaxed and confident in your interaction with other women....

They could play a part with some, but is not relevant in most cases. Women want what the other woman has; that is the bottom line.

A woman walks down the street with a new pair of shoes she loves, but she sees another woman pass by with the shoes she passed on for the ones she has on. Now that other woman is a biiiiiotch and she wants those shoes............

Think of the shoes as a variable ;)
 
They could play a part with some, but is not relevant in most cases. Women want what the other woman has; that is the bottom line.

A woman walks down the street with a new pair of shoes she loves, but she sees another woman pass by with the shoes she passed on for the ones she has on. Now that other woman is a biiiiiotch and she wants those shoes............

Think of the shoes as a variable ;)

Agree...the plot thickens J...she called me AGAIN on a break at work last night. She started asking me where this store is and some other places (she's newly transplanted) then she says...hey isn't that store close to your house? Oh, you want to meet me tomorrow after you get out of work? :blink: Me thinks the woman is a tad confused.
 
They could play a part with some, but is not relevant in most cases. Women want what the other woman has; that is the bottom line.

A woman walks down the street with a new pair of shoes she loves, but she sees another woman pass by with the shoes she passed on for the ones she has on. Now that other woman is a biiiiiotch and she wants those shoes............

Think of the shoes as a variable ;)

but the simple fact is that the potential new women interested in you have no way of knowing you have a girlfriend, other than your confidence, relaxation, and lack of attempting to hit on them.
 
but the simple fact is that the potential new women interested in you have no way of knowing you have a girlfriend, other than your confidence, relaxation, and lack of attempting to hit on them.

Yeah, but it is more apparent when you are WITH your woman.
 
Agree...the plot thickens J...she called me AGAIN on a break at work last night. She started asking me where this store is and some other places (she's newly transplanted) then she says...hey isn't that store close to your house? Oh, you want to meet me tomorrow after you get out of work? :blink: Me thinks the woman is a tad confused.

I told her no freakin way...what are you nuts??? Get your act together for your NEXT man! :rant:
 
I told her no freakin way...what are you nuts??? Get your act together for your NEXT man! :rant:

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Uh no...not really...I did say, well call me tomorrow and we'll see. Then she said oh you don't want to go? I gave in pretty quickly. :D

So, you know what will happen...she's gonna call me later and say NEVERMIND!!!
 
Agree...the plot thickens J...she called me AGAIN on a break at work last night. She started asking me where this store is and some other places (she's newly transplanted) then she says...hey isn't that store close to your house? Oh, you want to meet me tomorrow after you get out of work? :blink: Me thinks the woman is a tad confused.

its never easy. be honest, thats the most important thing :)
 
but the simple fact is that the potential new women interested in you have no way of knowing you have a girlfriend, other than your confidence, relaxation, and lack of attempting to hit on them.

That is a whole another Oprah.

What I initially referred to is the attraction of the opposite sex when you appear to be taken.
 
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Uh no...not really...I did say, well call me tomorrow and we'll see. Then she said oh you don't want to go? I gave in pretty quickly. :D

So, you know what will happen...she's gonna call me later and say NEVERMIND!!!

That is women for you...
 
its never easy. be honest, thats the most important thing :)

THAT'S my problem...I don't want to play games. I want to be honest and open. However, that always seems to back fire on me.

When I was young(er), I was a dishonest w/ women, cheater, liar, etc. and I had women galore.

Find one that works with you and never let go :D
 
THAT'S my problem...I don't want to play games. I want to be honest and open. However, that always seems to back fire on me.

When I was young(er), I was a dishonest w/ women, cheater, liar, etc. and I had women galore.

Find one that works with you and never let go :D

I hear ya....and then they think you are soft and weak...

My woman was in an abusive relationship, but she loves giving me sh1t. So, I told her, are you not happy unless you are getting your ass kicked?
 
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Uh no...not really...I did say, well call me tomorrow and we'll see. Then she said oh you don't want to go? I gave in pretty quickly. :D

So, you know what will happen...she's gonna call me later and say NEVERMIND!!!

maybe she's waiting for you to start engaging her again
so if she calls and says nevermind about the stores and crap
you can say you didn't really want to do that anyway
but you would like to take her out for dinner / or some other smooth activity that would be considered a date

or if you honestly just didn't want to go to the stores, don't wait for her to say nevermind, just be up front about offering some other date activity that you would want to do
 
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Well I am thinking of nice lo-carb/whole wheat one. Care to recommend a brand?

There's a few decent ones:

South Beach makes one, but I have not tried.

Mission makes a good one.

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maybe she's waiting for you to start engaging her again
so if she calls and says nevermind about the stores and crap
you can say you didn't really want to do that anyway
but you would like to take her out for dinner / or some other smooth activity that would be considered a date

or if you honestly just didn't want to go to the stores, don't wait for her to say nevermind, just be up front about offering some other date activity that you would want to do

Yeah, pull some suave move on her...I think I still know how to do that.

Honestly, I haven't seen her in a month...so I just want to see her. I spent 2 hours with her at Hugo-Mart once at midnight and we actually had fun - yeah, I know pathetic. I think I saw Smet there!
 
laugh out loud
definitely not dead 2 me anymore

OH **** YES!

That made my morning. I woke up late, apparently when I press and hold snooze my alarm clock shuts off. Oh, and my dog got the ****s in the middle of the night and I spent an additional 1/2 hour cleaning up what looked like black beans.
 
In addendum Wilman, be sure you aren't in a situation I like to call "The Player Gets Played" I had a girl try it with me. Long story short I ran into her at a club after meeting her at a friends house 3 weeks earlier. We talked for a minute she starts kissing on me before she goes back to her boyfriend.

Then she wants me to call her, but she can't ever go do anything.
Then repeat.
Then we hook up again and she's all over me like stink on ****
Then she wants me to call her, but she can't ever go do anything.
I get pissed off and write her off after 2 months of casual bs'ing through text messages.
**** her and her big tits.
 
Yeah, pull some suave move on her...I think I still know how to do that.

Honestly, I haven't seen her in a month...so I just want to see her. I spent 2 hours with her at Hugo-Mart once at midnight and we actually had fun - yeah, I know pathetic. I think I saw Smet there!

still, I think they like it more when you choose the activity
you can always say you're not interested in doing that stuff now, but maybe over the weekend or something like that. And I guess that puts you in the control position.

and just wanting to visit might make her feel some pressure to be entertaining since that's not an activity that is intrinsically interesting to participate in unless the participants are fun people (meaning she has to have high self-esteem, which we know to be unlikely since she's female)

just call me dr. love hey, I could still know what I'm talking about even though I haven't had any successes with women in the past thre...errr make that in forever
 
Yeah, pull some suave move on her...I think I still know how to do that.

Honestly, I haven't seen her in a month...so I just want to see her. I spent 2 hours with her at Hugo-Mart once at midnight and we actually had fun - yeah, I know pathetic. I think I saw Smet there!

Mimic this cat, and she will be yours

 
OH **** YES!

That made my morning. I woke up late, apparently when I press and hold snooze my alarm clock shuts off. Oh, and my dog got the ****s in the middle of the night and I spent an additional 1/2 hour cleaning up what looked like black beans.

Good morning Doc! I took a 3 hour drive with my dog. When we got to the location, we got out and did not use the car for a few days. When I got back in the car, she had puked on the floor in the back seat and I had not noticed before. Not pretty.
 
still, I think they like it more when you choose the activity
you can always say you're not interested in doing that stuff now, but maybe over the weekend or something like that. And I guess that puts you in the control position.

and just wanting to visit might make her feel some pressure to be entertaining since that's not an activity that is intrinsically interesting to participate in unless the participants are fun people (meaning she has to have high self-esteem, which we know to be unlikely since she's female)

just call me dr. love hey, I could still know what I'm talking about even though I haven't had any successes with women in the past thre...errr make that in forever

It is not that easy bro. You take control and women think you are possessive. Wil tried that route and she :run:

It is all about adapting, if you she is worth playing a game.
 
In addendum Wilman, be sure you aren't in a situation I like to call "The Player Gets Played" I had a girl try it with me. Long story short I ran into her at a club after meeting her at a friends house 3 weeks earlier. We talked for a minute she starts kissing on me before she goes back to her boyfriend.

Then she wants me to call her, but she can't ever go do anything.
Then repeat.
Then we hook up again and she's all over me like stink on ****
Then she wants me to call her, but she can't ever go do anything.
I get pissed off and write her off after 2 months of casual bs'ing through text messages.
**** her and her big tits.

Yeah, that happens. But I don't think that's it in this case....but it HAS crossed my mind.
 
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