May have lost girlfriend due to steroids :(

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  1. May have lost girlfriend due to steroids :(


    I was crazy about this girl.

    She didn't seem too worried about the pills, but when I mentioned injecting she kind of seemed taken aback.

    It was the next day she ended it. The only reason I got was "I don't agree with some stuff you do".

    Let this be a lesson to all; this is a stigma right up there with heroin, and it really can have a negative impact on your life if you so choose to be forthcoming.

    I am so down right now.


  2. You just mentioned it or did you tell her you were already injecting? Just wondering if just the thought of it made her react that way.
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  3. I feel for you man sorry about that but if she's willing to make quick decisions over something she doesn't know anything about maybe its for the best.

    What I did was had my girl watch bigger faster stronger with me it really allowed for a more open conversation and some broken stigmas associated with it all.

    Keep your head up and keep lifting my man! She'll be sorry when you still look like a Greek god when you bump into her in the future!

  4. I told her I was planning to inject.

    If this really was the reason it's terrible.

    We were in the early stages, and if we were established a bit longer chances are she might have accepted it later on.

  5. That really sucks man...My girlfriend found out about me buying AAS...convinced her that I'm *****ing out and that I'm going to sell. She's been away studying abroad for the last few months and I won't see her until November. Not sure about the reaction I'll get when she notices a 15lb muscle gain.
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  6. I've lost 5lbs in the past 3 days from being depressed and under eating.

    I know it's just one girl, but damn I really liked her.

  7. When I met my partner she knew I was on steriods I even use to inject in front of her, anyway I eventually agreed to stop doing it, which I stopped for 3 years, then the last 12 months I ran 2 cycles which she doesn't know about, we been together 7 years and she has said if I ever do if again she will leave, which lately I have been thinking weather to just go natural.... Cause at the end of the day we spend all this money on this stuff and when we hit the age of 50-60 do u think we still going to have the same body? It's only temporary and we are wasting money at the end of the day, when if we work hard naturally we would be more likely to keep what we have achieved, the last 2 months I have made good results natural, and I think I'm going to stay that way instead of throwing money at something that I won't have at the end anyway!

    Yea steriods can get you there quicker and help with sore joints and so on, but the results I have had lately don't come with any type of libido shut down, mood swings or any of that, I feel awesome, strength is great, girlfriend is awesome and that type of thing I don't have to continually throw money at and go throw highs & lows with pct and do on.

  8. **** bro...I feel for you. You need to try and talk to this girl about it. Am I right in that you haven't starting injecting yet? If so, I honestly think you should ask her to give you another chance if you drop the gear. If she means that much to you, it's what I would do. And hey, if all goes well over the next few months etc...then maybe she'll be okay with it then.

  9. My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha

  10. Quote Originally Posted by bcazo View Post
    My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha
    Not a bad idea...unless your wife decides she needs some more Vit C and Zinc for her cold and wakes up with a beard. haha

  11. Quote Originally Posted by bcazo
    My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha


    That's why I'm single...
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  12. Lucky u!!!

  13. I feel you bro...lost my fiance of 3 years...but shes still in my life for some reason, just think the way i do, if you guys r meant to be together then it will happen...keep your head up and keep lifting man, being depressed over a girl is a horrible feeling man stay postitive man

  14. That sucks man. I had the same dilemma about whether I should tell this girl or not whether I juiced, and I eventually decided to break it off because I knew she wouldn't agree with it and honestly, I didn't like her enough to stop. That should kinda be your measuring stick. If you didn't like her enough to stop using steroids/PH, then its probably best it ended anyway. I know it doesn't seem like that right now bro but just give it some time.

  15. Quote Originally Posted by bcazo
    Lucky u!!!
    I hear.

    Many girls I've talked too complained about the pills I'm swallowing, being on this board blah, blah...
    I'm still do what I want to do but for married people with kids or people that care, factors maybe a bit different.
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    Lift the fücking weight from the floor, or leave it on the ground. The thoughts are supposed to be daunting. The pain is meant to be tormenting.

  16. That sucks bro. Keep your head up there is plenty of women out there trust me.

    I told my girl when I met her after the 3rd date. Was just like "what do you think of steroids?" After she was like I dunno are you safe? then I was in. I told her that I wasn't stopping and if she wanted me too I would leave her.

    Honesty is a must in a relationship bro. Don't let people judge you off of their ignorance. Its their fault they are stupid enough to believe what the media or whatever says. You just keep getting big, eating,hitting on girls and life works out.
    The advice I give is just that... Advice, purely my opinion. Not medical advice
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    You guys seem to forget that for the major majority of you your use is illegal as well. Regardless of your moral, hands-off-my-body-anti-government-stance, it is illegal to purchase and possess anabolic steroids without a prescription. Let's not forget the federal charges for internet transactions and the international and cross state lines trafficking involved.

    Any intelligent and mature young woman (my daughter in my case) would kick your ass to the curb. Let us not forget there are plenty of other fish in the sea for her as well. Don't flatter yourselves too much. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

  18. Sorry to hear op, but she does have a right whether she wants to be dating someone using drugs or not. I just started my first injection cycle of test e, and I can't tell whether my gf wants me to do it or not. She's really skeptical and afraid it might cause some major problems, but I've showed her some information that persuaded her to be okay with me using.

  19. im skipping all the comments sosry if this has been said. but srs dude, if the girl was willing to break up with you so quickly over something like that,then she was either:
    A) not worth the time because she makes decisions based on a whim. she doesnt even understand, just knows about the social taboo of steroids.
    or
    B) you guys had more problems than you knew about or than youre letting us know and its been a breakup in the making

    yea itll hurt for awhile, but youll survive it. just focus on thepositives rather than memories. for example, now you can run the cycles without tip toeing around. and how good of a gf was she if she wasnt even willing to talk about it and educate herself before cutting the rope?

  20. Good point, breaking the law (no matter how dumb the law is) gives absolutely no moral standing and doesn't help with credibility. But, to quickly judge someone on the fly with little to no understanding on the subject is not any better. I'll just give a friendly reminder, not everyone who uses AAS are gym rats or athletes, but there are plenty of guardians of freedom and the American way of life that rely on AAS as well...

  21. Quote Originally Posted by bcazo
    My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha
    I've been doing that for years. Lmao. My wife accepts, but it's nice. If we argue its not automatically my fault because I have "roid rage". Lol even though I never get mad or yell, it's just easy to blame sh*t on.
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    Common bro why would u take d Bol just take plain steroids if ur gonna do it since first place
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    You risk incarceration, infertility, impotence, liver disease, kidney diseases, heart disease, hypertension and a host of other complications.

    All of these factors disqualify you as ideal mate candidates and everything about you screams "stay far away" for a girl with a healthy self-esteem and a head on her shoulders. Unless of course you want a woman that is as shallow to believe that your physiques make you an ideal mate.

  23. Quote Originally Posted by R1187 View Post
    I told her I was planning to inject.

    If this really was the reason it's terrible.

    We were in the early stages, and if we were established a bit longer chances are she might have accepted it later on.
    this.
    my gf (of almost 1y) is fine with me pinning, she's seen it and does not mind. doesn't like to see it, but accepts it. however, if i told her a month in i wanted to, she'd prob react similarly.

  24. Quote Originally Posted by David Dunn View Post
    You risk incarceration, infertility, impotence, liver disease, kidney diseases, heart disease, hypertension and a host of other complications.

    All of these factors disqualify you as ideal mate candidates and everything about you screams "stay far away" for a girl with a healthy self-esteem and a head on her shoulders. Unless of course you want a woman that is as shallow to believe that your physiques make you an ideal mate.
    This^

    Even if you think you use AAS "safely" there is still always a possibility of negative side effects. So how can you bash a girl for not wanting you to do anything that could potentially harm you?

    If she looks at you as anything more then a fling she likely wants to be with you for the long haul. She's going to want you to be a safe and healthy spouse/father.

    My advice for the OP, if you really like her that much, stop using steroids lol it's pretty simple

  25. Quote Originally Posted by bcazo View Post
    My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha
    Just make sure you keep a written note with what goodies are in what bottles. Simply email yourself a note. Vitamin B = Superdrol, Vitamin C = Anavar, etc.

    But for gods sake - make sure she doesn't start taking your "vitamins"! Seriously, it's probably better you get some tribulus or tongkat ali bottles and put the goodies inside these. She is unlikely going to be stealing natty test boosters.

  26. Quote Originally Posted by R1187
    I was crazy about this girl.

    She didn't seem too worried about the pills, but when I mentioned injecting she kind of seemed taken aback.

    It was the next day she ended it. The only reason I got was "I don't agree with some stuff you do".

    Let this be a lesson to all; this is a stigma right up there with heroin, and it really can have a negative impact on your life if you so choose to be forthcoming.

    I am so down right now.
    If she ended it that quick she was just looking for an excuse to get out. Nothing you could do. If a girl loves you enough she shouldn't let that **** hurt the relationship, unless the use of it somehow hinders the relationship.
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  27. Quote Originally Posted by JoeySon

    This^

    Even if you think you use AAS "safely" there is still always a possibility of negative side effects. So how can you bash a girl for not wanting you to do anything that could potentially harm you?

    If she looks at you as anything more then a fling she likely wants to be with you for the long haul. She's going to want you to be a safe and healthy spouse/father.

    My advice for the OP, if you really like her that much, stop using steroids lol it's pretty simple
    I agree with this!

  28. Quote Originally Posted by crispycrown
    I feel for you man sorry about that but if she's willing to make quick decisions over something she doesn't know anything about maybe its for the best.

    What I did was had my girl watch bigger faster stronger with me it really allowed for a more open conversation and some broken stigmas associated with it all.

    Keep your head up and keep lifting my man! She'll be sorry when you still look like a Greek god when you bump into her in the future!
    I'm coming to learn very fast that women in general aren't all that impressed by the super muscular look....it really is about who you are as a person...the rest means nothing...she may run into him a year from now and he may have the body of a greek God...but I doubt she'll care...think about it from an outside perspective...the lengths we go to just to look better and build muscle..to some it seems like desperation and insecurity..may get bashed for saying this but I'll only get bashed out of a defensive nature..but I think I'm right..also when someone who doesn't juice finds out that someone else uses roids the impressive factor goes out the window and that's enough to turn anybody off

  29. Quote Originally Posted by JD261985

    I'm coming to learn very fast that women in general aren't all that impressed by the super muscular look....it really is about who you are as a person...the rest means nothing...she may run into him a year from now and he may have the body of a greek God...but I doubt she'll care...think about it from an outside perspective...the lengths we go to just to look better and build muscle..to some it seems like desperation and insecurity..may get bashed for saying this but I'll only get bashed out of a defensive nature..but I think I'm right..also when someone who doesn't juice finds out that someone else uses roids the impressive factor goes out the window and that's enough to turn anybody off
    im pretty sure youre right. however, the gym factor has effects than physique. one big thing that turns women on is security. the confidence a guy gets from the gym helps portray that feeling. they also like it when men are passionate about something, and that pretty much goes for anything. this whole idea goes outthe fukin window when a shallow ass women gets involved though, which majority of women are

  30. Probably for the best man.. if she was so quick to leave you over a passion a love for bb then its prob best she left man, you dont need a girl like that around. there are much better woman out there! find one that can understand and accept your love for bb!
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