May have lost girlfriend due to steroids :(

[David Dunn]

Point taken. Although different context in his and my own, but regardless. How fast the standards swing when your not an admin. He can make judgmental statements and put down a member in need, supported by the admin, but I am but a mere standard member such as myself. Shame on me for such misconduct, my sincere apologies.

I made a judgement of a woman's choice to not be involved with an individual who chooses to use illegal drugs. I did not call him names nor judge him, only the actions and choice.

If you would learn to be mature enough appreciate the perspective of another point of view that differs from yours then you may not be so hostile and defensive of it.

[NYiron]

Wow. You are an *******.

When I have to be.

[Admin]

Bans dont mean crap on here lolz. those guys and many others on here prob have been banned several times. Google is your friend, its not difficult to change your IP or GHOST it.

Or detect it...when you actually give a ****. But its amazing what people think a proxy can do...and can't do.

[Admin]

Point taken. Although different context in his and my own, but regardless. How fast the standards swing when your not an admin. He can make judgmental statements and put down a member in need, supported by the admin, but I am but a mere standard member such as myself. Shame on me for such misconduct, my sincere apologies.

Passive agressive anyone?

How many ways can a member contradict himself in one night....let me count the ways.

Being an Admin here does not require you to remove your point of view or eliminate your participation nor does is hold you to a higher standard as if we are in some unspoken hierarchy.

[NYiron]

I made a judgement of a woman's choice to not be involved with an individual who chooses to use illegal drugs. I did not call him names nor judge him, only the actions and choice.

If you would learn to be mature enough appreciate the perspective of another point of view that differs from yours then you may not be so hostile and defensive of it.

I share your point of view, as I previously stated.

My point is your statements were unnecessary. You came in to kick a man when he was down, otherwise you would have passed by the thread and not said anything. They did not need to be said bottom line.

Indirectly, you did call him names and pass judgement by sharing your unnecessary point of view. You projected your opinions on an individual who just wanted some support in a dark time. Sorry for sticking up for an individual, I guess I'm being pretty immature in doing so.

[Admin]

When I have to be.

Yet passive agression gets your panties all bunched up....

[p5sky]

Passive agressive anyone?

How many ways can a member contradict himself in one night....let me count the ways.

Being an Admin here does not require you to remove your point of view or eliminate your participation nor does is hold you to a higher standard as if we are in some unspoken hierarchy.

I always viewed Admin as a Spoken Hierarchy, I speak of it all the time. And I've always held David Dunn to a higher standard . . . of RESPECT, his avi frightens me into submission.

[NYiron]

Passive agressive anyone?

How many ways can a member contradict himself in one night....let me count the ways.

Being an Admin here does not require you to remove your point of view or eliminate your participation nor does is hold you to a higher standard as if we are in some unspoken hierarchy.

Extremely passive aggressive would be the better way to put it. While being attacked for calling someone out on kicking another while he is down, it's warranted.

Please inform me how I contradicted myself so many times?

[thyrod]

This has to be the best thread sofar well besides bigtex's thread! Haha

[NYiron]

Yet passive agression gets your panties all bunched up....

Not at all but kicking a member when he is down with a unnecessary, passive aggressive, condescending projection of an opinion does. Your still completely missing even a shred of my points and just taking surface definitions.

[David Dunn]

I share your point of view, as I previously stated.

My point is your statements were unnecessary. You came in to kick a man when he was down, otherwise you would have passed by the thread and not said anything. They did not need to be said bottom line.

Indirectly, you did call him names and pass judgement by sharing your unnecessary point of view. You projected your opinions on an individual who just wanted some support in a dark time. Sorry for sticking up for an individual, I guess I'm being pretty immature in doing so.

How or why is my statement unnecessary? Because it is not in line with the majority?

Unnecessary point of view? Is there a necessary point of view?

He chose illegal drugs over a girl. She dumped him. I applauded her for doing so. He has his convictions and so does she.

I am a husband, father and grandfather that may have a bit of experience and wisdom. If that were my daughter I would have been grateful to know I raised her right to make wise decisions in who she associates with socially and personally. If he were my son I would tell him the very same thing I told him here - she made the right decision - and list the reasons.

As was stated before I am not void of opinion or objectiveness simply because i am an Admin. Not to mention the fact that some may glean a little if any foresight from my insight. Men teach boys the folly of their ways and try to help them to behave like men - even when they are sad at the moment.

[madds87]

Anabolic popcorn!!!! Yay!!!

Sorry im a little late in that comment.... yall to fast, to fast....

[Admin]

Not at all but kicking a member when he is down with a unnecessary, passive aggressive, condescending projection of an opinion does. Your still completely missing even a shred of my points and just taking surface definitions.

I think we all got your point. The fragile man needs supports....but its ok to call the girl a ****.

And its ok for you to be an ******* when the need arises.

But nobody else can...

[crispycrown]

It surprises me no one else has seen the other side of dunns argument..

You said "any intelligent mature young woman would kick your ass to the curb"

You honestly just called everyone's gf on this board who uses illegally stupid with low self esteem. My girl is amazingly smart and holds her head higher than any other girl I know. She doesn't dress slutty, doesn't go partying, and so what if she dates a guy on juice you just made a dick move on judging her character.

Yes calling a girl a c*** is messed up but is calling all girls who date juice heads stupid and shallow any better?

[NYiron]

How or why is my statement unnecessary? Because it is not in line with the majority?

Unnecessary point of view? Is there a necessary point of view?

He chose a illegal drugs over a girl. She dumped him. I applauded her for doing so. He has his convictions and so does she.

I am a husband, father and grandfather that may have a bit of experience and wisdom. If that were my daughter I would have been grateful to know I raised her right to make wise decisions in who she associates with socially and personally. If he were my son I would tell him the very same thing I told him here - she made the right decision - and list the reasons.

As was stated before I am not void of opinion or objectiveness simply because i am an Admin. Not to mention the fact that some may glean a little if any foresight from my insight. Men teach boys the folly of their ways and try to help them to behave like men - even when they are sad at the moment.

Thank you for clearing that up. Fact is your statements were not needed, the op knew he messed up and was only looking for support. Instead he got your judgement, hence putting him down. That's my point but I guess you don't see the wrong in putting someone down when they need help. Sorry, I did not realize how wise and experienced you are. I guess it's okay once your a grandfather to put people down when they're in need.

[vidapreta]

It surprises me no one else has seen the other side of dunns argument..

You said "any intelligent mature young woman would kick your ass to the curb"

You honestly just called everyone's gf on this board who uses illegally stupid with low self esteem. My girl is amazingly smart and holds her head higher than any other girl I know. She doesn't dress slutty, doesn't go partying, and so what if she dates a guy on juice you just made a dick move on judging her character.

Yes calling a girl a c*** is messed up but is calling all girls who date juice heads stupid and shallow any better?

WOW

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[madds87]

It surprises me no one else has seen the other side of dunns argument..

You said "any intelligent mature young woman would kick your ass to the curb"

You honestly just called everyone's gf on this board who uses illegally stupid with low self esteem. My girl is amazingly smart and holds her head higher than any other girl I know. She doesn't dress slutty, doesn't go partying, and so what if she dates a guy on juice you just made a dick move on judging her character.

Yes calling a girl a c*** is messed up but is calling all girls who date juice heads stupid and shallow any better?

Ooooo i didnt see that one....

Everyone must be coming off of a cycle or dieting very hard cause everyone sounds like they have a vag between there legs lol....

Cant we all just get along?

[David Dunn]

It surprises me no one else has seen the other side of dunns argument..

You said "any intelligent mature young woman would kick your ass to the curb"

You honestly just called everyone's gf on this board who uses illegally stupid with low self esteem. My girl is amazingly smart and holds her head higher than any other girl I know. She doesn't dress slutty, doesn't go partying, and so what if she dates a guy on juice you just made a dick move on judging her character.

Yes calling a girl a c*** is messed up but is calling all girls who date juice heads stupid and shallow any better?

He chose the steroids over her and she kicked him to the curb.

Your girl has no issue with it so they are not the same. A girl who settles for someone or something that she morally or ethically disagrees with is a different matter. This girl disagreed and sent him on his way. Your girl does not so there is no issue.

She was the intelligent and mature girl in question. You took my intelligent and mature comment, directed at her, and turned it into calling your girl and all girls who date juicers stupid and shallow.

[NYiron]

I think we all got your point. The fragile man needs supports....but its ok to call the girl a ****.

And its ok for you to be an ******* when the need arises.

But nobody else can...

Not okay to call a woman names, never said that nor were any of my statements concerned with that.

Exactly, when the need arises. There was no need for his statements other then to negatively judge, but there were for mine. I did not become an a$$ until i was challenged from multiple directions. I'm done here I don't feel like going back and forth any more, getting kinda sleepy. (Not sarcastic): thank you for the argumentative chess match. I do actually believe arguments and challenges granted the two sides have thick skins can be intellectually stimulating.

[Admin]

This has to be the best thread sofar well besides bigtex's thread! Haha

Yes, we have evolved to white knighting (I believe this is the right term) men.......


And get highly offended to passive agressive people.