May have lost girlfriend due to steroids :(

[Cheif]

My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha

I've been doing that for years. Lmao. My wife accepts, but it's nice. If we argue its not automatically my fault because I have "roid rage". Lol even though I never get mad or yell, it's just easy to blame sh*t on.

[David Dunn]

You risk incarceration, infertility, impotence, liver disease, kidney diseases, heart disease, hypertension and a host of other complications.

All of these factors disqualify you as ideal mate candidates and everything about you screams "stay far away" for a girl with a healthy self-esteem and a head on her shoulders. Unless of course you want a woman that is as shallow to believe that your physiques make you an ideal mate.

[avyion12]

I told her I was planning to inject.

If this really was the reason it's terrible.

We were in the early stages, and if we were established a bit longer chances are she might have accepted it later on.

this.
my gf (of almost 1y) is fine with me pinning, she's seen it and does not mind. doesn't like to see it, but accepts it. however, if i told her a month in i wanted to, she'd prob react similarly.

[JoeySon]

You risk incarceration, infertility, impotence, liver disease, kidney diseases, heart disease, hypertension and a host of other complications.

All of these factors disqualify you as ideal mate candidates and everything about you screams "stay far away" for a girl with a healthy self-esteem and a head on her shoulders. Unless of course you want a woman that is as shallow to believe that your physiques make you an ideal mate.

This^

Even if you think you use AAS "safely" there is still always a possibility of negative side effects. So how can you bash a girl for not wanting you to do anything that could potentially harm you?

If she looks at you as anything more then a fling she likely wants to be with you for the long haul. She's going to want you to be a safe and healthy spouse/father.

My advice for the OP, if you really like her that much, stop using steroids lol it's pretty simple

[leftside1]

My wife Just started questioning me about all the pills I'm taking and she went on the Internet and started looking up all the names of the product Also need to mention she is a police officer so not cool with anything guess I will be putting my PH pills In multivitamin bottle now ha ha

Just make sure you keep a written note with what goodies are in what bottles. Simply email yourself a note. Vitamin B = Superdrol, Vitamin C = Anavar, etc.

But for gods sake - make sure she doesn't start taking your "vitamins"! Seriously, it's probably better you get some tribulus or tongkat ali bottles and put the goodies inside these. She is unlikely going to be stealing natty test boosters.

[FL3X MAGNUM]

I was crazy about this girl.

She didn't seem too worried about the pills, but when I mentioned injecting she kind of seemed taken aback.

It was the next day she ended it. The only reason I got was "I don't agree with some stuff you do".

Let this be a lesson to all; this is a stigma right up there with heroin, and it really can have a negative impact on your life if you so choose to be forthcoming.

I am so down right now.

If she ended it that quick she was just looking for an excuse to get out. Nothing you could do. If a girl loves you enough she shouldn't let that **** hurt the relationship, unless the use of it somehow hinders the relationship.

[mik14]

This^

Even if you think you use AAS "safely" there is still always a possibility of negative side effects. So how can you bash a girl for not wanting you to do anything that could potentially harm you?

If she looks at you as anything more then a fling she likely wants to be with you for the long haul. She's going to want you to be a safe and healthy spouse/father.

My advice for the OP, if you really like her that much, stop using steroids lol it's pretty simple

I agree with this!

[JD261985]

I feel for you man sorry about that but if she's willing to make quick decisions over something she doesn't know anything about maybe its for the best.

What I did was had my girl watch bigger faster stronger with me it really allowed for a more open conversation and some broken stigmas associated with it all.

Keep your head up and keep lifting my man! She'll be sorry when you still look like a Greek god when you bump into her in the future!

I'm coming to learn very fast that women in general aren't all that impressed by the super muscular look....it really is about who you are as a person...the rest means nothing...she may run into him a year from now and he may have the body of a greek God...but I doubt she'll care...think about it from an outside perspective...the lengths we go to just to look better and build muscle..to some it seems like desperation and insecurity..may get bashed for saying this but I'll only get bashed out of a defensive nature..but I think I'm right..also when someone who doesn't juice finds out that someone else uses roids the impressive factor goes out the window and that's enough to turn anybody off

[ThunderHumper]

I'm coming to learn very fast that women in general aren't all that impressed by the super muscular look....it really is about who you are as a person...the rest means nothing...she may run into him a year from now and he may have the body of a greek God...but I doubt she'll care...think about it from an outside perspective...the lengths we go to just to look better and build muscle..to some it seems like desperation and insecurity..may get bashed for saying this but I'll only get bashed out of a defensive nature..but I think I'm right..also when someone who doesn't juice finds out that someone else uses roids the impressive factor goes out the window and that's enough to turn anybody off

im pretty sure youre right. however, the gym factor has effects than physique. one big thing that turns women on is security. the confidence a guy gets from the gym helps portray that feeling. they also like it when men are passionate about something, and that pretty much goes for anything. this whole idea goes outthe fukin window when a shallow ass women gets involved though, which majority of women are

[SDking]

Probably for the best man.. if she was so quick to leave you over a passion a love for bb then its prob best she left man, you dont need a girl like that around. there are much better woman out there! find one that can understand and accept your love for bb!

[mik14]

im pretty sure youre right. however, the gym factor has effects than physique. one big thing that turns women on is security. the confidence a guy gets from the gym helps portray that feeling. they also like it when men are passionate about something, and that pretty much goes for anything. this whole idea goes outthe fukin window when a shallow ass women gets involved though, which majority of women are

So if you meet some hot women that looked awesome and you thought she is the one you could continue with for the long hall, then you found out she was sniffing coke or some drug every day of week I bet it would change your thoughts about the long hall. If it were me personally id through her straight out the front door!

I don't think it's the body building thing she was concerned about, lol, maybe the fact his injecting steroids which majority of girls don't have a clue about and it's just a another drug that makes us huge and angry! Put yourself in her shoes.

I know some times I think about if and feel like although I have to work my arse of in the gym there are guys out there that have never touched the stuff and look better then me so I have taken the easier path, I feel like I have cheated my way.
So I don't blame women for thinking that cause I also feel ashamed sometimes.... But it's addictive, at some point is has to come to a end. So why not be that bit more determined and stronger and go natural! And be proud of what you have gained with out the push of drugs only your pure determination..... Or am I carrying on with bull**** now! Lol

[ThunderHumper]

thats a fallacy arguement. you cant compare steroids to shooting coke. for most people, it doesnt alter their state of mind or turn into a mental addiction to the levels of a street drug like coke

but regardless, i see your point. from her perspective, she expects a harder relationship via roid rage and what not. fact of the matter is that not everyone gets that aggressive side effect. its a variable she didnt even bother to check into or experiment, for all she knows, op could be a jolly muther****er all day from a workout high

[mik14]

Yea I guess!

I guess there is a risk with everything we do!

[R1187]

My advice for the OP, if you really like her that much, stop using steroids lol it's pretty simple

Well it's too late at this point. I tried to address the issue but she claims we're too different so there's probably more going on anyway.

As far as potentially harming yourself - cigs and booze can arguably be more detrimental to your health, but none of those have the stigma that AAS does.

One thing that seems clear is that people's perceptions of drugs are almost entirely based on legal status, and not how safe/harmful it really is.

The best example is pot. Even doctors agree it's safer than alcohol, but its legal status casts the stigma of "drug addict" upon all who use it.

[JoeySon]

Well it's too late at this point. I tried to address the issue but she claims we're too different so there's probably more going on anyway.

As far as potentially harming yourself - cigs and booze can arguably be more detrimental to your health, but none of those have the stigma that AAS does.

One thing that seems clear is that people's perceptions of drugs are almost entirely based on legal status, and not how safe/harmful it really is.

The best example is pot. Even doctors agree it's safer than alcohol, but its legal status casts the stigma of "drug addict" upon all who use it.

I completely agree with you. I'm not trying to bash AAS at all I'm just saying I can completely understand a girl not putting up with it.

Sorry it didn't work out for you. Maybe if she gets a little time to cool off she'll be willing to reason with you if you drop the juice.

[DAdams91982]

Well it's too late at this point. I tried to address the issue but she claims we're too different so there's probably more going on anyway.

As far as potentially harming yourself - cigs and booze can arguably be more detrimental to your health, but none of those have the stigma that AAS does.

One thing that seems clear is that people's perceptions of drugs are almost entirely based on legal status, and not how safe/harmful it really is.

The best example is pot. Even doctors agree it's safer than alcohol, but its legal status casts the stigma of "drug addict" upon all who use it.

The entire Tobacco/Alcohol argument is a logical fallacy. Nothing but a red herring to the argument of AAS.

Do you know why tobacco and alcohol are legal? They sorta go back several thousand years, and are used in many religion and ceremonial events. AAS is new in the grand scheme of things, and for the most part need to be injected directly into muscle. The need for the syringe is going to skew the view of AAS just for that fact.

As for the Marijuana, I fully agree with you on that. You can thank political propaganda and lobbyist for that travesty.

Oh, and BTW... you lost a girlfriend? OR you gained your singlehood? It is all about perception my friend!

[msrider]

Hey Bro Sorry to hear this about your girl. I just recently started my first cycle 7 weeks ago. Anyways I was gunna hide it from my wife. Just before I started I told her what I was planning. She was pissed. Ya see I use to b a meth junkie and that's the same way she saw me injecting steroids. But with time she seen it wasn't that bad. She just likes the way I look now. Anyways keep ur head up bro, lots of chicks out there that will love ur body bro. Keep killing it in the gym!

[David Dunn]

Well it's too late at this point. I tried to address the issue but she claims we're too different so there's probably more going on anyway.

As far as potentially harming yourself - cigs and booze can arguably be more detrimental to your health, but none of those have the stigma that AAS does.

One thing that seems clear is that people's perceptions of drugs are almost entirely based on legal status, and not how safe/harmful it really is.

The best example is pot. Even doctors agree it's safer than alcohol, but its legal status casts the stigma of "drug addict" upon all who use it.

Face it. Men are not the only ones with a check list of disqualifications. Males are so hypocritical in this aspect.

BTW - alcohol and tabacco have a stigma as well these days. Smoking is outright stupid regardless of it's social or legal status. Woman that abuse alcohol are also a warning sign. This applies to males as well as females.

She has a line and you crossed it. You can justify and explain your use in every and any way you want. Your peers will give you comfort but at the end of the day when the woman says no...she means no. That is admirable.

[Jraw]

My girlfriend just wants me to look as big and good as possible. Even paying for part of my gear if I needed it.

[lamonster14]

Starts with c and rhymes with bunt.