May have lost girlfriend due to steroids :(
- 10-14-2012, 10:33 PM
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- 10-14-2012, 10:37 PM
10-14-2012, 10:50 PM
I'm coming to learn very fast that women in general aren't all that impressed by the super muscular look....it really is about who you are as a person...the rest means nothing...she may run into him a year from now and he may have the body of a greek God...but I doubt she'll care...think about it from an outside perspective...the lengths we go to just to look better and build muscle..to some it seems like desperation and insecurity..may get bashed for saying this but I'll only get bashed out of a defensive nature..but I think I'm right..also when someone who doesn't juice finds out that someone else uses roids the impressive factor goes out the window and that's enough to turn anybody offOriginally Posted by crispycrown
10-14-2012, 11:19 PM
im pretty sure youre right. however, the gym factor has effects than physique. one big thing that turns women on is security. the confidence a guy gets from the gym helps portray that feeling. they also like it when men are passionate about something, and that pretty much goes for anything. this whole idea goes outthe fukin window when a shallow ass women gets involved though, which majority of women areOriginally Posted by JD261985
10-14-2012, 11:22 PM
Probably for the best man.. if she was so quick to leave you over a passion a love for bb then its prob best she left man, you dont need a girl like that around. there are much better woman out there! find one that can understand and accept your love for bb!
10-15-2012, 12:22 AM
So if you meet some hot women that looked awesome and you thought she is the one you could continue with for the long hall, then you found out she was sniffing coke or some drug every day of week I bet it would change your thoughts about the long hall. If it were me personally id through her straight out the front door!Originally Posted by ThunderHumper
I don't think it's the body building thing she was concerned about, lol, maybe the fact his injecting steroids which majority of girls don't have a clue about and it's just a another drug that makes us huge and angry! Put yourself in her shoes.
I know some times I think about if and feel like although I have to work my arse of in the gym there are guys out there that have never touched the stuff and look better then me so I have taken the easier path, I feel like I have cheated my way.
So I don't blame women for thinking that cause I also feel ashamed sometimes.... But it's addictive, at some point is has to come to a end. So why not be that bit more determined and stronger and go natural! And be proud of what you have gained with out the push of drugs only your pure determination..... Or am I carrying on with bull**** now! Lol
10-15-2012, 12:46 AM
thats a fallacy arguement. you cant compare steroids to shooting coke. for most people, it doesnt alter their state of mind or turn into a mental addiction to the levels of a street drug like coke
but regardless, i see your point. from her perspective, she expects a harder relationship via roid rage and what not. fact of the matter is that not everyone gets that aggressive side effect. its a variable she didnt even bother to check into or experiment, for all she knows, op could be a jolly muther****er all day from a workout high
10-15-2012, 12:52 AM
10-15-2012, 05:07 AM
As far as potentially harming yourself - cigs and booze can arguably be more detrimental to your health, but none of those have the stigma that AAS does.
One thing that seems clear is that people's perceptions of drugs are almost entirely based on legal status, and not how safe/harmful it really is.
The best example is pot. Even doctors agree it's safer than alcohol, but its legal status casts the stigma of "drug addict" upon all who use it.
10-15-2012, 08:42 AM
Sorry it didn't work out for you. Maybe if she gets a little time to cool off she'll be willing to reason with you if you drop the juice.
10-15-2012, 09:00 AM
Do you know why tobacco and alcohol are legal? They sorta go back several thousand years, and are used in many religion and ceremonial events. AAS is new in the grand scheme of things, and for the most part need to be injected directly into muscle. The need for the syringe is going to skew the view of AAS just for that fact.
As for the Marijuana, I fully agree with you on that. You can thank political propaganda and lobbyist for that travesty.
Oh, and BTW... you lost a girlfriend? OR you gained your singlehood? It is all about perception my friend!
The Historic PES Legend
10-15-2012, 09:14 AM
Hey Bro Sorry to hear this about your girl. I just recently started my first cycle 7 weeks ago. Anyways I was gunna hide it from my wife. Just before I started I told her what I was planning. She was pissed. Ya see I use to b a meth junkie and that's the same way she saw me injecting steroids. But with time she seen it wasn't that bad. She just likes the way I look now. Anyways keep ur head up bro, lots of chicks out there that will love ur body bro. Keep killing it in the gym!
10-15-2012, 09:59 AM
BTW - alcohol and tabacco have a stigma as well these days. Smoking is outright stupid regardless of it's social or legal status. Woman that abuse alcohol are also a warning sign. This applies to males as well as females.
She has a line and you crossed it. You can justify and explain your use in every and any way you want. Your peers will give you comfort but at the end of the day when the woman says no...she means no. That is admirable.
10-15-2012, 10:52 AM
My girlfriend just wants me to look as big and good as possible. Even paying for part of my gear if I needed it.
10-15-2012, 01:21 PM
10-15-2012, 02:19 PM
10-15-2012, 02:26 PM
You are right man. That's why I am honest with women about my use. My woman now just doesn't care about AAS and is actually pretty knowledgeable on the different types and their sides. She would leave me if I ever started drinking again or used narcotics. Honesty is key and if its something the don't want you got 2 choices..... quit them or quit aas.Originally Posted by DAdams91982
The advice I give is just that... Advice, purely my opinion. Not medical advice
10-15-2012, 03:07 PM
10-15-2012, 03:09 PM
10-15-2012, 06:21 PM
I don't get you guys bashing this girl for not putting up with it...and seriously? She's a ****? C'mon
10-15-2012, 06:44 PM
Haha yeah lucky for me my gf is ey okay with it all. She's actually going to buy my first cycle. I also put the time in teacher her everything I know. From a couple of my friends that are using, she laughs at because they don't work for Em due to ahitty diets and poor training. All she says is don't **** around like they do.
10-15-2012, 08:12 PM
10-15-2012, 08:46 PM
10-15-2012, 08:48 PM
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