Hahaha I'm stealing that one from you.
I saw an episode of a news program many years ago(20/20)if I recall the program correctly.Anyway,they had hidden cameras on a very popular California beach.They had a pasty,overweight guy walk the beach an attempt to engage women in conversation.He got shot down every single time.
Agreed.I actually meant to clarify my original post.I do not actively seek out bad girls.I actually get involved with the ones that appear to be good girls on my initial interactions with them.When I start dating them seriously,I find out that the good girl image was a front,and now I am emotionally involved with a girl who is in reality a closet whore.When I figure out I have been decieved,I have a hard time dealing with it,because I invested real emotion in something that was a lie.
Yea it's a tricky game and there is no "formula" or pattern...You have to give each person a chance to show their cards and don't ever "assume" you know them before you actually get to "know" them
Agreed.I thought I had been around and was immune to every twisted thing a girl can do to your soul.A crazy little redhead I got involved with a year ago proved me wrong.
That's because gingers have no souls.
you beat me to it..., he's right. Gingers have no souls... daywalkers.
You got that right.That is what really fouled me up about the whole thing.At least the girls that did me wrong in the past had some remorse over it.This girl could cut you without the slightest regret.
I have no personal experience with this but through friends I have never heard a good review.
Okie girls are dangerous. I'm from central Texas and had a girl from Tahlequah rip me to pieces.
Damn,are you serious?If so,PM and tell me the details.It is somewhat important for me to know.We still have a little war going on.I was friends with her family.When I figured out she was whoring around,she told everyone I was making it up out of spite.
it was supposed to be a joke bro, relax....LOL
Lol!The only reason I even still care at all about it is that she will not leave it alone.She stalks my FB,tries to hack her way into it(actually managed to once).For a girl that hates me so much,cannot figure out why she is obsessed with what I am doing these days or who I am seeing.
Oklahoma has more women in prison than any other state.That in itself will tell you a lot about Okie girls.I always told myself that if I ever did get married,it would not be to a native Oklahoman.Something inherently wrong with the people from this state.
bitches want their cake and wanna eat it too, and some ****ing ice cream bro. What I would do is try to have sex with her friends and really **** her mind up. Start taking down her friends like your duck hunting bro, you'll be glad you did
Yeah,it is crazy isn`t it.I thought I have been around and thought I had seen everything in a woman,but this little girl taught me I had not seen anything.
The two kind of go hand in hand,when you think about it.We spend an inordinate amount of time pursuing relationships,then,more times than not,when we achieve that goal,we wonder why we put so much effort into it when the reality of the person we build said relationship with almost always leaves us disappointed.
Lol it really did.
Man I totally understand that. It just feels normal to ask a woman to hang out, but askin a guy what hes doin that weekend is just wierd. I always think either he's gonna think I'm hittin on him or I'm pathetic and desperate for friends lol. All the people I actually hang out with I've either known for years or cuz my fiance hangs out with their wife and I had no choice but to get to know em.
All to reminiscent of "I Love You, Man" lol.
This is true especially in NYC everybody is scared to just be real. Way too busy pretending to be cool to actually have a good time.
Lol!
hell no.. thats how I got OUT of shape...much better off since I dropped those habits. still game a little but, high and gaming=hours+fast food+18pack for me... not good.
the honesty just too brutal.
It's ok TC. They must be on their off cycle...
The great quantity of confidence you aquire from the gym is not helping your social life, it seems. I've got more confidence in approaching people now than when I was a hardcore gym rat (I've been away due to an injury). And I am way smaller than I used to be. The thing that's totally different about me now is that I'm not obsessed with being big - I can go out with a smaller arms wearing a t-shirt and not care what anyone thinks. I just don't care. And it is so nice not to care. Trust me, I could never do that before. It might be because I'm older, and thus I value what time I have left on earth. Then again I still see older men who are obsessed with their looks. Too bad for them. I have seen too many examples of men who don't have muscle who don't have a full head of hair yet do well in the social arena. And now with the pick up industry in full vogue (PUA's) and the great number of Youtube videos on said subject, there's no reason for any man of any age not to practice study a few PUA techniques that will help them overcome something like approach anxiety. The PUA industry was not as prominent ten years ago as it is today. If you have some discetional income you can throw around then I would by all means go to a PUA boot camp. You think your life changed when you transformed your physique? You should see what happens to a man once he goes from being a shy wall flower to a PUA. That's a type of transformation second to none - it's like a religous experience.
I have..aspergers and bipolar and I was given all these pills as a child retalin, paczil, ect. Which I'm sure only made things worse. So I don't even know if I can change to be honest with you I sometimes feel like I've lost hope and when it comes to women all I can ever hope for is meanless sex, because I have no idea how to stay in a relationship. Pills have only made **** worse, passive no sex drive no emotion, ect. This is the reason I started drinking when I was younger...bad idea when everytime you get drunk you cry in the corner somewhere.
Have you tried pramipexole?This stuff will resurrect most peoples sex drive and confidence.Might need a mood stabilizer,though,given that you said you are bipolar.
