did the girlfriend know about the wife beforehand?Yeah actually that was it right there. The Rise Guys Morning Show. I don't live in SC, but I listen to it in the morning along with the Russ Par ? something like that.
did the girlfriend know about the wife beforehand?Yeah actually that was it right there. The Rise Guys Morning Show. I don't live in SC, but I listen to it in the morning along with the Russ Par ? something like that.
No, she found out b/c the wife contacted her...so I guess that makes it sorta innocent.did the girlfriend know about the wife beforehand?
Interesting though how these guys were still gettin layed though...Probably in college one of the dumber things that I did was join my fraternity. I know there is this whole stereotypical type of thing that you see in animal house, but in reality it greatly differs from house to house.
Living in I'd hear about the way guys would talk about these girls, and at the same time how degrading it was to them. It was probably a combination of my own ethics and conscience, but this was something that I couldn't be ok with. I know a lot of guys who did have girlfriends did cheat on them as well. I did have a slight bit of sympathy for some of the girls getting used, but then again whose fault is it when you make the same mistake twice.
This really changed my perspective a lot, but it also went to show me what some people are really like. People here think I'm not as audacious as I am in real life, however that is not the truth. When I questioned a lot of what they were doing and tried to rationalized what was going on, of course the 'en masse' didn't quite agree with me, and this put my in a very negative light.....actually even till now and it has been 1 year since I graduated. I don't really know, but I'm sure the reasoning is a combination of peer pressure, immaturity, lack of personal integrity or whatever, but I'm sure it is all of the above.
I think the most challenging part about this is how the women were not seen as 'people' but rather objects which is pretty unfortunate actually.
btw, just for the record this is solely my own experience. I'm not bashing the greek system, or even other chapters of my own house, just only my own house and my own chapter.
lol- I went Radford, maybe THATS why I didn't really sleep around :think:...STDs are on a HUGE climb in the past two years. There were over 1 million reported cases of Clamydia alone in the US this year. The most EVER recorded for an STD, not to mention the rest increased dramatically as well. The reason behind it? The sharp increase in men and women having multiple sexual partners, whether honestly or through cheating.
Welcome to the new world, where chivalry has become a word most young adults don't even know. "Isn't it something to do with knights or something...derrrr". When a generation of people see their parents splitting up 50% of the time, and then typically having multiple marriages, why would you think they'd be any different?
It is possible some girls do care. Also too at the same time I find a lot of females contradicting themselves in what they say and what their actions imply. I think I've heard my fair share of women who play the same tune about not being able to find 'the right guy', however they are typically the ones who expect to find the 'right guy' by going to the bars and sleeping with them.Interesting though how these guys were still gettin layed though...
Sure enough, do you even think the females asked about if they were with anyone?.. do you think they would have even cared? ..I don't think they would, or at least many wouldn't.
Although actually ASK them, and OF COURSE THEY WOULD HAVE CARED.
... But I look to a womans ACTIONS over her words ,%99 of the time. For GOOD reason.
I found, that when guys, in general, talk badly about women, it's the ones that sleep around, or they ASSUME they do becasue THEY slept with em (Doesnt mean its true though).
The reason, I think, that guys look down upon that, and women look upon that too, is that When a guy tries to be with as many females as he can, he doing what he's supposed to be doing (and biologicly designed for)... Tring to poke as many females as he can.
It's the womans role, to be SELECTIVE about the men she sleeps with. (This is how we evolve and adapt, the women are a steady "constant", while evolutionary changes are made through the males, depending on needs and such). When a woman sleeps with every guy she comes accross, she's basicly going against her natural duty so to speak.
I have no grudges against females, but I too, for reasons that were until recently, unknown to me, would feel some seemingly undeserved negativity towards a woman who I KNEW didn't care, ior would sleep around with seemingly everyone. I would loose my desire to do so if someone told me this as well.
this relates to the question that women commonly ask, yet hardly ever really care about finding the answer to,.. "Why is it a guy can sleep with a bunch of girls, and be a stud, while when a woman does this, she's a whore?"
I really can not attest to any outside influence giving me this feeling, of it somehow being "unattractive", or just "not the way it's supposed to be" type deal.
I mean, yes, uit's portrayed in the media some, and in movies, but that's in reflection to the way it's viewed in real life.
While I TOTALLY HATE those guys who are always " This one slut", or "This one b!tch.." , I think its them making a broad statement, about just their perceptions.
It's not right by any means, but I can at least see where their attitude comes from.
Chances are, who ever they were talking badly about was really a sweet girl ya know.
ReaperX I think its based off the group of people. I was in a fraternity in college and I can say 90% of the guys in my fraternity were good guys and didn't sleep around on their gfs or just sleep with anything that moved. Then again I knew other fraternity's on campus that were the exact opposite (they eventually got kicked off campus for reasons I can't be bothered to explain).
I think its a mentality thing and how you were raised. I know my parents stressed that you always be open and honest with your significant other. That led to me never cheating on a girlfriend A) Because its wrong and B) Because its happened to me and I know how much it sucks a$$.
I also think there has been a shift in main stream society from monogomy to rampant sexual looseness (for lack of a better word). Slowly standards have evened out so that if men can sleep with multiple people, then women can too. Nothing wrong with that, it used to be a double standard (and still can be sometimes). Just take a look at the most recent data...STDs are on a HUGE climb in the past two years. There were over 1 million reported cases of Clamydia alone in the US this year. The most EVER recorded for an STD, not to mention the rest increased dramatically as well. The reason behind it? The sharp increase in men and women having multiple sexual partners, whether honestly or through cheating.
Welcome to the new world, where chivalry has become a word most young adults don't even know. "Isn't it something to do with knights or something...derrrr". When a generation of people see their parents splitting up 50% of the time, and then typically having multiple marriages, why would you think they'd be any different?
That's a VERY round about way to get to the link, but yes. Double your dating was something I found years ago. It's actually VERY BASIC, but many interesting chapters on the biology of it all.I can't see this link because it is blocked at work, but I think this summarizes what you were saying:
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/double-your-dating-articles/getti
ng-back-with-exgirlfriend.htm
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